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Silent H
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Message 11 of 61 (77693)
01-11-2004 12:55 AM
Reply to: Message 10 by crashfrog
01-10-2004 4:45 PM


Sorry to have to disagree (I think this is a first).
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Ah, but what they didn't understand was that disobeying a command would be a sin - because there wasn't sin, and they didn't know the difference between good and evil.
They didn't have to know about sin or good and evil. They were clearly told that if they ate of the tree they would die. While such admonitions to children don't always stop them, it's one of the more popular tactics parents use to some effect. Well... maybe just death, but pain and/or death.
The Serpent tricked Eve because for some reason she forgot it was the eating and not the touching of the tree that would kill them. When that didn't kill her, the serpent convinced her everything he said might be a lie. So she ate the fruit.
I suppose this would be analogous to parents telling their kids not to even try drugs because they'll go insane or die with one puff. The kids see their friends do not go insane, or die, and so start trying it themselves.
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People who don't know the difference between good and evil, in our society, are either children or insane, and in neither case are they held responsible for their actions.
This is not quite accurate. I do not understand good or evil, except as useful catchphrases for people that like to stay in power. They are certainly not consistent in use, generally boiling down to I like or I dislike.
And for the current analogy being used, is a gun good or evil?
Dangerous/not dangerous, or healthy/unhealthy might be better terms. I believe those are understood by everyone except infants and the insane (and even the insane understand them to some extent).
I don't mean to rain on your parade as I think I agree with the point you are really driving at, it's just that the examples/analogies being used are a little off.

holmes

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Silent H
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Message 15 of 61 (77734)
01-11-2004 11:38 AM
Reply to: Message 12 by Yaro
01-11-2004 1:01 AM


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I think good and evil could easely be defined as: what would and wont benifit the most peope in the most positive way, at any given time.
Well that may be what you think, but that is a teleological (specifically utilitarian) morality and there are many that do not agree with that kind of morality at all.
Were you for or against the Iraq War? Bush's used two different claims, deonotological and teleological in order to bust Saddam's chops. The fact is that the Iraqi people are certainly better off in the long run (or at least the hypothetical long run) without Saddam. Does that make it good that we did it?
Frankly I think the entire world would be better off if Bush was gone, but that doesn't mean I think his murder would be good. I don't think it would be right.
Teleological moralities are always compelling because they look good on paper, but they are hardly what people can live with full time.
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The tree wasn't benifiting anyone. It was a liability.
Perhaps it was benefiting someone. Since the serpent was there, maybe it was the only food the serpent could live on. Or maybe God eats from it. (FYI All of this is assuming a literalness to the tale which I do not believe). That would be consistent since the tree of life which grants immortality is nearby.
The only thing the tale tells us is that bad things happen if humans eat from it.

holmes

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Silent H
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Message 16 of 61 (77740)
01-11-2004 12:23 PM
Reply to: Message 13 by crashfrog
01-11-2004 1:16 AM


How on earth did I ever become a God's advocate?
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How would that be clear in a world with no death? How are Adam and Eve supposed to know what "die" means?
Who said there was no death in the world? I've heard some bibleboppers use that claim, but have never seen the evidence that the Bible says any such thing. Even if Adam and Eve could not they could certainly see it in the things around them.
This is not to mention that the Bible clearly shows that Eve was well aware what death meant. It terrified her quite a bit. The serpent had to convince her that death was not going to happen for her to eat from the tree.
Oh please don't let anyone think I am saying this as some sort of factual statement about world history. But the fact is that in that fairy tale Eve does know what death is and that is what prevented her from even touching the tree.
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"Good and evil" as a shorthand for "internalizing a moral code sufficiently close to society's." I assume that you've been able to do this; otherwise you're a very careful psychopath.
Oh this one is a very juicy topic, worthy of its own thread and not cluttering up this valuable one. Let me just say this very short thing...
The conditioning of people to react to their desires in certain ways has nothing to do with morality. It is simply conditioning and requires no concept of good or evil.
I myself have no moral code to speak of, and certainly have not internalized anything close to one. It seems all very funny to me. I have internalized the more ancient concept of virtues and vices. This is about judging traits and not actions.
However, I have been conditioned (and realize the practicality of) not slaughtering coworkers when they disagree with me, or taking things without paying when people aren't looking.
In defense of my argument I will point out that many very "moral" people continue to do things that are "evil", and that they even admit this but must fight it at every step... that's because in spite of learning a morality, they have not been properly conditioned. I on the other hand never even have an itch to steal (can't say I've never been tempted to kill someone). I view the level of temptation as simply the lack of conditioning.
We can review this in another thread if you want. I really think it is a side issue and not needed to make your point.
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Perhaps you misunderstand. It's not the gun itself that is good or evil. The point is that to obey a moral God is to make a moral choice, but prior to the eating Adam and Eve are incapable of moral choice - therefore God's admonitions are meaningless.
His admonition was not that it would be immoral, only that it would be dangerous. Once they did it anyway, he came up with the sin angle.
But this is besides the point. While it may be questionable why he gave them access to a tree that he never wanted them to eat from, I don't think that in itself is the bad thing he did. Although I must admit that after they ate from it he did a pretty good job of securing them from Eden (posting guards and all that), so why he didn't for the tree earlier? I guess it came down to trust...
In the end the tree didn't do anything to anybody (if taken literally), other than grant them knowledge (false or real) of morality.
It was the snake that was the real danger. There is about 0 question that they would never have eaten from the tree except that the snake tricked them into it.
So the tree is besides the point. The question is why did God allow there to be the serpent in his garden, and if he just had to, why didn't he put in safeguards so that Adam and Eve would be safe from his trickery. Not to mention, why did God punish them at all when it was obvious that they were tricked by this other creature?
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No matter how many times I tell a 2-year-old "don't touch my shotgun" I'm still responsible if they blow their head off. Hell, that's even true for adults, in our society - if I leave dangerous items unsecured, I'm responsible for mishaps even if I told you they were dangerous.
Well I think this idea of responsibility is a load of crap. It is the result of everyone these days wanting to punish someone for every bad thing that happens. Life happens. And kids, while perhaps not the most intelligent agents, have their own will and so responsibility.
I think it may be negligent for a parent to leave something lying around that is surely going to have negative consequences if a kid simply touches it (which is probably the definition of anything with a trigger), but I don't believe that parents should be punished any more than they already have been if their kid blows their head off.
I watched an interesting documentary years ago on a tribe of Indians in Canada. They still lived according to tradition. In their culture kids had access to all the dangerous things that parents had. They were warned about the danger, but things were not kept away from them.
In one scene a father has ended chopping wood and one of his young sons picks up the axe and starts playing with it. The doc guy asks with concern about why the father is letting this happen, and the father relates their culture's idea that individuals must learn on their own from experience and the best parents can do is warn their kids of the danger. When asked what happens if the kid cuts his hand off the father quickly replied "Then he probably won't mess around with an axe again."
Is this guy negligent, or is this a "wrong" attitude? Personally I don't think so. Of course I would not leave a loaded gun near a child, and I doubt this guy would either. I suppose if he did and his kid blew his own head off, the father would learn not to leave loaded guns lying around.
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It's my responsibility to take reasonable precautions against your willful stupidity, as it was God's responsibility in this case.
What am I your kid or something? Why do you have responsibility over my willful stupidity? If so, you may be in for a lot of work.
Heheheh.
Just bustin' yer balls. Honestly, all I am saying is I think your point could be made without analogy to the tree, or to leaving guns lying around.
Probably a better example would be the snake, and letting a drugpusher have direct unsupervised access to your kids 24/7.

holmes

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Silent H
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Message 18 of 61 (77817)
01-11-2004 3:50 PM
Reply to: Message 17 by crashfrog
01-11-2004 12:43 PM


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It's just reasonable to realize that at some point, otherwise well-meaing people are going to do something dumb. Therefore other smart people have a responsibility to make sure being dumb isn't immediately fatal.
Ahhh... a real disgreement. I do not believe we must idiot-proof the world for everyone else.
Let me put it this way, since everyone CAN screw up, how can I trust anyone to determine what the best method is to safeguard the world for me?
I think consideration for others' safety is nice, and warning others when we see a dangerous situation arising is okay too. But if you warn someone and they do it anyway, it seems like those are the breaks.
I remember a long time ago my dad told me that a certain bulb was super hot, and so I shouldn't touch it. My immediate reaction was to reach out and touch it. That was stupid... but it was all my own, and not his respnsibility for having had a hot lamp bulb where I could touch it. He did warn me.
My only problem is with people that put something dangerous within reach, say not to do it, and then also tell us (or have others tell us) that we should. Mixed messages are the real irresponsibility worthy of blame.
I hope you didn't take the "load of crap" thing too seriously, I was just jerkin' yer chain since I was playing "god's advocate".

holmes

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Silent H
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Message 26 of 61 (77893)
01-11-2004 11:52 PM
Reply to: Message 19 by sidelined
01-11-2004 4:00 PM


I am in agreement on the God as bad parent thing, that comes in the mixed message criticism I mentioned in post 18. I just didn't think the tree itself was the problem, or the ignorance of adam&eve. I thought the odd bit was the snake who he made a deceptive creature and then was surprised when the snake convinced adam&eve to do something wrong.
You think maybe he should have had the foresight to warn them about the snake in addition to the tree... maybe more than the tree in fact.

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Silent H
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Message 27 of 61 (77894)
01-11-2004 11:58 PM
Reply to: Message 20 by Chiroptera
01-11-2004 7:15 PM


I'm still tellin' ya it wasn't the tree. It was the snake. Adam and Eve pretty clearly had no intention to eat from the tree until the snake came along and used Eve's forgetfulness against her.
The fault of God lay in creating a snake that would deceive and then letting him spend time in the garden, not in planting some of his God-stash there.
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I don't think anyone is saying the world must be made idiot proof
I do believe this is the result of the idea that smarter people must (or have a responsibility to) protect people from their own stupidity.

holmes

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Silent H
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Message 28 of 61 (77895)
01-12-2004 12:08 AM
Reply to: Message 22 by joshua221
01-11-2004 9:54 PM


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Thanks for the "fairy tale" remark, you successfully insulted me, my God, and His people to the highest degree possible...
Oh please. After what athiests and evolutionary theorists have been called, as well as their scientific methods and theories, refering to a rather exotic tale that I believe is not literal as a "fairy tale" is not that bad in comparison.
Heck, over the last week I have been told several times I am going to burn in hell (apparently the prospect giving one fellow some measure of glee), that I am a creep, and that my gf and some other friends are also creeps that should die soon and burn.
To my mind the Bible is nothing more that a collection of stories. Moral fables. Perhaps I could have said fable instead of fairy tale.
What exactly am I supposed to say if I don't believe its real, or literal? Is that insulting? At least I am not saying you guys ought to die soon and burn for eternity.

holmes

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Silent H
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Message 29 of 61 (77896)
01-12-2004 12:16 AM
Reply to: Message 23 by crashfrog
01-11-2004 10:42 PM


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if you see somebody do something stupid/fatal, and fail to take a reasonable effort to stop/save them, then you're partly responsible for their fate.
This is somewhat a different animal than what you were talking about before. If I see someone actively doing something that might result in injury or death, I definitely do feel a responsibility to say something or help out.
But that is different than having to make sure that even out of eyeshot, someone will be incapable of making a fatal error.
By the way, do you feel this responsibility should extend to trying to stop people from smoking? If not, what are the limits of responsibility for others?

holmes

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Silent H
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Message 36 of 61 (78409)
01-14-2004 11:01 AM
Reply to: Message 35 by mike the wiz
01-14-2004 10:53 AM


Hey, what am I, chopped liver? I made that same comment in a much earlier post. Being an athiest I think I oughta get some credit for having gotten that part right... and taken other athiests to task for getting it wrong (I stood up for Xians).
Ah well...

holmes

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Silent H
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Message 38 of 61 (78438)
01-14-2004 1:56 PM
Reply to: Message 37 by mike the wiz
01-14-2004 11:09 AM


heheheh... thanks mike. I deserved that exact response.

holmes

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