Love is a concious decision; a word we use to describe how we feel about something or someone that no other word suffices and yet it has a infinite meanings. We are forever redefining this word (love) in our interactions, relationships and connections with others. Love is the emotional mirror that reflects our needs, fears, desires. We are always one step removed from full attainment and yet forever intangled in our loves. Love is what we want, but do we ever know what that is.
.you tend not to love things that you dislike or don't get gratification from.
Hmmmm...I don't know. It seems to me that one of the worse and un-gratifying feelings is unreturned love. How many times have we heard..."I hate you..but I love you...but I hate your F@#&%#ing guts!! But I love you."