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Peg
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Message 17 of 34 (532642)
10-25-2009 8:15 AM
Reply to: Message 15 by onifre
10-23-2009 8:52 PM


Re: Thanks for the tips
im in the same situation as you although i'm the believer and my husband isnt. We respect each others views and he teach's the kids (3, 9 & 13) his views and I teach them mine.
this is a win win in my view because the kids get both sides of the story and I know they will make their own minds up as they get older.
The strangest thing about my husband and I is that he is happy for them to believe in santa clause and the easter bunny whereas I have always taught them that santa and all that are not real and have never allowed the kids to participate in those customs...its a little ironic really

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Peg
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From: melbourne, australia
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Message 19 of 34 (532729)
10-26-2009 2:15 AM
Reply to: Message 18 by onifre
10-25-2009 12:03 PM


Re: Thanks for the tips
onifire writes:
But if I didn't allow them to participate in church activities with their mom, that would be a form of control and indoctrination, don't you think? And contradictory to the "let them make up their own minds" philosophy...IMO.
the difference with those particular customs is that we know for an absolute cirtainty that they are not real...santa claus the easter bunny etc are 100% fabricated and i've always told them that so they've never been tricked into believing that these are true
I've never had a christmas tree in my house so in this way i dont let them participate....when they are adults they may choose to participate and that will be up to them
but why should I trick them into believing such things when I know them to be fake? If i want my kids to grow to be honest people, i think i have to be honest with them first dont I?

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Peg
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Message 22 of 34 (532843)
10-26-2009 9:26 PM
Reply to: Message 21 by onifre
10-26-2009 10:20 AM


Re: Thanks for the tips
onifre writes:
But Christmas doesn't have to involve Santa, at all. That could be your choice. Does your husband want to celebrate Christmas?
yes he does, and yes he does
his family do the christmas thing and we do go with him, his family buy the kids presents (but they respect my position and so dont wrap the gifts in christmas paper)
we go for my husbands sake though.
onifre writes:
But none of those are about belief in anything, they're just traditional festive events. Does your husband want to do anything of those things?
we dont have halloween or 4th of July in australia, so he doesnt do any of those. Christmas & easter & birthdays are the the main festivals in australia. My husband says the same thing to me, that they are not religious celebrations and therefore should not be an issue. But the thing is that for JW's they are religious celebrations becuase the roots of them stem from pagan religons.
for a JW the important thing is to keep free of all idolotrous forms of worship...this includes things are are related to false religious practices and ideas.
Easter has a connection with the Babylonian goddess Astarte and the worship of fertility or in other words sex worship.
Christmas is rooted in pagan sunworship and even birthday customs come from the pagans fear of demons. the birthday celebration was a religous celebration to keep the person safe from demons.
so while i know that people today dont view these things as religous in nature, they really are. Being a JW is about being faithful to Jehovah...anything that detracts from the worship of him is idolatry.
My husband thinks its silly too, but oh well lol
Edited by Peg, : No reason given.

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Peg
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From: melbourne, australia
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Message 30 of 34 (533012)
10-28-2009 5:25 AM
Reply to: Message 28 by onifre
10-27-2009 5:19 PM


Re: Thanks for the tips
Onifre writes:
As an aside, do you have anything similar to Halloween over there? I know many parts of the world don't celebrate it per se but have a simliar "day of the dead" festival - or something like that.
no we dont have anything like halloween. Our celebrations are our public holidays, Australia Day (1st landings in australia), Anzac Day (war), Queens Birthday, Easter, Christmas & the Melbourne Cup (horserace)
onifre writes:
Oh - Well in that case, many things stem from pagan tradition. In fact, government stems from pagan religions. Think of the Greeks and their influences on modern politics.
thats true...interestingly JW's dont vote in politics.
onifre writes:
Have you researched this? As far as Christmas is concerned, it's impossible to be from pagan sunworship if the origin of the word "Christmas" is about 1000 years after Christ. And Santa Claus is on about 150 years old or so.
i have looked into it here are some quotes:
quote:
Christmas was not among the earliest festivals of the Church.The Catholic Encyclopedia.
The first mention of the celebration of Christmas occurred in A.D.336 in an early Roman calendar.The World Book Encyclopedia.
The observance of Christmas is not of divine appointment, nor is it of N[ew] T[estament] origin. The day of Christ’s birth cannot be ascertained from the N.T., or, indeed, from any other source. The fathers of the first three centuries do not speak of any special observance of the nativity.Cyclopedia of Biblical, Theological, and Ecclesiastical Literature, by McClintock and Strong.
Inexplicable though it seems, the date of Christ’s birth is not known. The Gospels indicate neither the day nor the month.New Catholic Encyclopedia.
The World BookEncyclopediastates: This celebration [Christmas] was probably influenced by pagan (unchristian) festivals held at that time. The ancient Romans held year-end celebrations to honor Saturn, their harvest god; and Mithras [the sun god].
The New Catholic Encyclopedia says: On Dec. 25, 274, [Roman emperor] Aurelian had proclaimed the sun-god [Mithras] principal patron of the empire ... Christmas originated at a time when the cult of the sun was particularly strong at Rome.
The book Celebrations states: The clergy eventually brought the ... world of the Saturnalia into the Church itself.
Encyclopaedia Britannica notes that December 25 was regarded as the birth date of the ... [sun] god Mithra.
The church of Rome actually hijacked a Roman celebration. The Romans’ favorite festival was Saturnalia, which began on December 17 and ended with the ‘birthday of the unconquered sun’ on December 25. Somewhere in the second quarter of the fourth century, the church of Rome decided December 25 would be the day to celebrate the birthday of the ‘sun of righteousness' Jesus.
It didnt matter that Jesus was not born in December but they likely saw it as a way to be accepted by the pagans...or as a way to turn the pagans attention away from their own religions. The chuch wanted converts and this was perhaps one way to get them.
onifre writes:
As far as Easter, I think your issue is not with what it represents but with the name Easter. That's the problem with this traditon is that the different cultures named it something different, and that's where the connections to greek gods/godesses etc., are made. But the holiday itself has it's own definition: the celebration of the death and resurrection of Christ.
Also, and this is important to note, Easter is a moveable feast, which basically means it has no fixed day it should be celebrated on. - Here again I'm curious how you came to the conclusion that it was pagan?
I understand that Easter is to celebrate the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead. Yet the customs that go along with Easter have very little do do with Christ, ie hot cross buns, eggs, rabbits, new clothes, and so forth. These have no association with Christ but they do have a long association with the spring of the year.
quote:
An Encyclopedia of Religion, by Ferm, says: Pagan practices were introduced into the Christian observance of Easter at an early age on account of the fact that the feast coincided with the beginning of spring. ... At that season of the year, the New Year and the creation of the world were celebrated in ancient times by an exchange of gifts (Easter eggs) and by generous hospitality to friends, to the poor, and so forth.
About hot cross buns
The Encyclopdia Britannica (1959 Edition), Vol. 4, p. 381. writes:
Like the Greeks, the Romans ate bread marked with a cross ... at public sacrifices, such bread being usually purchased at the doors of the temple and then taken in with thema custom alluded to by St.Paul in 1Cor. x. 28. The cross-bread was eaten by pagan Saxons in honour of Easter, their goddess of light. The Mexicans and Peruvians are shown to have had a similar custom. The custom, in fact, was practically universal, and the early Church adroitly adopted the practice, grafting it on to the Eucharist and so giving us the hot crossbun.
About Easter Eggs
The Catholic Encyclopedia writes:
The custom may have its origin in paganism, for a great many pagan customs, celebrating the return of spring, gravitated to Easter. The egg is the emblem of the germinating life of early spring. Vol. 5, pp. 225-227
Concerning the Easter bunny, this same religious authority states: The Easter Rabbit lays the eggs, for which reason they are hidden in a nest or in the garden. The rabbit is a pagan symbol and has always been an emblem of fertility. Vol. 5, pp. 225-227
Even the early Easter sunrise service is not without pagan antecedents. According to old superstition, the sun rising on Easter morning dances in the heavens; this belief has been traced to old heathen festivals of spring, when the spectators danced in honor to the sun. The Encyclopdia Britannica (1959 Edition), Vol. 7, p. 531.
And the same must be said of the impressive ceremony that takes place throughout Christendom on the day before Easter in which new fire is blessed and certain candles and lamps are lit. A detailed description of this ceremony includes the following: The obtaining and blessing of the new fire is probably a rite of Celtic or even pagan origin, incorporated in the Gallican Church service of the eighth century. The Catholic Encyclopedia, Vol. 7, p. 438
onifre writes:
And with the birthdays, why does it have to be anything other than a personal recogition of the birth of your child/husband/friend/etc? Why make any connection to anything? In fact, rituals celebrating ones birth even pre-date religions.
i know birthdays seem to be harmless fun and this is the biggest point of contention between my husband and I.
The interesting thing about birthdays is that the early christians were opposed to them. That is likely due to the nature of the celebrations in their day. An example is that the early church 'father' Origen, wrote in a homily on Leviticus xii 2, that
"none of the saints can be found who ever held a feast or a banquet upon his birthday, or rejoiced on the day when his son or his daughter was born. But sinners rejoice and make merry on such days."
I dont consider Origen to be an inspired writer, but what he wrote was factual about the views the christians held at that time and therefore I can safely conclude that the early christians did not participate in birthday celebrations.
Even the Ancient Jews did not celebrate birthdays. In the Bible there is no instance of birthday celebrations among the Jews themselves for they regarded birthday celebrations as parts of idolatrous worship. This is understandable because the nations around them were practices of false worship and it seems that birthdays were a part of their customs, the very customs that the jews viewed as religious in nature and opposed to their God.
I know birthdays are not religous in nature today, but its about the roots of the customs. We can dress any celebration up in a different costume but the roots remain and I must view the celebration in light of what i know about its roots. Early christians did not celebrate birthdays, nor did Jesus... also, christians are mean to be followers of Christ...would i be following his example if I practiced customs that he did not practice?

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Peg
Member (Idle past 4960 days)
Posts: 2703
From: melbourne, australia
Joined: 11-22-2008


Message 31 of 34 (533013)
10-28-2009 5:43 AM
Reply to: Message 29 by caffeine
10-28-2009 4:56 AM


Re: Pagan roots of festivals
caffine writes:
This said, I honestly doubt that God would mind. If your purpose is to celebrate the birth of Christ, he'd surely be aware of that and appreciate the intention. It always seemed deeply unfair to me as a child that whilst the Muslims, Hindus and irreligious alike all joined in at Christmas, the Jehovah's Witness kids weren't allowed.
What would you think if God asked for one thing, but you gave him another?
Do you think he would mind if he continually got something he didnt aske for? I would get pretty annoyed after a couple of thousand years.
The reason i pose this question is because Jesus asked christians to memorialize his death. He didnt ask for his birth to be celebrated, he didnt ask for his resurrection to be celebrated. What the diciples celebrated was the death of christ.
I received from the Lord that which I also handed on to you, that the Lord Jesus in the night in which he was going to be handed over took a loaf and, after giving thanks, he broke it and said: ‘This means my body which is in your behalf. Keep doing this in remembrance of me.’ He did likewise respecting the cup also, after he had the evening meal, saying: ‘This cup means the new covenant by virtue of my blood. Keep doing this, as often as you drink it, in remembrance of me.’1Corinthians 11:23-25.
The important celebration that JW's hold is the memorial of christs death. Its held every year after sundown on the date that corresponds to Nisan 14 on the jewish calander. This is the night that Jesus died and its what he wanted us to celebrate. His death is what makes all the promises of God possible.

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