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ringo
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From: frozen wasteland
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Message 766 of 1234 (742878)
11-25-2014 11:10 AM
Reply to: Message 756 by New Cat's Eye
11-24-2014 11:52 AM


Cat's Eye writes:
The people who want to keep the practice are in Africa.
That's obviously false. There must be people in the UK who want to practice FGM or there wouldn't be a perceived need to prevent it.
Cat's Eye writes:
If they want to go against the law, then they should face the punishments.
So you are saying, in fact, that if the law prescribes imprisonment, then the practitioners of FGM should be imprisoned.
Cat's Eye writes:
But nobody is talking about sending a task force to their homes and ripping them from their children and throwing them in prison.
So how do you propose to enforce the law?

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dronestar
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Message 767 of 1234 (742879)
11-25-2014 11:12 AM
Reply to: Message 761 by Straggler
11-25-2014 9:16 AM


Hey Straggler,
STRAG writes:
practical effect of the law will be to separate mothers from their babies by throwing hordes of mothers into jail (as per Ringo's objection) is just drivel.
Hmmm. It seems you are saying a total stranger can take a child without a parent's knowledge/consent, slice off the child's genitals, and be soley responsible. I think you are working backwards . . .
STRAG writes:
The focus of the law will be on those who do the cutting.
No, I think the parents should be primarily responsible. Thusly, the main aim and practical effect of the law SHOULD be to separate mothers who solicit the butchery of their child. It's not like the circumcisers could get business without the complicit mother's help, right?

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
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Message 768 of 1234 (742880)
11-25-2014 11:21 AM
Reply to: Message 757 by New Cat's Eye
11-24-2014 12:10 PM


Cat's Eye writes:
What is compassionate about keeping people in an oppressive society where they have to cut off their childrens' genitals in order for them to not be outcasted?
See what I mean about chasing your own tail? We've been over that.
We (should) have compassion for the mother, who was once a "victim" herself. We (should) have compassion for the child, whom you propose to "protect" from her mother. Have you asked the child whether or not she wants to be removed from her mother?
Cat's Eye writes:
Part of ending FGM is changing those societies so that the women are not so oppressed. That's way more compassionate than: "if they say they ain't abused then they ain't", which is actually pretty disgusting.
The way to change societies in Africa would be to try to convince the women that they are victims. Until they think they are victims, effectively they are not.
Cat's Eye writes:
The opinions have been respected, they have been gathered and analyzed, and the reaction is that FGM needs to be stopped.
You're missing the point. Since FGM is a social norm in some cultures, they way to eliminate it is by changing those cultures. And until the cultures themselves do change, we have to make allowances in our culture. Oppressing people in our culture who practice FGM is not going to convince anybody to change their culture.

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Tangle
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Message 769 of 1234 (742881)
11-25-2014 11:23 AM
Reply to: Message 762 by ringo
11-25-2014 10:56 AM


Ringo writes:
I'd like to see opponents of FGM say, flat out, "No!, Don't imprison the mothers!"
Sorry to disappoint
Why don't they?
Because sometimes imprisoning mothers, grandmother, fathers, imams - whatever - might be necessary if the offence is serious enough to warrant it. If it isn't, then they won't be imprisoned.

Life, don't talk to me about life - Marvin the Paranoid Android
"Science adjusts it's views based on what's observed.
Faith is the denial of observation so that Belief can be preserved."
- Tim Minchin, in his beat poem, Storm.

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ringo
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Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 770 of 1234 (742882)
11-25-2014 11:26 AM
Reply to: Message 765 by Straggler
11-25-2014 11:08 AM


Straggler writes:
But what is it about the law in question that leads you to think mothers, rather than those doing the cutting, will face imprisonment?
Read the thread. I'm not the one who thinks that. I keep asking if we should imprison the mothers and nobody says, "No."
Straggler writes:
You have invented a problem that doesn't exist and isn't likely to exist even if the law in question is pursued to a far greater extent than it is at present.
The problem has nothing to do with the law itself. The problem is with the people who rabidly oppose FGM. They seem to be in favour of imprisoning the mothers. If not, why has nobody distanced themselves from the idea? I've given them plenty of chances.

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dronestar
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Message 771 of 1234 (742883)
11-25-2014 11:26 AM
Reply to: Message 768 by ringo
11-25-2014 11:21 AM


RingO writes:
You're missing the point. Since FGM is a social norm in some cultures, they way to eliminate it is by changing those cultures. And until the cultures themselves do change, we have to make allowances in our culture. Oppressing people in our culture who practice FGM is not going to convince anybody to change their culture.
I think Straggler asked you: is there ANY practice that you would find so reprehensibly abhorrent that you would want stopped immediately in your culture?

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 772 of 1234 (742884)
11-25-2014 11:27 AM
Reply to: Message 769 by Tangle
11-25-2014 11:23 AM


Tangle writes:
Because sometimes imprisoning mothers, grandmother, fathers, imams - whatever - might be necessary if the offence is serious enough to warrant it. If it isn't, then they won't be imprisoned.
Thank you. Tell it to Straggler.

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ringo
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Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
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Message 773 of 1234 (742885)
11-25-2014 11:31 AM
Reply to: Message 771 by dronestar
11-25-2014 11:26 AM


dronester writes:
I think Straggler asked you: is there ANY practice that you would find so reprehensibly abhorrent that you would want stopped immediately in your culture?
If I'm driving down the highway and a semi jack-knifes in front of me, I want my car to stop immediately - but it ain't gonna happen. There are possible ways to stop things and there are safe ways to stop things.

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dronestar
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Message 774 of 1234 (742886)
11-25-2014 11:37 AM
Reply to: Message 773 by ringo
11-25-2014 11:31 AM


RingO writes:
If I'm driving down the highway and a semi jack-knifes in front of me, I want my car to stop immediately - but it ain't gonna happen. There are possible ways to stop things and there are safe ways to stop things.
So, outside of examples of physics that are impossible to prevent, is there any CULTURAL practice that you would find so reprehensibly abhorrent that you would want stopped immediately in your culture?

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jar
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Posts: 34026
From: Texas!!
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Message 775 of 1234 (742888)
11-25-2014 11:41 AM
Reply to: Message 771 by dronestar
11-25-2014 11:26 AM


multi is key word
I think Straggler asked you: is there ANY practice that you would find so reprehensibly abhorrent that you would want stopped immediately in your culture?
Off hand, if the practice is limited to the members of that particular culture then I'm not sure there are any practices that should be stopped.
I find the idea of revenge or honor killing abhorrent but if that is the norm in some other culture and the practice limited to only those who are members of that culture I'm not sure I could see justification for banning it. Now if the practitioners of that particular culture tried to expand the practice to include those who are not members of that sub-culture then I believe it would be reasonable to sanction those who extend the practice beyond members of the sub-culture.
That does not preclude speaking out against any practice and the sub-culture would need to be something more than just an association based on enjoyment of some practice.

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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Straggler
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Message 776 of 1234 (742889)
11-25-2014 11:44 AM
Reply to: Message 770 by ringo
11-25-2014 11:26 AM


Ringo writes:
I keep asking if we should imprison the mothers and nobody says, "No."
Nobody has said "Let's imprison lots of mothers" either. Yet you are fixated on this "imprisoning mothers" nonsense. And, more to the point, no mothers have been imprisoned.
If a mother takes a pair of pliers or a carving knife (take your pick), spread-eagles her 4 year old daughter on the kitchen table and clips off her clitoris - Then I think most here, including myself, would deem that an offense potentially worthy of imprisonment. In the same way that a mother clipping off other body parts of their children would not be legally tolerated.
But the fact is that those who do the cutting, those who will face the full force of the law, are not generally the mothers. Which is why your "oh the mothers the mothers, the mothers will all be imprisoned" is just a disingenuous straw man.
Ringo writes:
The problem has nothing to do with the law itself.
If a mother takes a pair of pliers or a carving knife (take your pick), spread-eagles her 4 year old daughter on the kitchen table and clips off her clitoris - How do you think the law as it stands in the UK should be applied?

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dronestar
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From: usa
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Message 777 of 1234 (742890)
11-25-2014 11:45 AM
Reply to: Message 775 by jar
11-25-2014 11:41 AM


Re: multi is key word
Jar writes:
Off hand, if the practice is limited to the members of that particular culture then I'm not sure there are any practices that should be stopped.
Wow, I find that chilling.
Ringo, do you concur with Jar?

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 778 of 1234 (742891)
11-25-2014 11:45 AM
Reply to: Message 774 by dronestar
11-25-2014 11:37 AM


dronester writes:
So, outside of examples of physics that are impossible to prevent, is there any CULTURAL practice that you would find so reprehensibly abhorrent that you would want stopped immediately in your culture?
Do I have to draw you a picture? If physical events are impossible to stop immediately and difficult to stop safely, do you think cultural practices can be stopped immediately and without any repercussions?
Ask me a sensible question like, "Is there any cultural practice that you would find so reprehensibly abhorrent that you would want stopped EVENTUALLY in your culture?"

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 779 of 1234 (742892)
11-25-2014 11:53 AM
Reply to: Message 776 by Straggler
11-25-2014 11:44 AM


Straggler writes:
Nobody has said "Let's imprison lots of mothers" either.
Tangle did, in Message 769.
Straggler writes:
If a mother takes a pair of pliers or a carving knife (take your pick), spread-eagles her 4 year old daughter on the kitchen table and clips off her clitoris - Then I think most here, including myself, would deem that an offense potentially worthy of imprisonment.
So would I. That would be an individual act of abuse.
But FGM is different. The child may not want to be circumcised but she most likely doesn't want her mother to be imprisoned for it either. As long as the child believes that the act is "normal" in her culture, it falls into the category of vaccinations, appendectomies, tooth extractions, etc., not abuse.

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jar
Member (Idle past 425 days)
Posts: 34026
From: Texas!!
Joined: 04-20-2004


Message 780 of 1234 (742893)
11-25-2014 11:53 AM
Reply to: Message 777 by dronestar
11-25-2014 11:45 AM


Re: multi is key word
Did you actually read the whole post?
Did you miss the part about speaking out and trying to discourage some practices?

Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!

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