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Author Topic:   Marriage – What is it and what’s the point?
subbie
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Message 18 of 80 (551857)
03-24-2010 5:21 PM
Reply to: Message 10 by Jumped Up Chimpanzee
03-24-2010 12:51 PM


JUC writes:
One of the reasons why I've raised this topic is because my best friend is going through a divorce. It's quite a messy affair, as they often are. He and his wife are fighting over money, rights to access to the children, and paying large amounts of money to lawyers of course.
It's not messy because they're married. It's messy because they have all those issues to resolve. In today's legal climate, it would be more messy because there isn't a well-settled body of law to help decide all those things. Now, there's no real reason why divorce laws can't be modified to deal with break up issues of people who never got married, and I wouldn't be surprised if we see that in the future. But regardless, it's a mess to divide up the lives of two people who've been together for a number of years no matter what the nature of that union is.

Ridicule is the only weapon which can be used against unintelligible propositions. Ideas must be distinct before reason can act upon them; and no man ever had a distinct idea of the trinity. It is the mere Abracadabra of the mountebanks calling themselves the priests of Jesus. -- Thomas Jefferson
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Message 23 of 80 (551864)
03-24-2010 6:38 PM
Reply to: Message 21 by AZPaul3
03-24-2010 5:48 PM


Re: Uncommon Marriage
AZPaul3 writes:
Most states already have these on the books, if you qualify under their statutes as Married by Common Law.
No, actually only 11 states plus D.C. recognize common law marriages. 26 states have repealed their common law statutes and 13 never had it. In those states that have it, all require either an expressed intent to marry, an agreement to marry, or a holding out of one another as spouses to the community. Thus, as long as someone makes it clear that they have no intent to marry and doesn't refer to the other person as their spouse, there will be no common law marriage in any state in the U.S.
{AbE} In addition, length of cohabitation is a factor in only one state, New Hampshire. The length of cohabitation required is only 3 years.
Edited by subbie, : As noted

Ridicule is the only weapon which can be used against unintelligible propositions. Ideas must be distinct before reason can act upon them; and no man ever had a distinct idea of the trinity. It is the mere Abracadabra of the mountebanks calling themselves the priests of Jesus. -- Thomas Jefferson
For we know that our patchwork heritage is a strength, not a weakness. We are a nation of Christians and Muslims, Jews and Hindus -- and non-believers. -- Barack Obama
We see monsters where science shows us windmills. -- Phat

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