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jar
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Message 181 of 323 (114312)
06-11-2004 12:27 AM
Reply to: Message 180 by Hangdawg13
06-11-2004 12:25 AM


When you get a marriage license do you get it from the state or the church?

Aslan is not a Tame Lion

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crashfrog
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Message 182 of 323 (114320)
06-11-2004 12:39 AM
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06-11-2004 12:25 AM


The reasons I reject homosexuality as a valid lifestyle.
You don't have to live it, that's fine.
But what about everybody who doesn't believe in your God? Why are they supposed to play by your religion's rules?
After all, nobody expects you to stop eating hamburgers just because the Hindus believe its wrong.

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Dan Carroll
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Message 183 of 323 (114410)
06-11-2004 10:10 AM
Reply to: Message 178 by Hangdawg13
06-10-2004 11:40 PM


If I let that desire or urge turn into actually "wishing" I could have sex with them or "fantasizing" about it then it is lust and very wrong.
Why'zat?

"Egos drone and pose alone, Like black balloons, all banged and blown
On a backwards river the infidels shiver in the stench of belief.
And tell my mama I'm a hundred years late; I'm over the rails and out of the race
The crippled songs of an age that won't thaw are ringing in my ears"
-Beck

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Sleeping Dragon
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Message 184 of 323 (114438)
06-11-2004 11:35 AM
Reply to: Message 178 by Hangdawg13
06-10-2004 11:40 PM


To Hangdawg13:
I am confused -
You mentioned that:
1) You are heterosexual
2) You are exposed to physically desirable women on a daily basis
3) You understand that the desire/urge to pursue sex is not sinful
4) But "wishing and fantasizing" is because it is lust.
So far, this boils down to "heterosexual lust is bad".
Now I won't play the dummy and ask you why homosexual lust is bad (since I assume you meant that ALL lust is bad), but I would like to point out that you seem to have dismissed the fact that homosexuality is not all about lust.
(As pointed out by CrashFrog) Just as heterosexuality is "ok" if the couple is motivated by love (hence love and not lust = thumbs-up), so homosexuality should also be "ok" if the couple is motivated by love.
Are you challenging the notion that homosexuals may have loving relationships just like heterosexuals?
Patiently awaiting your reply.

"Respect is like money, it can only be earned. When it is given, it becomes pittance"

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Hangdawg13
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Message 185 of 323 (114579)
06-11-2004 11:28 PM
Reply to: Message 182 by crashfrog
06-11-2004 12:39 AM


You don't have to live it, that's fine.
But what about everybody who doesn't believe in your God? Why are they supposed to play by your religion's rules?
After all, nobody expects you to stop eating hamburgers just because the Hindus believe its wrong.
In this nation, I have a right to vote for the candidate or the law according to whatever the heck I think is best. I desire that this nation function according to God's principles because I believe this is the only way it will last and prosper. If enough people in a state desire that that state function according to God's principles, so be it. Those who disagree can either deal or get out.
I like hamburgers. That is one reason out of many I do not live in India. If I get married just as the majority of America decides and votes that Homosexuality is the only valid lifestyle, I will simply leave.

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Hangdawg13
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Message 186 of 323 (114580)
06-11-2004 11:29 PM
Reply to: Message 183 by Dan Carroll
06-11-2004 10:10 AM


Jesus said that to lust for a woman is the same as commiting adultery in your heart.
Besides the fact that I have become arrogant and am no longer viewing her honorably as a child of God, but an object for my sexual gratification.
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Hangdawg13
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Message 187 of 323 (114582)
06-11-2004 11:33 PM
Reply to: Message 184 by Sleeping Dragon
06-11-2004 11:35 AM


Of course homosexuals can love one another. I am not challenging that notion. I do believe that any sexual activity outside of marriage (between one man and one woman) is related to lust.

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jar
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Message 188 of 323 (114583)
06-11-2004 11:37 PM
Reply to: Message 187 by Hangdawg13
06-11-2004 11:33 PM


Why do you have any problem with marriage between two people of the same sex?

Aslan is not a Tame Lion

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Hangdawg13
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Message 189 of 323 (114585)
06-11-2004 11:41 PM
Reply to: Message 188 by jar
06-11-2004 11:37 PM


see previous post

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jar
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Message 190 of 323 (114586)
06-11-2004 11:44 PM
Reply to: Message 189 by Hangdawg13
06-11-2004 11:41 PM


That's a non answer.
Why do you oppose marriage between two people of the same sex?

Aslan is not a Tame Lion

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crashfrog
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Message 191 of 323 (114593)
06-11-2004 11:57 PM
Reply to: Message 185 by Hangdawg13
06-11-2004 11:28 PM


Those who disagree can either deal or get out.
No, we actually have constitutional principles that protect the minority against a tyrannical majority. That's how we got rid of slavery; that's how we allowed for interracial marriage when most people were against it.
Morever, homosexuals as a group tend to be bright, professional individuals. Doctors, engineers, thinkers of every stripe. You really want our brightest minds running off to Canada? Do you think that's going to be good for our country?
If I get married just as the majority of America decides and votes that Homosexuality is the only valid lifestyle, I will simply leave.
You don't think you have a right in this country to practice your religion and customs as you see fit, in the country of your birth, assuming that you intend or cause harm to nobody?
How can you even think that's American?
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PecosGeorge
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Message 192 of 323 (114600)
06-12-2004 12:17 AM
Reply to: Message 168 by berberry
06-10-2004 12:30 AM


Re: The racist, sexist, homophobic apostle Paul
He was none of those things.
Paul was a member of the Sanhedrin and as such, married. This must have been an unhappy experience for him, for it colored his view of women henceforth. In no way, would he be tempted to denote any of God's creation inferior - as in women inferior to men, all things God created are perfect in their kind. He would not be a racist for the same reason, nor would he be homophobic, since he understood the rules of loving one's neighbor and leave judgment of what is unacceptable to God. But speaking what is unacceptable, does not make him a bad person.
Some of the things Paul said about women, he clearly qualified by stating that he speaks them by permission and not command. Much like we today might talk about the things that make us unhappy, so did he. He was much determined that men should treat a wife with love and devotion, and love them as much as they love themselves. He knew that less than that is not acceptable. He was just not lucky in love and deemed service to God more to his liking, a thing he also stresses.
For a look-see, check 1 Cor. 7

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Sleeping Dragon
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Message 193 of 323 (114646)
06-12-2004 6:46 AM
Reply to: Message 187 by Hangdawg13
06-11-2004 11:33 PM


To Hangdawg13:
Ok. So for heterosexuals, we have "marriage between one man and one woman" so that they can display their love for each other (and have sex without the lust factor), which is all very convenient.
For homosexuals, we are promoting "marriage between two partners of the same sex" so that they too can display their love for each other (again, have sex without the lust factor).
Which part of the above do you have a problem with?
Patiently awaiting your reply.

"Respect is like money, it can only be earned. When it is given, it becomes pittance"

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PecosGeorge
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Message 194 of 323 (114709)
06-12-2004 5:14 PM
Reply to: Message 193 by Sleeping Dragon
06-12-2004 6:46 AM


Lust
It doesn't work without lust. In the right setting, lust is a very positive ingredient to a relationship.
If you can understand that every negative has a positive........you can understand yin-yang. It's not that difficult.

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crashfrog
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Message 195 of 323 (114723)
06-12-2004 6:36 PM


See if you can spot the circular argument:
1) Homosexuality is a sinful relationship because it happens outside of marriage.
2) Homosexuals can't be allowed to marry because their relationships are sinful.
PG and HD, does this more or less summarize your position?

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