I have never asked why I am in love. Love is a choice. That part of me that longs to sing with another....You know...that whelling in ones chest we feel...The glow of innoscence from within....it is an infinately powerful yet very fragile thing. Like a feather capable of moving heaven and earth.
I respect this within me. I do not trust it to just anyone. My mind is the gatekeeper to that which sings within. To allow access is a concious choice. I choose too allow access to someone I have great respect for. I am fortunate that they made the same choice.
I find I fit with this person. We bring the twinkle to each others eye.
In this I see great potential. Like a child. I have found that others can feel when two people share in this way. My parrents were married 56 years. That twinkle was in their eyes till the end. You cannot mistake that look in someones eyes. I understand the quiet reverent power behind the look. It is humbling. Two are now singing together by choice. This is loves potential. It creates the bedrock of life.
Sex is just icing on the cake. One must bake a good cake first.
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Convenience is not love.
Preservation is not love.
It is only possible to love two people at the same time by intention.
The inherant problems are self evident. Someone who does this does not recognise what love truly is. They disrespect themselves, others, and what loves potential is. Love deserves ALL your attention and respect.
Otherwise you are nothing but a confused child in a candy store.
I would never allow myself to be part of that scenario. Love is not a contest or a candy store. I cannot respect someone who treats it that way.