Straggler writes:
I think "doing unto others as you would have them do unto you" includes letting others decide what they do or don't like being done to them.
Perhaps. Then again, I am drunk.
I know that I would object vociferously if my particular perverted desire to have my nipples clamped was denied me by those who don't share my fondness for nipple based pain-pleasures.
I'd let them decide what they do or don't like and I demand the same from them.
But they
don't like nipple crushing bricks of death, and they can't fathom anyone liking them either. Now what? In my case, They'd crush those nipples till they looked like bloody miniature cauliflowers. In your case they'd go: "No way! Nobody'd want that!" and walk away. Leaving your nipples pretty, and your sausage limp.
By the way, which cream do you use to get rid of the irritated skin?
On a more serious note. Yes, the golden rule does seem rather good, until you come upon complete morons (which the most of the human race are, in my opinion, but perhaps that is a different topic), and they can't imagine anyone not liking what they are liking.