Receive the apostles personally or their message?
So that we are on the same page, which scripture are you working from on this one?
I'm working from Matt 10:40 and Jn 13:20. It doesn't say their message, it says them. That seems to fit pretty well with the earlier part of Matt 10, where he sends the disciples out, and they are told to reject the towns that won't receive them. The context seems to be putting them up in their houses, and Yeshua says, "...whoever shall not receive you, nor hear your words..."
The two things go hand in hand there. It's personal as well as having to do with the message.
Why do you ignore the two that contradict yours?
Two out of three don't say "new", plus I haven't seen anything new presented yet.
I don't think the other two contradict me. When Yeshua says, "This is the covenant in my blood," there is no necessary reason for him to say new, even if he meant new.
These two sentences do not contradict:
1. This is a covenant.
2. This is a new covenant.
However, you are saying it is not a new covenant, therefore you are choosing to contradict the one that says it is new.
Not only am I not contradicting anything, it seems more likely than not that when Yeshua says, "This is the covenant in my blood," that he is not referring to a previous covenant established by the blood of a bull. It may not be certain that he was instituting a new covenant by saying this, but it is likely. And since one of the Gospels does say new, it is all the more likely.
In fact, the case is completely settled by authorship. The fact is, Yeshua didn't write the Gospels. He is quoted in them. The people who put out the Gospels thought they were referring to a new covenant. Really, that doesn't leave it open to discussion. We can ask why they thought that, and we can disagree with them, but we can hardly say Yeshua wasn't referring to a new covenant.
Again a teaching of the time.
You made this point repeatedly. I don't disagree with it in some instances, but I don't think it's relevant. The description Yeshua gives of hades in the story of Lazarus and the rich man is taken almost verbatim out of the Book of Enoch. Granted, much of what Yeshua says was not first heard from his mouth. I don't see where that changes anything.
Across the board, his teachings were pretty radically different than a straightforward reading of the old Mosaic covenant. So the Pharisees took a figurative approach to much of the Law, too. That's not really a big deal, and if, as I would believe, God is in the habit of helping people learn his will, it's not surprising that early Pharisaic teaching and Yeshua's teachings overlap in places.
Nonetheless, no matter how many of the new laws of the New Covenant were known before Yeshua taught them in human flesh, the fact remains that there is a drastic newness to the things he taught. This, combined with the ultimate point of the New Covenant, that God would give his Spirit to all his followers, makes plenty of explanation for why it is a New Covenant, and fits quite well with both Ezekiel and Jeremiah's descriptions of the coming New Covenant. The central point of the giving of the Spirit is not missed in the Gospels, where it's mentioned at the beginning by John the Baptizer and at the end by Yeshua himself.
Just for the record, I understand why they made that list on the link you gave, and I'm glad they made such a list, but I only agree that about half to two-thirds of them are similar enough to be the same teaching.
His behavior concerning the Sabbath wasn't new either.
It was new enough to get him killed!
It's funny, I read a book that blamed Yeshua for purposely bringing the wrath of the Pharisees down on himself. It accuses him of violating the traditions of the elders, the Law itself, and the Sabbath, and of purposely flaunting his violations. He references both the Law and the Talmud. I wish I could remember what the book was called. Now here you are telling me that basically his views on the Sabbath were at least somewhat normal.
The book pointed out that healing on the Sabbath would have been overlooked had Yeshua simply spoken to those he healed. It was touching the person being healed that led to his problems, and he touched lepers as well as others, doing it in front of the synagogue elders, provoking a response from them. Touching lepers is clearly proscribed in the Law.
I think there was an obvious difference in the approach to God prescribed by the Law and the approach to God Yeshua lived out on earth. I don't think the places where Yeshua's approach overlapped with some Pharisaic teaching changes that. The overlap is irrelevant.