Such late term 'Partial birth abortions' are only ever performed to save the life of the mother. The actual life of the mother is more important than the potenial life of the child.
The most sickening spectacle in the news of late was the canonization of the woman who chose to die in child birth rather than have an abortion. Then again that is natural selection in action I suppose--nature elimanated a woman with no sense of self-preservation thus removing her from the gene pool.
And yes I truly believe that as the one carrying the child, the one whose life will primarily be affected, and whose body will forever be altered by carrying the child to term, abortion is the women's perogative. Especially if it is a choice between her life and the life of the parasite living inside her. And even if her life isn't in jeopardy I would still be comfortable with a woman having an abortion that late term because obviously a woman who would have such a late term abortion barring obvious jeopardy to life and limb is an unfit person to raise a child.
If you don't want your girlfriend to get pregnant and have an abortion then don't have sex with her...it's that simple.
And if you are a woman opposed to abortion then don't have one.