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Message 189 of 291 (221735)
07-04-2005 7:28 PM
Reply to: Message 182 by bubblelife
07-04-2005 1:15 PM


Re: Why state sanctioned marriage?
No it's not so simple any more. The family structure is fragmented beyond recognition in many cases.
Yes, alternative situations may work out fine, and yes, some traditional families are not good for children, but as a general principle hetero marriage and the nuclear family is the best system for raising children.

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Message 190 of 291 (221737)
07-04-2005 7:47 PM
Reply to: Message 183 by Silent H
07-04-2005 1:29 PM


Re: Marriage is for heterosexuals, period.
The universal custom was polytheism until monotheism came along. All cultures were based around polytheistic religion. Wasn't whether polytheism had been the universal custom up to that point moot when considering whether to accept monotheism as a viable religion?
According to the Bible, our first parents knew the One God, and polytheism was a degeneration after the Fall when the true God was forgotten and the demons impersonated "gods" to spiritually dead humanity. Polygamy also was a degeneration from the original God-ordained monogamy, again as a result of the Fall. Nevertheless the formal recognition of marriage was a part of every culture and it never ordained gay marriage.
In the first case, as with gays, they are not qualified for marriage
Not in all cultures. In any case you have avoided the question.
Name the cultures that have sanctified gay marriage.
There is no purpose for it.
No, there WAS no purpose for it. Since legitimation of any sexual relationship socially, as well as the conference of rights governmentally has become the nature of marriage, the nature of marriage itself has changed such that gays might want to partake in it.
They want it to give an aura of legitimacy to their unnatural sexuality, that's all. While I can sympathize, I can't see allowing this demeaning of marriage to be done to society as a whole. Also, the first gay rights groups were radical leftists and they stated their goal of DESTROYING marriage. Actually it is the Left that has destroyed marriage pretty successfully by many means over the last few decades, by redefining rights and freedoms to cover sins and crimes and aberrations.
If you want to blame anyone for changing what marriage is about, blame Xians for hammering home the idea that the only sex which is socially and legally legitimate is the sex within marriage.
And what does this CHANGE? Marriage is not the invention of Christians or of any religion. It goes back to the beginning of history and exists in every culture as a rite for legitimizing heterosexuality, period. It has included polygamy, wrongly, but it has never legitimized anything but heterosexual sex.
I have no answer for this. It's something I think should be obvious upon serious reflection.
Upon much more serious reflection you will realize that without an answer to that question, your position is without evidence and so untenable. In other words my position is more accurate.
I answered it in a subsequent post.
No, what we have been doing with our general widespread trashing of marriage over the last half century is absolutely unique in history I believe.
It is unique only in the fact that it will be about gay marriage in specific, rather than changing other parts of marriage (like losing polygamy), though I guess it should be pointed out that the US has now failed to keep up with or make history. The historic act of recognizing gay marriage was already done by Netherlands, Canada, and Spain.
The "loss" of polygamy started a couple of millennia ago, it's not exactly new, and it can be credited as one of the improvements in the West that led to our great success as a culture. Yes, it is sad how fast the once great West has been deteriorating. In one part of Canada they even put pastors into prison for preaching that homosexuality is a sin. Also happened in Australia.
As I already pointed out, that idea was an extremely limited situation, and again, the principle that underlies marriage throughout all time and all cultures is heterosexuality.
Your reasoning is circular. Either changes have an effect or they do not. They can be demonstrated or they cannot. Your claim is that changing marriage customs is detrimental. You have proof or you do not. Even if you specify the criteria to only gay marriages then you have proof or you do not.
No you are making the generalization about all marriage customs. Some customs were bad and needed to be changed for the good of society. But heterosexuality is THE standard and changing THAT is as good as asking for the destruction of society altogether. Practically speaking, gay marriage does NOTHING for society, it is merely a self-indulgence that trivializes marriage and contributes to the fragmentation and confusion we're already seeing so much of. So far I've been avoiding bringing God into this but at some point it has to be said that this is just inviting God's judgment, along with all the other ridiculous social "freedoms" we've been entertaining. In fact this fragmentation IS the beginning of God's judgment. When chaos reigns and diseases can't be stopped and people continue to do whatever they please, we're on the way to total destruction.
If there is no historical evidence of ill befalling any nation because it accepted gay marriage then you are lacking any basis for claiming that it will cause something bad to happen.
"Science" will be the death of us all. Common sense is thrown out and now we must do everything by "evidence." Do you have to conduct a double-blind experiment to find out if it's wise to get out of bed in the morning or not?

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Message 193 of 291 (221741)
07-04-2005 8:02 PM
Reply to: Message 188 by Chiroptera
07-04-2005 7:26 PM


Re: Marriage is for heterosexuals, period.
Yes, that is true. That demonstrates the social importance of marriage, doesn't it, although of course that can be abused also. Is absolute chaos a better alternative to such abuses? Children who have a variety of temporary "parents" for instance instead of their natural father and mother, or an artificial parentage of gays, often in that case impermanent too. What's good about this? This is the result of legally indulging the whims of individuals instead of enforcing sane rules on all of us.
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Message 194 of 291 (221747)
07-04-2005 8:21 PM
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07-04-2005 7:51 PM


Re: Marriage is for heterosexuals, period.
It ensures that the members of the society have equal rights. Do you think inequality is good for society?
Some inequalities are natural inequalities. Gays are not equal to straights and do not qualify for hetero marriage.

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Message 200 of 291 (221760)
07-04-2005 8:55 PM
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07-04-2005 8:35 PM


Re: Canadian Pastors in Prison?
Apparently I have to concede as I too can't find the story about the arrest of a Canadian pastor. It was all over the internet at one point or so I recall but I can't find it even in all the most likely locations. So, sorry about that. I have a request in to some sources who will be able to give me the facts, however, but they are probably gone for the holiday so I won't hear from them until tomorrow. Yes the Swedish pastor story is out there, and the arrest of Australian pastors but not about homosexuality. That was about Islam.

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Message 201 of 291 (221761)
07-04-2005 8:57 PM
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07-04-2005 8:51 PM


Re: Marriage is for heterosexuals, period.
Actually, I think it demonstrates how outmoded a concept marriage is. Perhaps it's time to just retire the concept completely.
Yes, that is exactly where all this is headed, and gay marriage is just the last nail in the coffin.

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Message 204 of 291 (221764)
07-04-2005 9:00 PM
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07-04-2005 8:57 PM


Re: Marriage is for heterosexuals, period.
It's not about how actual people behave. Homosexuals can be good parents. It's the principle involved. It's a matter of meanings, definitions, principles. A couple of aunts can raise children just fine too, but that doesn't change the fact that natural parenting is ideal and should be encouraged. Why do children have to be burdened with definitions of parents that are simply there to indulge somebody's need to be called a parent when they're just a guardian?
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Message 206 of 291 (221766)
07-04-2005 9:03 PM
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07-04-2005 9:00 PM


Re: Marriage is for heterosexuals, period.
No it's not like Blacks or Jews. Homosexuality is a condition, not a race or an ethnic group, it's an aberration. How are they unequal? By having a sexual aberration.

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Message 209 of 291 (221769)
07-04-2005 9:12 PM
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07-04-2005 9:07 PM


Re: Marriage is for heterosexuals, period.
It's a matter of definitions and principles as I said, not actualities, which are always messy.

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Message 211 of 291 (221772)
07-04-2005 9:15 PM
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07-04-2005 9:12 PM


Re: Marriage is for heterosexuals, period.
So, if it's an "abberation" does that mean it's a variation in the species, perhaps?
More like a genetic disease I would guess if genes have anything to do with it at all, which they may not.
So, do you believe that people with genetic "abberations" should be considered unequal to those without said "abberation"?
Not as persons, but as qualified for certain functions, of course.
Do you consider blind or deaf people unequal to sighted or hearing people because of their "abberation", their "condition"?
No, a psychological aberration is in a different category from a physical problem.
{EDIT: Correction, of course they are unequal. Again, not as persons but with respect to functions that require hearing or seeing.
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Message 216 of 291 (221778)
07-04-2005 9:45 PM
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07-04-2005 9:42 PM


Re: Marriage is for heterosexuals, period.
Marriage is not a constitutional right, it is an ages-old intitution that transcends all political systems and has application only to heterosexuals. You are trying to put a square peg in a round hole and insisting that it has a right to fit there.

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Message 219 of 291 (221781)
07-04-2005 9:51 PM
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07-04-2005 9:26 PM


Re: Marriage is for heterosexuals, period.
A natural heterosexual family with children has a male and female parent with heterosexual inclinations and children from their own heterosexual union. That's natural. Everything else is a deviation of one sort or another, some of them nobody's fault, but nevertheless not optimum, but the worst situation is one that pretends to a normality that doesn't exist. Children want their natural parents and while they can adapt to all kinds of less optimum situations they'd rather not have to, and at the very least they shouldn't be fooled into having to believe something is optimum that isn't. That's deceit.
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Message 221 of 291 (221783)
07-04-2005 9:53 PM
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07-04-2005 9:51 PM


Re: Marriage is for heterosexuals, period.
Apples and oranges. Gays are human beings to be treated as human beings. But only heterosexuals qualify for marriage.

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Message 224 of 291 (221787)
07-04-2005 9:59 PM
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07-04-2005 9:42 PM


Re: Marriage is for heterosexuals, period.
So, should people prone to severe panic attacks and anxiety be considered unequal to those who do are not because of their condition?
With respect to qualifying for a function that requires steady nerves, absolutely.

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Message 233 of 291 (221827)
07-05-2005 3:38 AM
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07-04-2005 11:31 PM


Re: for what reason?
I certainly think the bank is unjust. What people believe is nobody's business.
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I'm glad we cleared that up. Now pharmacies cannot refuse service to people based on their beliefs.
Not getting what I've been saying. I've said very clearly that I'm for allowing businesses to refuse service to whomever they please. I nevertheless may have a negative opinion about their reasons in some cases. Let them be stupid, that's my motto. I'm all in favor of freedom for people to be as stupid or unjust as they like, and against all attempts to legislate any kind of personal attitude or belief whatever short of criminality of course.
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