Could you provide the link to where the original statement was made so I can see the context of the comment?
I understand what you are trying to ask, I think. Is it possible for you to make your post more to the point and less emotional?
I think what you are asking is: Does a healthy woman, who chose to have sex with a man really have the right to terminate a normal healthy pregnancy if it is undesired? If yes, what or who gives her that right?
What gives her the right to knowingly engage in sexual intercourse, which has the sole purpose of reproduction, but terminate the reproductive process once it has begun?
If that is what you are wanting to discuss, I suggest you word your OP better, less emotional.
As worded, it is going to go down the wrong path.
Putting the shoe on the other foot.
Does a man have the right to engage in sexual intercourse, which has the sole purpose of reproduction, if he does not truly wish to reproduce?
IOW, what gives humans the right to engage in sexual intercourse if they don't wish to reproduce?
Maybe looking at both those question would be better way for the discussion to go to avoid the abortion issue. Just a thought.