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RAZD
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Message 4 of 174 (685762)
12-26-2012 5:59 PM
Reply to: Message 1 by foreveryoung
12-26-2012 1:22 PM


Hi foreveryoung,
... there are other qualities about me that prevent me from being seen as mister congeniality.
It is my personal opinion that human intelligence evolved to attract mates by being creative, and that this is a fisherian runaway feedback system (see Sexual Selection, Stasis, Runaway Selection, Dimorphism, & Human Evolution).
This explains why dancers, singers, actors, etcetera, are generally considered attractive in spite of looks and rather than intelligent good looking people.
A sense of humor goes a long way. You could also take dancing lessons -- whether you can dance or not.
I feel like a huge loser for even considering this possibility, but I am at my wits end. Has anyone ever had experience with these sites and are they a scam as I suspect they are?
Like NoNukes (Message 3) I have anecdotal evidence of a woman that married (second marriage) a foreigner and ended up in an verbally abusive marriage (only happens in private so her kids don't see it).
But I also know of some folks that are happily married but from different countries.
Enjoy

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RAZD
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Message 104 of 174 (687559)
01-12-2013 6:09 PM
Reply to: Message 103 by Omnivorous
01-12-2013 9:56 AM


and making love with a bony girl causes bruises ...
Enjoy

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RAZD
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Message 110 of 174 (687641)
01-14-2013 6:48 PM
Reply to: Message 106 by AZPaul3
01-13-2013 11:02 PM


Compatibility Test?
not that there's anything wrong with that.
I also ran across this
Yes, No, Maybe So: A Sexual Inventory Stocklist | Scarleteen
quote:
Clear, truthful and open communication is a must with partnered sex. It's the best way to assure everyone is fully and freely consenting as well as physically and emotionally safe; to help sex and sexual relationships be as satisfying, positive and awesome as they can be. We can't just know or guess what we or others want or need, like or dislike, are or are not okay with: we need to communicate those things and have them communicated to us.
They have a list of questions to help you know what the questions are and see how you stand on them.
Enjoy

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