Leviticus 18:22 defines the issue: "Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind, it is abomination."
With that said, noone should judge you based upon anything that you do, including your sexual preferences. While I don't agree with your 'way of life', I would never shun you for it. In this case, you asked for reference from Biblical scripture, so I gave it to you. What few Christians seem to remember is the Golden Rule. Maybe, if they tried to clean out their own closets, they would not be so tempted to sort out yours. As for anyone telling you that you are going to hell, just so that they know, that is judging, and I seem to remember a wise man saying "Judge not, least the be judged thyself".
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