Well, there goes the argument that the punishment for Eve's transgression with the tree included a painful childbirth. Yes, it's still painful, but the sin couldn't have been so bad that God left her and all women with the G-spot to ease it (and to make orgasms oh-so-good. Pretty sweet trade-off, if you ask me).
not all women can even reach orgasm through stimulation of the g-spot.
Seriously tho, seeing hetero-male fantasies of lesbians makes me just as sick as gay men seem to make fundies. First of all, it's horseshit. Second of all, they're usually not my type (IOW stupid and WAYYYY too glossy). Third of all, it's really big horseshit.
personally, it's usually the grotesque fake breasts that turn me off, more than anything. but i think the male mind subconciously works as follows:
1 woman = good.
2 women = better.
but, uh, one of my close friends in high school was a lesbian. so i'm moderately familiar with what what real lesbians are like, and i've never once met a real lipstick-lesbian. the closest i knew turned out to be bi, or rather, eventually started dating guys.
Irrational? Probably so, but you don't see me writing my congressman to promote accurate depictions of lesbian sex on cable and in porn,
well, people don't watch porn for
reality. some people pretend they do, but by definition it is a fantasy. the reality of the situation is often somewhat depressing, and even when it's not, it's not all that fun to watch. i've heard some fun interviews with porn stars about how they do it at home. one in particular said "in the bed, with the lights out, in the missionary position."
and if you think about it, porn is all illusion anyway. it's always strange positions (accounting for camera angles, etc), lots of different shots, lighting, and a room full of a few dozen people. it looks like sex, but it's about as far from normal sex as you can get, on top of the fantasy aspect.
of course, i guess we don't think about it, do we? lol.
And I would have to say that those fantasy depictions actually do affect my life because it puts into men's heads crazy notions about lesbians and I am occasionally harassed by men who think that they can get into my pants or "just watch" because that is what they see in porn.
really? people are really that dumb? i'm not sure why this suprises me. especially with guys. we're all pretty dumb about women in general -- but i bet these are the same
special people that hit on and creep out all the straight girls too.
i'm reminded of what kevin smith said regarding "chasing amy," that he was worried that people would take it to mean that all any lesbian really needs is "a good deep-dicking." in "an evening with kevin smith" someone got up and took objection to that very implication. i thought it was kind of ridiculous, because i know that sort of thing actually happens occasionally (see above).
Not to say that I look like those women (*ugh* who wants to anyway),
heh, i know a few girls that want to look like that.
but I feel that I am sufficiently attractive and am often hit on by men who find me even more attractive once they find out I like women.
people want what they can't have. it's in our nature.