Do you try and talk to her other than when bumping into her?
The best thing to do is be yourself, and just engage her in normal conversation, try not to blather on about you and your likes and so on. Get her to talk about herself and her likes and dislikes. People get bored listening to others talk about their lives but love talking about theirs. For example, casually make a comment about a band currently playing on the radio and ask so do you like these guys? she will answer yes no or get lost, and you take it from there.
She will be interested in you if you are genuinely interested in her. I don’t mean in a horizontal jogging kind of interested but actually interested in her thoughts ideas hobbies and so on.
So get her talking about herself and just be yourself..
But you cant make her like you. Some people don’t get on, many ,many loves are destined to be unrequited and if this is to be one of them then there is little you can do.
I love some one deeply. She is also one of a very tight group of extremely good friends of mine, but she has stated twice that we can never be more then friends. I have to live with that despite loving her with all my heart.
That’s all I got.
This message has been edited by ohnhai, 01-29-2005 10:04 AM
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