You could economize by sleeping with the special person. That way, you would spend time with this person, yet you would get rid of the sleep deprivation. You could also alter the purpose of the program you're writing: make it produce lots of written stuff and your paper writing fatique will soon vanish. That leaves you with enough time on your hands to pester the inhabitants of this forum.
"It's amazing what you can learn from DNA." - Desdamona.