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crashfrog
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Message 13 of 56 (56767)
09-21-2003 9:50 AM
Reply to: Message 11 by Buzsaw
09-20-2003 10:34 PM


to begile the woman, the more easily beguiled of the sexes
What planet do you live on? Because here on planet Earth, where I live, it's obvious to the most casual observer that, largely, women beguile, and men are beguiled. (I would think that one might have noticed that after being around humans for 50+ years, but I guess not.)
I mean, it's scientific fact that women are significantly more proficient at recognizing facial emotional states by sight. I imagine that extends towards all body language, and would render women considerably better-equipped to suss out subterfuge.
The apostle Paul gives this accout of the woman being deceived as one of the reasons for forbidding women to teach or exercise authority over the man in I Timothy 2:12, 13.
Could you explain the deception involved? From my reading of the bible, it's obvious that the serpent is telling the truth. Eve and Adam become like Gods - God even says so - and they don't die (that day, anyway, like God said they would), but rather are made to know good and evil.
Anyway, the amount that I suspect Paul didn't know about women would probably fill another two bibles. At least.

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crashfrog
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Message 18 of 56 (57158)
09-23-2003 7:22 AM
Reply to: Message 17 by Rrhain
09-23-2003 5:25 AM


Why is it that so many women stay with men who do them ill? How many times have we heard the story of the woman who walks in on her man in flagrante delicto, he says that it wasn't him, that it isn't what it looks like, etc., etc., and she buys it?
How many times have I heard it? Zero. Not only do I not know any women that have fallen for that, I don't know any that would.
Maybe I just live in a funny corner of the world, or something, but in my experience, women are aware, and men are oblivious. I swear this is almost universal among people I'm close enough to know.
Maybe you're right, and there's no reason to suggest that either sex is more easily beguiled - but if we were to suggest it, it seems ludicrous to me to suggest that it's the women that are more easily fooled. That's 180 degrees from my experience, I guess.

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crashfrog
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Message 22 of 56 (57245)
09-23-2003 3:59 PM
Reply to: Message 20 by Rrhain
09-23-2003 7:42 AM


Ricky Lake has had god knows how many episodes about it and there was even a popular song about it, It Wasn't Me, by Shaggy.
Yes, I'm familiar with it. The thing was I thought it was a stupid song because I couldn't imagine a single woman I knew falling for a lie as stupid as "it wasn't me."
As for talk shows, I don't see that it's largely the women who get fooled. Half the time they're fooling the man (sleeping with a midget, etc).
Do you not remember the plethora of books about it such as Men Who Hate Women and the Women Who Love Them?
I could of course counter with the vast number of books and movies about female beguilers.
Do we really need to have the "anecdote is not evidence" argument?
No, we really don't. After all I've never tried to pass my own experiences off as indicative of any kind of universal. I just felt it noteworthy that Buz lives in a place where one can toss off "women are more easily beguiled" without flinching. The truth, most likely, is that both sexes probably have an equal track record at being decieved, and as you say, a studied manipulator will be able to beguile you no matter your sex.
Instead, it would seem that it would be easier to fool one sex in one way while it would be easier to fool the other sex another way.
Indeed. Well, now we're way off topic.
(Damn you to hell, Rrhain - you got that stupid song stuck in my head! )
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crashfrog
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Message 28 of 56 (57344)
09-23-2003 9:37 PM
Reply to: Message 25 by Rrhain
09-23-2003 8:23 PM


I know. But think about it: Why would anybody try that if it didn't work?
Because men are stupid.
It was a simple counter to crashfrog's insistence of not knowing anybody who would be that gullible. All it takes to counter a claim of none is to show one. There was an entire industry built up around the concept of "men are pigs and women are too gullible and meek to show them the door." I, too, don't personally know anybody who would be that silly, but I do know they're out there.
Talk shows are usually fake, dude. Like professional wrestling. Did you not know this?
Anyway, I'd point out my claim was "I don't know anybody so gullible". You haven't pointed out anyone that I know, so you've hardly rebutted my claim, no?
This is much akin to using the word "sodomite" to prove that the men of Sodom were all gay. Talk shows are indicative only of our perceptions of society, not society itself. I agree that some people hold the perception that women are universally more gullible. That they hold the perception is no indication that they are, in fact, more gullible.
I'd have to see some stats. That would remove all doubt, don't you think?

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crashfrog
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Message 29 of 56 (57345)
09-23-2003 9:44 PM
Reply to: Message 27 by Rrhain
09-23-2003 9:10 PM


It would seem that you were doing precisely that: Because you had never seen it, because your experience was so completely different, then it couldn't possibly have any validity.
I would have hoped that my repeated use of "in my experience", etc. would have made clear that I expected my statements to be taken in the context of my own experience. I guess, however, that I was mistaken. Perhaps you could point to the specific phrase where I implied that because it was true in my experience, it must be true for everybody.
My response was directly related at that statement: The idea that women are less easily beguiled doesn't hold water. They might be better able to identify subterfuge in certain areas, but that is a far cry from the generalization you were making.
Well, it was just speculation. I didn't realize you were directly trying to counter that speculation. In that, I think you are correct. A greater ability or potential to detect subterfuge does not mean a greater ability to reject subterfuge. I guess we are in agreement?
So where's the argument?
Now that we know that we agree, there isn't one, I guess.
Sorry. I'd suggest the theme to the Smurfs, but I don't think that'd help....
Yeah, about that - my parents never let me watch the Smurfs because they felt that it didn't promote wholesome values - all those guys, one girl, some kids out of wedlock, and an obvious homosexual. So, since I don't know the smurfs theme, no, it wouldn't help to suggest it.

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crashfrog
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From: Silver Spring, MD
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Message 31 of 56 (57352)
09-23-2003 10:12 PM
Reply to: Message 30 by Rrhain
09-23-2003 10:03 PM


The idea that you can fool a woman is not something out of left field.
I guess I don't recall saying that it was. What is out of left field - and I know you're not saying this, ok? - is the idea that all women are more easily fooled.
We agree that this is a stupid idea. What more is there to talk about?
Where are your stats that men are more gullible?
I have none. Never said I did.

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