taiji2 writes:
If I played their game as they do, it might change me in ways I wouldn't like. If i try to play their game, my rules, it is futile. catch 22.
As I've said to new members more than once - it's hard to make thousands of posts without saying the same thing more than once
- the beauty of Internet debate is that you set your own victory conditions.
For me, if I learn something, that's a victory. If somebody learns something from me - and that's barely possible - that's a victory too. If I get a cheer, that's a victory. So it isn't hard to win but you can't win if you don't play.
And if you decide to lose, you probably will.