to raise questions once you learn to think for yourself and have some successful "thinking's" under your belt. It keeps things from getting stagnant and is absolutely necessary for growth, individual and societal.
What you said about your parents takes me back to my init question....Is it a lie if what I say is truth to me but not to you?"
What your parents told you must surely have been truth to them, and it appears they raised you right, right to the point where you can make your own truth.
"Come let us reason together, says the Lord".....meanin', ifn it don' make sense, pick up the phone or send an e-mail.
Your generation is no different from any other, but every generation thinks it is.
"In that day I will also make a covenant for them with the beasts of the field, the birds of the sky and the creeping things of the ground. And I will abolish the bow, the sword and war from the land, and will make them lie down in safety. I will betroth you to Me forever; yes, I will betroth you to Me in righteousness and in justice, in lovingkindness and in compassion, and I will betroth you to Me in faithfulness. Then you will know the LORD."
-the prophet Hosea (8th century B.C.) in Hosea 2:18-20