Hi foreveryoung,
... there are other qualities about me that prevent me from being seen as mister congeniality.
It is my personal opinion that human intelligence evolved to attract mates by being creative, and that this is a fisherian runaway feedback system (see
Sexual Selection, Stasis, Runaway Selection, Dimorphism, & Human Evolution).
This explains why dancers, singers, actors, etcetera, are generally considered attractive in spite of looks and rather than intelligent good looking people.
A sense of humor goes a long way. You could also take dancing lessons -- whether you can dance or not.
I feel like a huge loser for even considering this possibility, but I am at my wits end. Has anyone ever had experience with these sites and are they a scam as I suspect they are?
Like NoNukes (
Message 3) I have anecdotal evidence of a woman that married (second marriage) a foreigner and ended up in an verbally abusive marriage (only happens in private so her kids don't see it).
But I also know of some folks that are happily married but from different countries.
Enjoy