I have been married three years and as a matter of fact got married in Italy.
Tutti bene, paisano!
(They closed the bar early at my wedding - lame. Wish Jesus had been there, they had plenty of water.)
Nonetheless:
Jese was married. Period. Show me where it says he is not.
"Jese" might very well have been married, for all I know. (Would that be the origin of the song "Jese's Girl"? I hadn't realized that was biblical.)
But no reading of the text supports the idea that Jesus was married. You've failed to explain how you come to the conclusion that the bridegroom referred to is Jesus. It
could be Jesus, yes, because they don't specifically name him, but then, why don't they
ever again mention the fact that Jesus isn't single? Why don't they
ever say something like "And thus Jesus had a hard day, and went home to have a beer with his wife." Or something. And if Jesus was married, why would generations of Catholic priests insist for hundreds of years later that he
wasn't married and insist that their priests not marry either?
The text doesn't support a married Jesus. Period. I'm about as unrepentant an atheist as there could be, and even I can see that.