Fundamentalist Recovery?

the are books available on cult deprogramming, and a bit of google work should give you a list and a bunch of reviewsfor instance I found this one
http://www.freedomofmind.com/...cecenter/books/rtb-intro.htm
on Releasing The Bonds: Empowering People to Think for Themselves, by Steven Hassan, which has a lot of material on-lineamazon.com usually has reviews of books by people who have read them, and in this case the re are 6 reviews by customers with several different perspectives.You may want to explore this topic together.I can also put you in touch with someone who has been through this as well.

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we are limited in our ability to understand
by our ability to understand RebelAAmerican.Zen[Deist
{{{Buddha walks off laughing with joy}}}

don't dismiss deprogramming too quickly. many techniques used for "brainwashing" are also used by religions -- studying about it may show you how applicable it is. but do not force issue.