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kalimero
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Message 95 of 292 (304708)
04-17-2006 8:25 AM
Reply to: Message 92 by riVeRraT
04-17-2006 6:35 AM


Re: Rsex
Saw my mom yesterday, told her, hey mom, thanks for not getting an abortion.
That is not an argument, because there is no person that can thank his/her mother for having an abortion. Every person today has a mother that didnt have an abortion (when he/she was a fetus). Therfore, the only thing you are saying is that you are alive, and that is redundant. I bet if she had gotten an abortion you wouldnt be saying that. But I know of alot of people that wish that there mother would have gotten an abortion, and maybe waited for her to be ready for a baby or taken better care of other siblings.
edited for typing mistake
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kalimero
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Message 98 of 292 (304738)
04-17-2006 11:38 AM
Reply to: Message 96 by riVeRraT
04-17-2006 10:02 AM


Re: Rsex
Well isn't that just the whole point right there in a nutshell?
No it isnt because you have no situation to compare the situation for which you give graditude to. Thats why it isnt an argument.
All hail the reproduction process!!!
I was just pointing out the redundancy - you dont have to be , just be .
I only said it once.
If I said thanks, then I must be happy about it.
once too many, because its obvious. The fact that your happy about being born has nothing to do with the illegitimacy you proclaim this procedure. You have to equate the situation in which you are born and are happy, with the situation in which you are born and are not happy, and you cant do that. So you have to realise that there are people that there are people that would be better of not having any more babies dispite having sex. The fetus is irrelevant until it is conscience in the same way skin cells are irrelevant (they too can become people).
I don't know, I tell you when I'm dead, if that's possible or not.
That not a proper equation because if your mother would have had an abortion, its not that you would be dead, 'you' wouldnt even exist.
Or maybe they should have wished that she didn't have sex, since that is the root cause of pregnacy. mmmm.
Do we fix the symptoms, or the problem, let's see.......
Thats hardly a logical equation - the idea that sex is 'the root cause of pregnancy' doesnt make sex the problem, any more then the behavior of the mother after sex (pregnancy, birth ext.).
The question is for the well-being of the baby (which is not just a symptom once it is conscience), and the well-being of the mother, if the mother cant support a child, she obviosly shouldnt have unprotected sex, but if she does and gets pregnant (it happens) she can deside to abort the fetus before it is conscience - for its own well-being. The baby and the mother arent goint to live well if she has to take care of him.
So both links in the chain are important.

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kalimero
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Message 103 of 292 (305038)
04-18-2006 5:21 PM
Reply to: Message 100 by riVeRraT
04-18-2006 4:32 PM


Re: Rsex
1.
Once conception happens, and you end it by forceful means, then the person doesn't have a chance to say anything, that's the point. So you are responsible for ending that chance from ever happening.
There is no person until conscience, unless you have a different definition for 'person'. From what point in the reproduction of a baby (from conception {my favorite} to birth) would you consider the zygote (the first cell that forms from the combining of the two nulcii of the sperm and oocyte) to be a person?
Maybe at conception GOD blows life into the blastosist and gives it a soul? (I'm being cynical)
2.
Yes, having sex makes babies.
I meant to say that there are people that would like not to have a baby, dispite continuing to have sex, also for the interest of the baby (a mother that doesnt want him). I dont think that this would cause women to casualy have sex and then just abort when thay feel like it, because abortion is (1) a serious medical procedure (2) it hurts (3) its expencive. There is nothing wrong with not having sex, just that when an option exists, where everyone wins, I dont see why we should see it as 'symptomatic', when it actualy solves the problem.
3.
This is the biggest bunch of BS ever spoke in this forum.
There is no logical comparison going on there, and you should be the last one to talk about equating things after that statement.
Skin cells have the same genetic potential as a blastosist (a very early fetus), but alot of the genes (those not needed in skin cells) are "turned off", so a skin cell can become a person (if you take the genetic matirial and implant it in an empty oocyte) and that is the equation between the potential of a fetus to become a person and the potential of a skin cell to become a person.
4.
Oh, I existed alright.
As you can see, she didn't get an abortion, and here I am.
I didnt say that you didnt exist, I said: if your mother would have had an abortion, its not that you would be dead, 'you' wouldnt even exist.
Its a hypothetical situation.
5.
If your pipes were leaking in your house, would you prefer me to come over and put tape around the pipes, that would last a few days, and keep coming back and taping, and charging you, or would you prefer me to just fix the pipe, the root cuse of the problem.
I have already replied to that:
Thats hardly a logical equation - the idea that sex is 'the root cause of pregnancy' doesnt make sex the problem, any more then the behavior of the mother after sex (pregnancy, birth ext.).
The question is for the well-being of the baby (which is not just a symptom once it is conscience), and the well-being of the mother, if the mother cant support a child, she obviosly shouldnt have unprotected sex, but if she does and gets pregnant (it happens) she can deside to abort the fetus before it is conscience - for its own well-being. The baby and the mother arent goint to live well if she has to take care of him.
So both links in the chain are important.
6.
Don't speak to me about logic, unless you are actually going to make sense. I am a realist.
Good for you, but so far all you have given me is emotionaly charged rhetoric.

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kalimero
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Message 105 of 292 (305042)
04-18-2006 5:38 PM
Reply to: Message 101 by riVeRraT
04-18-2006 4:36 PM


Re: the Truth (tentatively)
I would really respect all of those who are for abortion much more if they would just admit that life begins at inception
At what point exactly? Can you be more precise? This also depends on your definition of life. You consider a blastosist alive but you dont consider stem cells (fibroblasts {partialy}, bone marrow cells exc.)?
and intercourse can cause life to begin
Why would I need to 'admit' that?
and the real reason they want abortions is so that they don't have suffer for their mistakes.
More emotionaly charged rhetoric. Do you think that we dont care about our babies? If anything, future babies are better off having the procedure, because that means that a geater number of the babies that will be born, will be born to a mother that wants them, and so will suffer less.

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kalimero
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Message 110 of 292 (305144)
04-19-2006 5:45 AM
Reply to: Message 109 by anglagard
04-19-2006 2:52 AM


Re: inception?
In other words, when, not if, the technology exists for each of those 50,000 eggs to be brought to term, would every woman be forced to have 50,000 children? I say let those who propound such beliefs be legally forced to care for and pay for each and every one of those 50,000 kids.
50,000[kids] X 9[monthes] = 450,000[monthes]
450,000[monthes] / 12[monthes/year] = 37,500[years]
I dont think women live that long.
If she had aborted me, I would never have existed to think about it, would I?
It would sort of be like asking me how I would feel about it if my mother and father has not created me, but had instead created a different person with a different egg and different sperm.
It's a strange non-answerable, irrelevant question.
Thank you - its what i have been trying to say.

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kalimero
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Message 113 of 292 (305161)
04-19-2006 8:26 AM
Reply to: Message 111 by anglagard
04-19-2006 7:08 AM


Re: inception?
Better make it clear, as in artificial wombs.
Oh, OK.

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kalimero
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Message 131 of 292 (305210)
04-19-2006 10:19 AM
Reply to: Message 115 by riVeRraT
04-19-2006 8:57 AM


Re: Rsex
There is no difference between interupting life in the womb, as interupting life of say a 5 year old.
You still havent defined what exactly it is that you see as life, and please dont use {examples/anecdotes}, just say what it is.
Then base it on a scientific fact that can differentiate a zygote from any other diploid cell in our body.
The second a sperm makes it in.
Is that before or after nuclii merging? What if only half of the chromosomes merge and the other half stay wraped in some of the nuclear membrane, is THAT a baby?
Isn't that what people who want a baby so bad and can't have one (in some cases) pay big bucks for? Isn't that the magic moment?
You obviously know nothing about embryology. The answer is: there is no "magic moment", conscience is a progressivly building function. It builds up from nothing to full conscienceness (there are also semi-conscience states {dreaming, under mild anasthesia, exc.}).
There are people who jump off cliffs, and do not wish to get hurt, there are people who drag race, and don't want to die doing it, there are people who shydive, and hope their chutes don't fail.
But with those examples, they are playing games with their own lives, which is a risk you take. This doesn't stop from whats going to happen, from happening.
In the case of a pregnant mother, before conscienceness, its only the mother who takes the risk, just like the drag racer, and wouldnt be great if a drag racer could protect himself from accidents but still keep doing what he loves to do?
Then don't mention it, because here I are.
This hypthetical situation shows the difference between the existant 'you', and the hypothetical, non-existant 'you', which would have been the case if your mother would have gotten an abortion. If you still insist that you existed immediately after conseption then answer this - how would you know if your mother had an abortion (know - as it was done or afterward)? (Remember you have no conscience prossesing of external information).
That is not an answer to my question. Abortion promotes unwarranted sex. Hey we can screw all we want, without having any reprocussions!
Thats nonsense - just because there is a cure for polio, doesnt I'm not going to avoid it (quite literally) like the plague. By you logic we should also remove seat belts becuase they promote bad driving.
We lose all respect for life, and the process that got us here when we do things like this.
I think your the one thats lost respect for life if you think that mothers will be happy having unwanted babies (it happens) and babies having unwanting mothers (even more terrible).
But on the other hand, the only good reason I have heard so far for making abortion legal is that people will get abortions anyway, and they will be much worse if it's not legal.
You mean like weed. Thats a terrible reson for doing it. I would illegalize all substances that cause a major kind of adiction and harm (including alcohol and tabbaco).
So where in the pregnancy do you draw the line?
Like I said: conscience is a progressivly building function, so the best I can do is draw a line where I know that the fetus is definitly not conscience. But as to the question of where the line realy is - by the article I'v read either nobody knows or/and it shifts from person to person.
What to you is the gift of life?
"gift of life"? Whats that, more emotionaly charged rhetoric?

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kalimero
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Message 134 of 292 (305217)
04-19-2006 10:42 AM
Reply to: Message 133 by riVeRraT
04-19-2006 10:24 AM


Re: Rsex
About a million times now.
Can you give a link to that?
Scientific fact:
A diploid cell will never be anything more when left alone.
A zygote will.
You obviously have no scientific training.
A zygote IS a diploid cell, but under specific conditions - lack of genetic inhibitors, is positioned in a supporting environment ext' - if you where to take any cell and put it in those conditions, it WOULD become a baby. Its called totipotency:
Cell potency - Wikipedia
(the differecne between a regular cell and a stem cell are various
genetic inhibitors).

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kalimero
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Message 135 of 292 (305221)
04-19-2006 10:47 AM
Reply to: Message 129 by riVeRraT
04-19-2006 10:02 AM


Re: inception?
I don't think so.
It takes the right combinations of events, a one in a million chance.
And yet women seem to get pregnant more often then that - intersting! Besides, even if it were a 1 in a million chance (though I dont understand where you got that from) it would still be a potential life.

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kalimero
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Message 152 of 292 (305528)
04-20-2006 6:49 PM
Reply to: Message 141 by riVeRraT
04-20-2006 7:38 AM


Re: inception?
Lets sum it up a little before we continue
anglagard said:
After all, each one is a potential life.
regarding unfertilized eggs.
then you said:
It takes the right combinations of events, a one in a million chance.
then I said:
And yet women seem to get pregnant more often then that - intersting! Besides, even if it were a 1 in a million chance (though I dont understand where you got that from) it would still be a potential life.
then you said:
50,000 eggs, 1,000,000 sperm, only 2 connect. Or more if it is twins.
Besides the womb only releases one egg at a time, and the male sperm does not last forever.
Number of Sperm released by the common male animal per ejaculation - Everything2.com
The actual number is 500,000,000 sperms per ejaculation, and each time there is one egg. So its not that one sperm can fertilize the egg but, each sperm. The actual computations are a bit more complex, but, as you can see, getting pregnant usualy isnt very hard (odds are good).

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kalimero
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Message 157 of 292 (305542)
04-20-2006 7:55 PM
Reply to: Message 156 by riVeRraT
04-20-2006 7:10 PM


Re: inception?
they dont ALL have to become babies, the he was trying to make is that by your reasoning EACH ONE of them is a potential life.

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kalimero
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Message 165 of 292 (305627)
04-21-2006 8:03 AM
Reply to: Message 161 by riVeRraT
04-21-2006 6:12 AM


Re: inception?
We've been through this.
Potential life, and life are 2 different things.
Thats what I'm saying - potential life ISN'T life - so the potential of a blastosist (even single celled) to be a baby has nothing to do with life. In other words, the pre-conscience fetus is not alive.

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kalimero
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Message 175 of 292 (305991)
04-22-2006 5:57 PM
Reply to: Message 172 by riVeRraT
04-22-2006 9:49 AM


Re: inception?
the pre-conscience fetus is not alive.
IF it's not alive, then it's dead, please explain.
How can it be dead if it was not alive in the first place, hence the word pre-conscience. Even if you did say that it was 'dead' - then that would mean that alot of things (if not everything) are 'dead' because they arent alive; for example: water is dead because it isnt alive. That is incorrect because things that are 'dead' that were alive are different from things that are dead that were not alive, by definition:
Dead Definition & Meaning - Merriam-Webster
#1 dead after being alive
#2-5 dead not after being alive

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kalimero
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Message 179 of 292 (306170)
04-23-2006 6:05 PM
Reply to: Message 178 by riVeRraT
04-23-2006 5:39 PM


Re: inception?
One does not need a conscience to be alive.
Can you give an example? Remember - we are talking about humans.
Come on now, you can do better.
I though not having somebody respond to your posts was doing better?

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kalimero
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Message 185 of 292 (306288)
04-24-2006 10:44 AM
Reply to: Message 181 by riVeRraT
04-23-2006 6:32 PM


Re: inception?
you said:
One does not need a conscience to be alive.
I said:
Can you give an example? Remember - we are talking about humans.
you said:
Anything living, is alive.
So the question is whether you can give me an example of a human with no conscience that is alive - remember, we are talking pre-conscience.
A maternal instinct is geared toward human life. It's an instinct that is applied between a woman, and a child.
If a zygote is not a human life, then why do woman have maternal instincts towards them?
I like popcorn - I also like the think thats in my picture - does that mean that the thing in my picture is popcorn, I mean if I like it - what exactly am I liking if not popcorn?
In short, women have maternal instincts toward lots of things (dollies was the example before).

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