First off, that only covers a special case. Again, what about the general case - such a woman is raped with a knife to her throat? Under biblical law, that woman either has to marry her rapist, or be stoned to death. There's no exception, even if it was somehow "designed for lying women". It's an atrocity - I'm surprised you, of all people, are trying to justify an atrocity for an exception.
Besides, the Hebrew uses the words "chazaq" (force) and "taphas" (grab hold), so the connotation is apparent.
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"Illuminant light,
illuminate me."