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crashfrog
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Message 1 of 61 (77494)
01-09-2004 11:18 PM


From Why creationists panic:
DrkBeloved writes:
Crashfrog writes:
What I can ask you is, if God created everything and is all-powerful, why is he such an asshole?
Ahhh, the truly eternal question. I would love to debate that under a different topic, since the discusion would deviate from the current string. I'll keep my reply here short.
Would you describe good parents the same way you just described God?
My counter-question: How would you describe parents that would leave a loaded shotgun in the middle of their children's perfect playroom? Is that good parenting behavior to you?

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crashfrog
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Message 5 of 61 (77605)
01-10-2004 3:21 PM
Reply to: Message 4 by TrueCreation
01-10-2004 3:14 PM


You could say that your child still is doing what he wants to do, but disallowing him or her to freely access any one thing that is physically possible places an artificial constraint on the child's living.
Can we assume, then, that you leave dangerous tools/weapons around your children?
Why is it then that when we expose our children to danger, we're rightfully prosecuted for negligence?
I find these "evil = free will" arguments lame at best. Humans have been trying to eliminate evil for all of history, as a result we live longer, healthier, and happier lives. There's certainly no sign that we're losing free will as a result.
Anyway how much free will can you excercize after your sibling has accidentally blown your head off? Evil restricts free will,by definition. It doesn't increase it.
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crashfrog
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Message 8 of 61 (77615)
01-10-2004 3:58 PM
Reply to: Message 6 by TrueCreation
01-10-2004 3:37 PM


But is this a good analog to what God supposedly did in Genesis? I would hardly call a tree of knowledge a weapon.
The Tree that causes death and brings sin into the world? I'd say that's pretty dangerous. A circular saw can build a house but also take off an arm.
I would think that if you remove evil, you can only 'choose' good. So then, if you remove the choice of evil, are you not putting a constraint on 'free will'?
But evil has victims. What about my free will? Why does your one choice about good or evil outweigh every single choice I'd get to make if I hadn't been your victim? There's more choices than good vs. evil. Infinitely many. Good isn't just one choice, it's an infinite number of choices in itself.

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crashfrog
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Message 10 of 61 (77627)
01-10-2004 4:45 PM
Reply to: Message 9 by mike the wiz
01-10-2004 4:41 PM


They understood language, and they understood the commandment of God.
Ah, but what they didn't understand was that disobeying a command would be a sin - because there wasn't sin, and they didn't know the difference between good and evil.
People who don't know the difference between good and evil, in our society, are either children or insane, and in neither case are they held responsible for their actions.
I suppose you could say it was a waiting loaded gun that an adult WAS warned about.
It's difficult to see a human, a few days old, who doesn't understand good or evil, as anything but a child.

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crashfrog
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Message 13 of 61 (77695)
01-11-2004 1:16 AM
Reply to: Message 11 by Silent H
01-11-2004 12:55 AM


They were clearly told that if they ate of the tree they would die.
How would that be clear in a world with no death? How are Adam and Eve supposed to know what "die" means?
I do not understand good or evil, except as useful catchphrases for people that like to stay in power.
"Good and evil" as a shorthand for "internalizing a moral code sufficiently close to society's." I assume that you've been able to do this; otherwise you're a very careful psychopath.
And for the current analogy being used, is a gun good or evil?
Does it matter? It's a dangerous item, capable of causing death.
Perhaps you misunderstand. It's not the gun itself that is good or evil. The point is that to obey a moral God is to make a moral choice, but prior to the eating Adam and Eve are incapable of moral choice - therefore God's admonitions are meaningless.
No matter how many times I tell a 2-year-old "don't touch my shotgun" I'm still responsible if they blow their head off. Hell, that's even true for adults, in our society - if I leave dangerous items unsecured, I'm responsible for mishaps even if I told you they were dangerous. It's my responsibility to take reasonable precautions against your willful stupidity, as it was God's responsibility in this case.

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crashfrog
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Message 14 of 61 (77696)
01-11-2004 1:17 AM


Where the hell is DrkBeloved? He's the one that had me start this thread in the first place...
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crashfrog
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Message 17 of 61 (77744)
01-11-2004 12:43 PM
Reply to: Message 16 by Silent H
01-11-2004 12:23 PM


The question is why did God allow there to be the serpent in his garden, and if he just had to, why didn't he put in safeguards so that Adam and Eve would be safe from his trickery.
Right, it's the same question, then. What kind of parent leaves dangerous items/creatures/influences in the perfect playroom they created for their children?
Well I think this idea of responsibility is a load of crap.
No, I think it's a realization of a fundamental truth - no matter how smart you are, you can't avoid being an idiot sometimes.
C'mon, Holmes. I'm sure you've had moments of pure idiocy. Do you think that you should die as a result? I hope not. It's just reasonable to realize that at some point, otherwise well-meaing people are going to do something dumb. Therefore other smart people have a responsibility to make sure being dumb isn't immediately fatal.
Why do you have responsibility over my willful stupidity?
Because you're at my house, or whatever. Because on my Stupid Day, I'd like the same courtesy from you.
Probably a better example would be the snake, and letting a drugpusher have direct unsupervised access to your kids 24/7.
Sure, consider my analogy amended. It's the same question either way. I just originally phrased it in a way that I felt was compelling to the religious tradition I surmised DrkBeloved may have subscribed to.

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crashfrog
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Message 23 of 61 (77883)
01-11-2004 10:42 PM
Reply to: Message 18 by Silent H
01-11-2004 3:50 PM


I think consideration for others' safety is nice, and warning others when we see a dangerous situation arising is okay too. But if you warn someone and they do it anyway, it seems like those are the breaks.
I guess I take a greater degree of responsibility - if you see somebody do something stupid/fatal, and fail to take a reasonable effort to stop/save them, then you're partly responsible for their fate.
I hope you didn't take the "load of crap" thing too seriously, I was just jerkin' yer chain since I was playing "god's advocate".
You know I didn't.

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crashfrog
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Message 24 of 61 (77884)
01-11-2004 10:43 PM
Reply to: Message 21 by joshua221
01-11-2004 9:50 PM


The Tree of Knowledge was merely a choice...
...made by people who were, by definition, unable to understand the consequences. Sounds like a bum rap to me.

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crashfrog
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Message 31 of 61 (77943)
01-12-2004 8:22 AM
Reply to: Message 29 by Silent H
01-12-2004 12:16 AM


By the way, do you feel this responsibility should extend to trying to stop people from smoking?
No, because I believe there's advantages to smoking. None that outweigh the health risks, but I don't believe that everybody who smokes does so because it's their Stupid Day. (What advantages? It sure makes you look cooler. Check out a Chow-Yun Fat movie sometime - one of his Hong Kong movies, anyway.)
But that is different than having to make sure that even out of eyeshot, someone will be incapable of making a fatal error.
I'm not saying we have to idiot-proof the world. But I think we can expect a reasonable level of foresight from people in regards to their dangerous tools, possessions, or property. At the very least, people doing stupid things with your tools puts your tools at risk, and that's something to care about, right?
You can't stop some people from digging their own graves. But honestly I don't know how a moral person could live with themselves if they knowingly sold them the shovel.

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crashfrog
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Message 33 of 61 (78242)
01-13-2004 3:24 PM
Reply to: Message 32 by apostolos
01-13-2004 1:22 PM


I was discouraged to see so much presumption in this thread.
This isn't the first time I've been accused of "presumption" in regards to this topic. Personally I don't see anything presumptious about making reasonable inferences from the "data". In truth I think the only reason a person wouldn't attempt these inferences is because of intellectual cowardice - you're petrified of where this reasoning goes, and the only rebuttal you have is "I don't like where this goes, but I don't know why it's wrong, so clearly stuff about God must eb beyond my comprehension." How convenient.
And of course, totally wrong. Remember that, according to your own Bible, you have the same sense about good and evil that God does. Therefore your own moral sense can be relied upon to judge the actions of God as they are presented in the Bible.
Now, it's entirely possible that what's in the Bible isn't exactly what happened. But until God appears to give us his side, it's all we have to go on.
We can not know the original purpose for the tree of life in the garden.
True. I may not know the original purpose of the shotgun in my child's playroom, but do I need to? It doesn't matter what the purpose was - what matters is the results: death. And God is culpable because there's a reasonable expectation that he should have forseen (not even using his magic forsight!) what would have happened.
The Bible clearly states that Adam was not to eat of the tree.
You haven't addressed the fact that obeying or disobeying God is a moral choice. And Adam and Eve, prior to the Knowledge of Good and Evil, are incapable of moral choice.
The only reason eating the fruit was harmful was because God said it was.
Laying the culpability squarely on his shoulders.
So when you are dealing with this responsibility issue there must be some clearly defined code of what is right in wrong.
Of course. God's own standard, in this case. But how could two persons lacking knowledge of right and wrong be expected to know what is right?

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crashfrog
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Message 39 of 61 (78472)
01-14-2004 5:27 PM
Reply to: Message 34 by apostolos
01-14-2004 10:43 AM


First, I did not intend for my statement of being discouraged over presumption to be directed at you Crashfrog, and furthermore I don't understand why you chose to take it personally.
Well, it's largely my thread, and certainly I chose the direction of conversation, so I guess I feel responsible for its content. If you didn't mean it personally, then I didn't mean to jump down your throat about it.
Also, I thought it would be understood but it seems to not have been, I made my second point to correct an earlier statement. Someone else had posted that Adam was not to touch the tree of knowledge. This is incorrect.
This seems like a quibble. No matter how it actually went down, several things are true:
1) Adam and Eve did not have knowledge of good and evil, making them like children;
2) The Tree of Knowledge means their death;
3) God's responsible for it's presence in the Garden;
4) If a human parent left a death-dealing item with their children, unsupervised, we'd find it morally abhorrent and criminally negligent. But somehow believers give God a pass.
There is nothing in scripture that suggests that Adam and Eve had no capacity for differentiating between good and evil.
I don't see how you can say that. It's the only conclusion from Scripture:
quote:
But the serpent said to the woman, "You will not die. 5 For God knows that when you eat of it your eyes will be opened, and you will be like God, knowing good and evil."
...implying that they were not, at the time, like God in that sense - IOW they lacked the knowledge of good and evil. God even admits as much:
quote:
22 Then the LORD God said, "Behold, the man has become like one of us, knowing good and evil
You can hardly become what you already were. It's pretty clear - the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil does exactly what we would expect it to - impart the knowledge of good and evil on those who did not already posess it. It boggles the mind that you would suggest the Scripture implies otherwise.

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crashfrog
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Message 43 of 61 (81529)
01-29-2004 4:26 PM
Reply to: Message 42 by apostolos
01-29-2004 12:59 PM


I know the basic material of what I was going to post but was stewing over the structure. I only post now to say I have been away for a little bit and is this thread even still going?
If you have something to say, I'll read it. Truth be told I hadn't realized Stephen had posted in the thread (though I don't see much worthy of response; apparently he lives in a world where it's appropriate to hand shotguns to people who don't know right from wrong, and how do you argue with that?)
It's not terminal, I guess. Your post will be appreciated.

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crashfrog
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Message 46 of 61 (81681)
01-30-2004 1:36 PM
Reply to: Message 44 by apostolos
01-30-2004 10:42 AM


From the text of Genesis it is clear to see that Adam and Eve were fully capable of knowing that the choice to eat the fruit was both wrong and harmful.
By what textual evidence do you support this conclusion? It's hardly obvious to me.

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crashfrog
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Message 48 of 61 (94346)
03-24-2004 2:58 AM
Reply to: Message 47 by joshua221
03-23-2004 8:32 PM


Wrong-O, actually Adam and Eve are throught to of been extremely intelligent, by definition.
Babies can be extremely intelligent. That doesn't make them any more able to make moral decisions for themselves.
Haven't you ever heard the term "idiot savant"? Paul Erdos couldn't even tie his shoes. (not that I'm referring to him as an idiot savant.)

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