and that is why i no longer go to church.
there are two ways to win a debate.
in a real debate, the discussion is watched and judged by an external group. the winner is declared based on several points. having the most convincing argument, presentation, being sportsmanlike (see: andre the giant), and so forth.
in this forum, you win when everyone else starts berating your opponent for being an imbecile. oh. and when you get a potm and your opponent does not. also, see the above descriptions. only very rarely do you get the real and true victory, when you create a convert. sometimes this is a good thing, and sometimes not; but what do you care, you're right.