What is Gravity, how does it come about.

V Bird, there is lots of material at both an advanced and layman's level on General Relativity. Why would you want our opinions when there are researcher's who spend their lives working on these problems. Most of us here, you included, don't know all that much about the topics.Our unfounded opinions on what gravity is or is not aren't really worth the disk space to store them.

Discussion around what the best science available sure. Discussion that is open to input from some of those who actually have a legitimate claim to know something, one good example being Eta, sure.Discussion that consists of LSD induced like ravings, no.