You seem to be all over the map here PecosGeorge.
If, then, you understand now that we're not talking about Fred's promiscuous forays to the bordello, but rather those seemingly innocuous details that sometimes determine our fate, which is your final answer?
1. All God's children are exactly where he wants them to be.
or (your response to bob_gray98 post #15):
2. I'm subject to the same questions, hurts, wonderings . . . (i.e., you have no idea whether seemingly chance circumstances places any of God's children where he wants them to be or not).
I look forward to your response,
Amlodhi