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LinearAq
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Message 1 of 293 (442123)
12-20-2007 9:18 AM


There is a spirited discussion going on about abortion already but I wanted to branch off in a bit of a new direction.
There are a number of people opposed to abortion. They feel it is killing a human child who should have the same rights accorded to humans already born. Their seemingly preferred means of reducing abortions is to make it illegal to do so. Truly, it would reduce abortions but it comes with adverse consequences, just as legal abortions have their apparent adverse consequences.
Anti-abortion websites (typically Christian) decry the "millions of dead innocents" because of the legal abortion. They also make claims about God's judgment upon a nation that allows such things.
So, in the opinion of our anti-abortionists...
Is the problem with legalized abortion due to the sheer numbers of babies being "murdered"?
OR
Is it the fact that we put our nation up for God's judgment by sanctioning what anti-abortionists clearly define as murder?
OR
Are there other issues that this "legalized murder" exacerbate within our society thus requiring our government to remove support for abortion?
Opinions by legalized abortion supporters about what they think are key anti-abortionist objections, are indeed welcome.
Coffee House?
Edited by LinearAq, : If I knew how to type I wouldn't have to do this.

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LinearAq
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Message 2 of 293 (442522)
12-21-2007 2:49 PM


Vacation?
Perhaps I should have waited till after the holidays to propose a topic?

  
LinearAq
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Message 7 of 293 (442674)
12-22-2007 9:40 AM
Reply to: Message 4 by nator
12-22-2007 7:53 AM


nator writes:
Anti-choice advocates often have no problem with many forms of birth control which have the action of preventing implantation of what they would call babies. They also often have no problem, and in fact, very much support, in-vitro fertilization, which generally, for each treatment, kills around ten of what they would consider babies. They also don't seem to be too concerned with all of what they consider babies which fail to implant in uteruses being flushed down the toilet inside of used tampons. They also don't seem to trouble themselves with the problem women exercising a great deal, since doing so is known to interfere with implantation.
All your concerns here have some validity and show some inconsistency in the anti-abortion positions. At least they seem to. However, if the concern is about babies as the anti-abortionist claim, can't there be some confusion about where the line should be drawn? Complicated issues typically cause this kind of seemingly contradictory stances by people on both sides. Your noticing these problems but failing to recognize the difficulty of their conflicting sensibilities, leads you to say this:
Their "key objection" is that they don't believe women are capable of making medical, moral, and practical decisions about what is best for her own body and her family.
Admittedly, this could be a valid conclusion if you could show that the issues above are a result of a conscious effort on the part of anti-abortionists to directly address each objection with the position that you claim they hold. I am very sure that you won't find any literature claiming the women cannot make decisions about their own bodies and must be controlled in some way. The closest I could come to that were claims that these women facing a crisis were not being given all the information because the abortionists make money from performing that service.
All of this focus on making abortion illegal is a typical conservative response to a preventable issue.
It surely appears to me that conservatives are far more "anti-sex" than they are "pro-baby".
If they really, truly cared about reducing the need for abortion, they would be pushing hard for comprehensive reproductive health education for all people from an early age. They would be pushing hard for free and easy access to safe and effective birth control to anyone who wants it.
Because the reality is that people, especially young people, have sex. Why religious conservatives think that keeping kids ignorant of contraception methods and making it difficult for people to get contraceptives somehow is effective in preventing unwanted pregnancy, I have no idea.
If they really, truly cared about preventing abortion, then they should be willing to deal with the reality of people having sex.
Truly, Christian conservatives tend to opt for control rather than allow people to make the "right" choice. That's because they are raised to believe that humans "love the dark" and "avoid the light". Therefore, they can't be trusted to make good moral decisions.
Yes, they are anti-sex. They grow up with teachings that put sex within the confines of marriage only. More than pro-baby? I think you will have to provide more than your say-so for me to buy that.
The sex ed and contraceptive argument is something that many don't even associate with reduction in abortions. They are "shepherded" toward the belief that what their leaders say is true based on its match with their interpretation of scripture. Their leaders say if you teach someone to drive then they are going to want to drive. The same with sex and more sex leads to more abortions. THAT is what they believe. You have had interactions with that mindset on the creation/evolution debates. They don't believe that comprehensive sex ed and free contraception lead to less abortions because they are taught the opposite and have no need to research it now. Besides if you condone sex, you are just condoning one sin (sex outside marriage) over another (killing babies). God doesn't want you to use one sin to avoid another.

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LinearAq
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Message 33 of 293 (442955)
12-23-2007 8:02 AM
Reply to: Message 8 by molbiogirl
12-22-2007 4:00 PM


So. SCNT, IVF, IUD, The Pill, exercise, and 30-60% of all naturally occurring pregnancies that fail to implant all result in "children" that are BRUTALLY MURDERED.
So you would say that a man who dies from pneumonia was murdered? How do you make that distinction? I would say the zygotes that failed to implant died of natural causes. As for SCNT, the purpose seems to be to make a child and the failures are natural deaths in the process of trying for a success. In reality I think your use of SCNT is a red herring for the purposes of this discussion. IVF has failures too. Murder? There are many in the anti-abortion movement who say it is a high price to pay for a child.
This is an issue that those who believe a fertilized egg is a child must deal with. It is confusing and quite difficult. On the one hand they believe that each zygote is a child based on its potential. On the other is the reality of so many deaths of humans if this is true. Is is more convenient to just change the point of being human to another place in the development cycle. Probably, but is convenience a good reason to change a human into a non-human? If that were so, then it would be more convenient to change destitute humans into non-humans and get rid of them out of hand. How about old people? They provide no use except to take up space in a nursing home.
Obviously, I am being extreme, but that is in reality the very issue that anti-abortionists do wrestle with. Your pointing it out doesn't change their beliefs about the humanity of the unborn, especially since you seem to be bent on proving them wrong based on the numbers game.
I guess we could declare soldiers as worthless based on the numbers that are sent to war to be killed by your logic.

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LinearAq
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Message 34 of 293 (442957)
12-23-2007 8:08 AM
Reply to: Message 11 by ringo
12-22-2007 5:19 PM


Ringo writes:
Many anti-abortionists make a distinction that abortion is permissible in the case of rape. How does the identity of the sperm donor make it not murder?
And many do not think it should be permissible and thus declare it is murder.
I could just as easily argue that this is an indication that anti-abortionists really care for the woman also. They are willing to allow the abortion for the sake of the distraught mother.

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LinearAq
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Message 35 of 293 (442959)
12-23-2007 8:13 AM
Reply to: Message 16 by Taz
12-22-2007 6:27 PM


Consent?
Taz writes:
No human, not even a human child, has the right to demand to use another person's organs without that person's consent.
Why can't you say that the consent was implied by the mother and father participating in an act that would cause it to happen?

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LinearAq
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Message 37 of 293 (442979)
12-23-2007 10:40 AM
Reply to: Message 36 by ringo
12-23-2007 9:45 AM


Is a fourteen-year-old with an unplanned pregnancy less distraught than a rape victim? How do you measure the level of distress?
Yes she is less distraught, generally. She is not a victim of an assault. Her level of anxiety is heightened by any judgment by others around her about her pregnancy. This has been observed to be less no for unwed mothers. They are more accepted.
If she were allowed to take her baby to term then give it up, she would be able to return to a relatively normal teenager's life.
A rape victim's pregnancy would be a constant reminder of the rape and thus cause more anxiety regardless of how accepting society would be of her pregnancy.

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LinearAq
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Message 50 of 293 (443068)
12-23-2007 5:17 PM
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12-23-2007 1:27 PM


Soldiers aren't sent to war to be killed, they are sent to fight.
molbiogirl specifically wrote about zygotes that didn't make it to implant on the uterine wall. Therefore they were "sent" to become babies, so to speak. The reference to soldiers that were killed in a war is valid. The way she used the large numbers of zygotes that die before implantation to devalue a zygote that makes it to the uterine wall would be the same as saying the large numbers of soldiers that die in a battle devalues the soldiers that get through the battle.
As far as your ideas about making it illegal for women to do things that endanger the child she is carrying, I don't know. If she were to endanger her child after it was born, the child could be taken away from her. However, you are still in the position of trying to convince me how wrong it is to think of a zygote as a child. Telling me how much more restrictive the mother's life would be if it is classified as a child really does little to change the idea that it is one. A mother and father lead a more restrictive life after a child is born, yet that is not used as an argument to devalue the life of that child. Why should it work just because the location of said child has changed.

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LinearAq
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Message 97 of 293 (443653)
12-26-2007 9:21 AM
Reply to: Message 55 by molbiogirl
12-23-2007 6:20 PM


LinearAq writes:
As far as your ideas about making it illegal for women to do things that endanger the child she is carrying, I don't know.
molbiogirl replies:
Have you ever read The Handmaid's Tale by Margaret Atwood?
What you are proposing is beginning to sound an awful lot like the dystopian future in that book.
Blast! All these ideas that abound in literature! I knew that First Amendment was a bad idea.
Yes, I have read that. Amazingly enough I also understand the value of individual rights. I just don't agree that those rights usurp the rights of another individual who cannot defend himself. I also don't think those individual rights are more important than taking responsibility for your actions. If you're hungry and steal to eat, that doesn't absolve you of your obligation to pay back the person you stole from. If you drink and drive, then get in a car wreck that kills someone, you should be held responsible. If you smoke and get lung cancer you can't kill another person to get new lungs.
From a certain point of view, women and men who have sex run the risk of creating a child, and they shouldn't kill someone to get out of the responsibility that results from running that risk.
By referencing this novel, are you trying to say that not allowing abortions-on-a-whim is the first step in the slippery slope toward the complete subjugation of women? Has this happened somewhere else? Is there some country where restricting abortions has caused the enslavement of their women?
You have yet to demonstrate that a zygote has any "potential" beyond its genetic blueprint.
Every cell in your body has that same blueprint, yet you don't consider each of your cells "a child".
Every rebuttal you provide, makes me wish more and more that I had kept up with modern biology. I have to confess my ignorance. I really did not know that you could implant a skin cell in a woman's uterus and it would become a child. Amazing! What journal can I go to and read about the research in this field?
So all our skin cells are exactly like a zygote? Wow!!!
Maybe this is off topic but I have to ask. What keeps the uterine wall cells from becoming babies? Is there some mechanism within the uterus that recognizes its own cells and prevents a profusion of babies from being produced? Is that how multiples occur...through a uterine wall cell being somehow converted into a baby? Maybe a hormone imbalance from the implantation of the original zygote?
And here I was with that outmoded idea that zygotes and blastocysts contained stem cells that could become the various cells of the body, and that was one of the things that made zygotes and blastocysts special.
Thanks for clearing that up for me.

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LinearAq
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Message 101 of 293 (443742)
12-26-2007 4:50 PM
Reply to: Message 98 by nator
12-26-2007 12:10 PM


Life on the slippery slope
So that means that someone who doesn't want a child shouldn't have sex at all, and a woman should certainly wear a chastity belt at all times in case of rape, since there isn't a birth control method in the world that prevents contraception 100%, including sterilization.
No married people who don't want any children should ever have intercourse. Not even once, not even if they are both sterilized.
All married people who don't want any more children should never have intercourse ever again, not even if they are both sterilized.
Well, you've won me over. Of course women should be able to do what they wish with their bodies no matter what the consequences. Prostitution should be legalized and if minors want to be prostitutes that's ok too. Their parents shouldn't have any say on that. It's their body. Who are we to tell them what to do with it?
It is not a coincidence that abortion is severely restricted or outright banned in religious patriarchal countries where women do not have much personal or political power. The urge to control women's uteruses goes hand in hand with controlling everything else about them.
If it is that way now, today, in many places, and used to be that way nearly everywhere not that long ago, what makes you think that it can't ever go back to being that way if we are not diligent in preserving our rights to bodily autonomy?
Here is a link to a map which shows the abortion rights status of various places around the globe. If you click on the "for a printable version of this poster, click here", you will be able to blow up the image to read it.
Notice the general trend; countries with the most restrictive abortion laws also have the most patriarchal societies. Religious dictatorships are common, too.
Since you seem to be putting forth the idea that the restriction of reproductive rights has led to subjugation of women in these countries, perhaps you could detail the causal links for we stupid people in the peanut gallery.
It is terribly complacent and naieve of you to think that we can't go back. I mean, didn't everyone think that there was no way that we in the US would lose the right to habeas corpus? We have lost that right, however and lots of others, thanks to the NeoCons.
It isn't a matter of "making abortion illegal on day and enslaving all the women the next". It is the slow erosion of our individual autonomy and civil rights, including reproductive rights, that we allow, step by step, out of fear. Fear of terrorists, fear of people who are different, fear of women having control of their own bodies.
That fear, if we allow ourselves to give in to it, will enable the religious Authoritarians to gain more and more power in our government.
Who would have thought it would be so easy?
It is terribly complacent and naieve of you to think that we can't lose our society. I mean, didn't everyone think that there was no way that we in the US would openly support pornography on television? We have lost that fight, however and lots of others, thanks to the Liberals.
It isn't a matter of "making abortion legal on day and degrading all the women the next". It is the slow erosion of our decency and civility, including respect for human life, that we allow, step by step, out of our own lust. Lust for money, lust for sex, lust for other peoples things.
That lust, if we allow ourselves to give in to it, will enable indecency and irresponsibility to gain more and more power in our country.
Who would have thought it would be so easy?
I knew I recognized your argument somewhere!

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LinearAq
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Message 102 of 293 (443745)
12-26-2007 5:01 PM
Reply to: Message 99 by molbiogirl
12-26-2007 2:37 PM


LinearAq writes:
What keeps the uterine wall cells from becoming babies?
Not just skin cells. Any cell. Because any cell contains the full complement of DNA. Any of your somatic cells has the same potential to become a zygote as an egg fetilized by a sperm.
"Turning on" a somatic cell, however, requires intervention in the lab.
Is that how multiples occur...through a uterine wall cell being somehow converted into a baby?
No. A somatic cell would produce a clone.
Multiples happen in the first 3 weeks as the conceptus divides.
Maybe a hormone imbalance from the implantation of the original zygote?
No. A zygote does not implant fully into the uterine wall, which is why there is a 30-60% spontaneous abortion rate.
I take it you don't deal with sarcasm very often.
Linear, a zygote is not a "human". The lump of cells doesn't even get around to "deciding" what is embryo and what is not-embryo (aka placenta) until the primitive streak forms in the third week.
Even Bush's Bioethics Committee admitted that much. They drew the line (14 days) based on five principles: individuality, organization, implantation, neural development, and utility.
Let me repeat that: even the stooges that Bush hired to bolster his pro-life agenda agreed that a zygote is not a "human".
You're on the wrong side of this argument, Linear.
You know, I have been trying to make my best argument for the "personhood" of a zygote. I did not insult anyone from either side while enduring the veiled insults at my intelligence, the motives of conservatives in general and anti abortionists in particular. I realized from the beginning that my position was tenuous at best. I accept that I may have to concede my original point.
Now it's my turn. I believe that fertilization is not the best point to establish personhood. You have already stated that birth is that point. So, what makes a 7-month old fetus not a person. Why is it different enough from a child to not deserve any rights?

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LinearAq
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Message 106 of 293 (443822)
12-26-2007 9:28 PM
Reply to: Message 103 by nator
12-26-2007 5:34 PM


Re: Life on the slippery slope
Er, how is this an answer to what I wrote?
It's not, I just figured that I could be as ridiculous as you. I guess I have to be more well known in this forum before I am allowed that kind of latitude.
You said:
quote:
From a certain point of view, women and men who have sex run the risk of creating a child, and they shouldn't kill someone to get out of the responsibility that results from running that risk.
And what I wrote:
So that means that someone who doesn't want a child shouldn't have sex at all, and a woman should certainly wear a chastity belt at all times in case of rape, since there isn't a birth control method in the world that prevents contraception 100%, including sterilization.
No married people who don't want any children should ever have intercourse. Not even once, not even if they are both sterilized.
All married people who don't want any more children should never have intercourse ever again, not even if they are both sterilized.
...is simply the logical consequence of your statement above.
No contraceptive method except complete abstention is 100% sure to prevent pregnancy.
If abortion becomes illegal, complete abstention from intercourse is the only for-sure method anyone can use to avoid pregnancy, including married couples who never want to get pregnant, or who have had children and don't want any more.
If you don't like that outcome of your position, I am certainly not to blame.
First, I don't have any problem with that outcome in my own life. If my wife and I happen to wind up with another child on the way, then we will have it regardless of the precautions we took to avoid it.
Second, your obvious disdain for that outcome tells me that you think it is ok to kill someone to avoid the consequences of your decisions.
It isn't a linear thing. Controlling what happens inside women's fertility has long been a big part of patriarchy, particularly the religious kind, and is a natural offshoot of what women have generally been seen as in such cultures. Historically, women were little more than breeding stock and servants; property, chattel, the spoils of war, etc. That sort of treatment of women is in evidence all throughout the Bible and the Koran.
And, surprise surprise, it is generally in countries in which women do not have access to abortion, they don't have access to contraception, either. In these cultures, women are considered to be nothing without a man, either a father, brother, or husband. Their importance is a function of whatever male she is associated with and how many sons she can produce. This general attitude has long been a part of religious patriarchy.
Is this really the first you are hearing of this?
No it is not. However, that's not the real issue here. What makes you think that preventing the deaths of unborn children will lead to a patriarchal religious US government? You brought up the slippery-slope justification for continuing the being-pregnant-makes-me-grumpy abortions. You need to provide something to support your contention that one will ultimately result in the other.
My repeating your little rant about the ultimate doom of our society was just to show you how ridiculous it was.
Oh, so the downfall of society is the fault of abortion rights?
Sure. That is as valid a statement as your saying that removing the right to a being-pregnant-gets-in-the-way-of-my-partying abortion will cause the downfall of society.
Women's reproductive rights and control over her own body are directly linked to women having political and social power. As they gain the former, they gain the latter.
And as they lose the former, the lose the latter.
And you equate women's reproductive rights with being able to have abortions on a whim? (sidenote: Men don't have reproductive rights on par with women)
Please provide more information showing that those two things are actually "directly linked". That is, unless you mean that happen to show up together. How do I know that it wasn't the gain in political and social power that was the cause of abortion becoming legal? Well, I'm sure you will straighten me out on that with some overwhelming evidence.
Funny, I seem to recall that the vast majority of the countries on that map I linked to that were the most prosperous, peaceful, had the best gender equity and were the nicest to live in were also the ones that had legalized abortion. The ones which banned all abortion or severely restricted it tended to have a lot of war, were run by dictatorships, often radical religious ones, and in many of them women have to wear burkhas and can't walk by themselves in public, let alone drive a car or own property or be educated.
Earlier in your post you say that they aren't linearly linked but here you do your damnedest to imply that they are.
I, apparently, am not as able to piece things together as well as you, so I'm gonna need a little help here.
So your saying that allowing abortions is what enabled some countries to become prosperous with the highest standard of living, and the best gender equity. Conversely, making abortion illegal, cause dictatorships to flourish, ruined the education systems and caused war in other countries.
Forgive me if I don't see the link. I do see that abortion would be illegal in a country or society where women aren't respected. I don't see legal abortion as a necessary element in making a society prosperous. That's probably where I need assistance.
BTW: I understand that prostitution is legal in many of those high-living-standard countries. Maybe that is also a key element in obtaining a prosperous society.
quote:
That lust, if we allow ourselves to give in to it, will enable indecency and irresponsibility to gain more and more power in our country.
Yes, you religious people do hate anything that carries the barest hint of pleasure, particularly if it might be sexual.
I don't recall ever stating my theological beliefs here. That quote you sneered at was part of my slippery-slope argument. Frankly, I don't think it is any more valid than yours is.
Of course, so many of your male leaders end up having meth-fueled gay sex with prostitutes, or offering to blow undercover police officers in park restrooms that I just wonder at your motivations.
I see. You believe my motivations are governed by the actions of the lowest members of a group that I am not even associated with. If I were a Fundamentalist Christian, I would still not understand how you can determine my motivations based on the actions of a small number of others within that millions-strong group. I guess that's one of the things that makes you connect all those dots that I can't.

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Message 112 of 293 (443885)
12-27-2007 10:48 AM
Reply to: Message 107 by macaroniandcheese
12-27-2007 9:35 AM


are you aware of the informed consent waiver that i have to sign to even get birth control? do you have to sign any informed consent waivers for medication? the only things that have to be signed as far as i know (besides things regarding women's ovaries) are surgical releases and other things that have a high risk of KILLING YOU. the fact that i have to sign an informed consent form any time i want to do anything to my girlie parts means that they don't trust me to be able to make decisions.
I am unaware of the informed consent waiver you signed, but I don't live in the Neanderthal-ruled state of Florida. What did it inform you about? You seem to be saying that the "they" that introduced this requirement are anti-abortionist. How do you know this?
There is acne medicine that you also have to sign informed consent for. Is this another conservative conspiracy to keep women ugly in their teens so they won't have sex?

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Message 113 of 293 (443887)
12-27-2007 11:11 AM
Reply to: Message 110 by macaroniandcheese
12-27-2007 10:06 AM


do you think being a "consequence" to be "suffered" is a good way to bring a child into the world? do you think this creates healthy families and loving parents?
No, but since adoption is apparently illegal in your world, it is the best we can do without resorting to the obviously better answer of killing the child.
Look, I am all for easy and even free access to contraception. I fully support whatever sex education method results in the least number of unintended pregnancies. I would even support easily accessed and (maybe) free 1st trimester abortions despite my reservations about abortions. The alternative is more horrific in my opinion.
I just think choosing to abort should not be a frivolous decision and that is how it seems to be now.
You point out individual problems that you feel justify abortions and that most abortions occur early. But late term abortions are still legal and those special cases you bring up don't comprise the bulk of abortions.
You say the the woman should not have to "pay" for her decision to have sex but have no problem with the father "paying" if she decides to keep the baby. In that, you fall right in line with NOW and other women's organizations. Seems inconsistent and contradictory to me, unless I am missing something. You don't want any men telling you what to do with your body or the rest of your life but think it is perfectly alright to tell men what to do with theirs.

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LinearAq
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Message 118 of 293 (443910)
12-27-2007 1:29 PM
Reply to: Message 115 by ringo
12-27-2007 12:41 PM


Re: MB sees what she wants to see
If anti-abortionists were honest, they'd be pushing for birth certificates to be replaced by conception certificates - and for death certificates to be issued for every miscarriage and failed implantation. They'd be pushing for a "proper Christian burial" for all of them, too. How many church cemeteries have a section for them?
Be honest. Anti-abortionists aren't in favour of "rights" for the fetus.
Why do you think that their failure to go to those extremes is an indicator of their "true" motivations?
What are they really "in favour" of, since they obviously don't give a damn about the "rights" of the fetus?
Can you support your contention about their real intentions with something other than your dreamland idea of what they should be doing?
Maybe some of us don't feel that a "proper Christian burial" is a requirement for a dead body.

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