Hi, Monk--I picked your latest message as a portal to the thread since you were the last to mention radio.
In the discussions so far about the probable windows of identifiable broadcasts, I think one intriguing consideration has been neglected.
In our own technological history, remote means of communication were as startling as magic, in part because we have no natural senses with that capability. Telegraph and radio were sensorially undetectable means of communication; they were
private in a particular way. Our creaturely sense of caution was not invoked by a medium we could not perceive, and we were soon shouting out to the universe without much thought given to who might be listening.
Other species communicate at great distances: elephants and whales, for example, using sound. Other species--sharks, moles(?)--detect prey by directly sensing their electromagnetic fields.
Assume a world where remote communication is common and characteristic of the intelligent, technologically advanced species that arises there. One might learn to be extremely cautious about radiating any detectable broadcast if one's ancestors were predated by velociraptors (or cheetahs) with antennae.
We cannot assume that every civilization that can broadcast, will.