Hi Aware Wolf
I don't know if you are familiar with the Ricky Gervais podcasts where he quizzes his "mentally-challenged" friend Karl Pilkington on a number of topics.
Your OP reminds me of an episode where Ricky asks Karl about what he would expect in Heaven.
Karl says, "Will I be able to meet all my old relatives and friends?"
Ricky says, "I guess so."
Karl says, "To be honest, I'd rather they stayed away."