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jar
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Message 11 of 308 (378365)
01-20-2007 1:20 PM
Reply to: Message 1 by Hyroglyphx
01-20-2007 12:16 AM


Attack on Christianity?
"There is not an epidemic of women who aren't marrying. This is nothing more than an attempt to further degrade the sanctity of marriage in the eyes of the American public, which (by extension) is an attack on Christianity. I suspect that this is related to their desire to encourage acceptance of civil unions for gays.
First, approving MARRIAGE (not simply civil unions) for gays, is not an attack on Christianity. Supporting MARRIAGE, full, equal and identical rights for homosexuals is a Christian Duty. Opposing such rights has nothing to do with Christianity and is simply bigotry.
If they can convince people that marriage is ultimately unimportant, they will be less likely to fight new legislation supporting the rights of gays to marry.
Good!
First off, marriage has nothing to do with Christianity. Marriage is no more Christian than it is Jewish or Hindu or Wiccan. Marriage is a secular contract, nothing more.
A secular marriage can be sanctified by your church, but you cannot get married without first getting the secular license. Your marriage cannot be dissolved without secular approval as well.
Allowing homosexuals to get married changes nothing. If your cult decides not to recognize gay marriage, fine. It is your right within your cult to be bigots. That does not allow you to impose your narrow ideas of morality though on the rest of the world.
If you think homosexuality is a sin, fine. Go right ahead believing that. But sins are between God and the sinner. The sins of folk other than yourself are none of your business.

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jar
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Message 18 of 308 (378394)
01-20-2007 2:54 PM
Reply to: Message 15 by Hyroglyphx
01-20-2007 2:26 PM


Re: Attack on Christianity?
So, we see here that the Bible condemns all forms of sexual immorality, to include, but not exclusive to, homosexuality. Therefore, you can't say that it is the Christian duty to uphold the rights of homosexuals. The duty of a Christian is to extricate people from their sins because they care enough about them not to allow follow their desires down the primrose path. If anyone will not listen, then that is entirely up to them.
Bullshit.
Sin has nothing to do with rights. And homosexuality is not a sin in the first place except in the minds of SOME folk.
The duty of a Christian is NOT to "extricate people from their sins because they care enough about them not to allow follow their desires down the primrose path". The duty of a Christian is to try to live their own lives as best they can.
Your life. Not others lives.
Not as far as religious pretenses are concerned, I would agree. But it does have to do with God and His covenant, would you agree?
No I would not agree.
Secular law defines marriage as being a man and a woman, not a man and man, a woman and a woman, a man and a dog, a woman and a goat, or a man and a tree. Take it up with secular legislature if you have a problem. In the event that marriage is undermined, that doesn't mean that God is going to honor that marriage. In which case, they will do whatever they will do, but the consequences will be for them to deal with.
Sorry but that is just more NONSENSE for Jesus. Notice I did not say you are lying because I imagine you actually believe that bullshit.
You said, "Secular law defines marriage as being a man and a woman, not a man and man, a woman and a woman, a man and a dog, a woman and a goat, or a man and a tree." If that were true there would be no need for all you bigots to propose NEW laws restricting marriage to a man and a woman. In reality, that is absolutely false statement and you have been told before that it is a false statement and the fact that bigots like you support NEW laws to define marriage as between a man and a woman totally refutes your assertion.
You also try the old conman trick of trying to misdirect the readers attention while you palm the pea. No one is talking about a man and a dog or a man and a tree. To introduce such things is just plain dishonest.
Giving an opinion constitutes imposition? Remember, the law is already in favor, all over the world, that marriage is legally defined as a man and a woman. I'm not pushing anything. You are imposing your views. But, whatever, you have that right afforded to you.
Again, just another FALSE statement for Jesus. In reality, that is absolutely false statement and you have been told before that it is a false statement and the fact that bigots like you support NEW laws to define marriage as between a man and a woman totally refutes your assertion.
The sin of a homosexual is no different, whatsoever, than any other sin. The only difference is that some people refuse to admit guilt in this arena which is the only thing that separates it from other sins that are obviously not condoned with impunity.
If you think homosexuality is a sin, then do not commit homosexual acts.
The only sins you business dealing with are YOUR sins. Other peoples sins are none of your damn business

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jar
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Message 23 of 308 (378675)
01-21-2007 2:37 PM
Reply to: Message 21 by Hyroglyphx
01-21-2007 2:19 PM


Re: Attack on Christianity?
Its not a NEW law Jar. YOU are proposing to make a new law. But if you think otherwise, then your jurisprudence on the matter is being requested.
I'm sorry, but it looks like not only do your posts seem racist and bigoted, you also seem supremely ignorant or you are just plain being dishonest.
What did the "Defense of Marriage Act" do? It defined marriage as being between a man and a woman.
What are all the laws being passed in the states doing? They are defining marriage as between a man and a woman.
Those are NEW laws being passed.
The point is, Jar, that if you open the doors to this, it opens the door to other aberrations. Therefore, my making mention of it makes more than applicable, especially when proponents of NAMbLA and whatnot, are seeking to consolidate their penchants with ALL non-discrimination.
Ah, another classic tactic of the conman. Change the subject. Create a false dichotomy. Move the goal posts and throw in a strawman at the same time.
If sins weren't the business of other people, law enforcement would go out of business. And if sins were no one else's business, then maybe members of left wouldn't dance every time a priest or minister backslides. You know, its not like I'm uncompassionate to the sinner. The only problem I have is people that constantly make excuses for their sins and refuse to admit them.
Bullshit. Utter bullshit. Typical example of the ignorance of most Christians.
Laws have NOTHING to do with sin. Sin is something decided between the individual and GOD. Other peoples sins are none of your business.
Police enforce laws. Laws are not related to sins. Laws are behavior standards agreed upon by society.
You say:
And if sins were no one else's business, then maybe members of left wouldn't dance every time a priest or minister backslides.
Again with the left? Folk don't dance when a priest or minister backslides. Frankly, it is the right that gets upset and sends the person away. What the rest of the world does, and that includes those on the left as well as conservatives like myself, is point out the total hypocrisy and bankruptcy of the Evangelical, Fundamentalist and Religious Right movements.
Do you think most folk care when a minister sins with his gay prostitute? Hell no. Frankly, I don't even see a problem with it if it was consensual.
The only problem I have is people that constantly make excuses for their sins and refuse to admit them.
Why do you even care? Others peoples sins are none of your business.
Edited by jar, : appalin spallin

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jar
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Message 106 of 308 (379614)
01-24-2007 8:27 PM
Reply to: Message 101 by Fosdick
01-24-2007 8:01 PM


Re: The "family-oriented marriage"
I don't think my opponents here understand how really silly it seems to many people that "marriage" should include a same-sex option.
Oh, we don't doubt that many folk feel that way. The question is, "What does that have to do with anything?"
Denying human rights just because folk think living by the Constitution and really acknowledging equal rights is silly is silly.

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jar
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Message 211 of 308 (380444)
01-27-2007 11:39 AM
Reply to: Message 209 by Fosdick
01-27-2007 11:24 AM


More off topic absolute nonsense.
Hoot Mon pulls the classic conman trick of trying to misdirect the audience's attention while he palms the pea.
Speaking of CONSENT, here's a yes/no question to test the righteous resolution of all you homophiles: Would you consent to a blood transfusion from a gay man who you knew was sexually active with other gay men? This is where consent must factor more than social opinionation; well-established medical facts about HIV must also be considered.
Not only are you trying the good old Gish Gallop but it is just yet another stupid comment.
The answer is of course, "Hell yes I would accept such a transfusion."
Only an idiot would not.
BUT...
that has NOTHING to do with the topic of the thread.

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jar
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Message 215 of 308 (380462)
01-27-2007 12:14 PM
Reply to: Message 212 by Fosdick
01-27-2007 12:03 PM


As I said, not only stupid but off topic.
Hoot asked:
Speaking of CONSENT, here's a yes/no question to test the righteous resolution of all you homophiles: Would you consent to a blood transfusion from a gay man who you knew was sexually active with other gay men? This is where consent must factor more than social opinionation; well-established medical facts about HIV must also be considered.
jar replied:
Not only are you trying the good old Gish Gallop but it is just yet another stupid comment.
The answer is of course, "Hell yes I would accept such a transfusion."
Only an idiot would not.
Here's a case where opinionation can kill you. I'd vastly prefer to be a live idiot than a self-righteous and sickly fool withering away with AIDS. But go ahead, be foolish, ignore the statistics about blood transfusions.
”Hoot
Like I said, only an idiot would turn down such a transfusion.
First, transfusions are given when the choice is die NOW unless you get blood.
While there might be a faint possibility of getting HIV from such a transfusion, the other option is not getting the transfusion and dying for sure right then.
In addition, HIV is treatable and far more folk not only live with HIV but increasingly have a good quality of life.
Finally, HIV is NOT limited to homosexuals. There is as high a possibility of HIV infection among promiscuous heterosexuals or drug users of ANY sexual orientation.
Your example was simply stupid. Sorry, no other way to describe it.
Once again, as usual, you were simply trying to misdirect the audience attention so they didn't see you palm the pea, change the subject.

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jar
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Message 218 of 308 (380475)
01-27-2007 12:56 PM
Reply to: Message 216 by Fosdick
01-27-2007 12:43 PM


Continued stupid Gish Gallop conman tactics
I disagree with you, jar. All along this thread, you and others have claimed over and over again that EQUALITY is the main issue here, concerning gays and the future of marriage. You say gays should be treated equally and be allowed to get married in America, just like the straights. But when I point out to you that gay men are not entirely equal to straight men, regarding the relevant and scientific category of blood analysis, you say I'm off topic.
Do you deny the FACT that gay men, on average, have a much higher probability of carrying HIV in their bloodstreams than straights? How is THIS equal?
I'm showing you here one credible differentiation between gay men and straight men. Gays clearly are NOT equal to straights to those scientists who keep statistics on blood-borne diseases.
”Hoot
You continue to try to misdirect folks attention while you palm the pea. Fortunately many of us are not taken in by snake oil salesmen like you.
The issue is really very simple. By denying homosexuals the right to marry you deny them equal protection under the law. You deny them inheritance rights, access to health care, protection under spousal abuse laws, power of attorney rights and the right to speak for a spouse.
It has nothing to do with blood, with HIV or anything else.
I did not say anything about blood analysis, I simply said only an idiot would turn down a blood transfusion regardless of the source when the other option was a sure and immediate death.
You can continue to try to change the subject, but I will be here to remind you and all the readers of just what you are doing.

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jar
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Message 224 of 308 (380493)
01-27-2007 2:04 PM
Reply to: Message 220 by Fosdick
01-27-2007 1:33 PM


Re: As I said, not only stupid but off topic.
I'm afraid however you missed the point: Perhaps if gay men were NOT more likely to carry HIV than straight men there would be greater acceptability in the U.S. for expanding the meaning of marriage to include gays, or for even granting them their civil-union rights and benefits.
Even if that were true, what the hell does it have to do with marriage?

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jar
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Message 238 of 308 (380552)
01-27-2007 8:16 PM
Reply to: Message 237 by Nighttrain
01-27-2007 8:07 PM


Gimme that Straight HIV, not that thar Queer HIV
Well, if the testing procedure isn`t adequate, you don`t think it remotely possible you could get HIV coursing through your bloodstream from a heterosexual donor?
You don't seem to understand, that would be "Straight HIV" not that thar "Queer HIV".
LOL
These are all the same old stupid arguments we went through about 50 years ago. It is the same ignorant folk that fought integration, didn't want that darkie blood or darkie organs.
The names have changed but it is still the same folk opposing progress and civil rights and in that half century they have not even been able to think of one new obstacle or objection.

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jar
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Message 243 of 308 (380566)
01-27-2007 9:20 PM
Reply to: Message 241 by Fosdick
01-27-2007 8:58 PM


Re: Gimme that Straight HIV, not that thar Queer HIV
THAT is an insult to black people! How can you draw a paralle between race and sexual orietation? "Equality" has relative measurements. Think about it, this is not at all consistent with MLK's interpretation of the plight of all the little babies of color. The gays have introduced a new element into the standard equation for "marriage." It changes the meaning of marriage. You don't have to be a conservative Christian to see that.
I think it is important to ask all the questions, no matter how stupid they may seem to certain people. As Wittgenstein said: "What we cannot speak about we must pass over in silence."
”Hoot
Well, sorry. It was meant to be an insult to folk like you. But I old and sometimes not as accurate as I once was.
I'll try to make it clearer.
You're just trying once again to misdirect folk so you can palm the pea, change the subject, without them noticing.
So once again you want to play dancing goal posts. Now we have made the GREAT CIRCLE and we are back to changing the meaning of marriage.
The tactic you are now using is that every time the fallacy of your position is demonstrated you move to another one. Eventually you arrive back at the beginning and hope that we won't remember how your argument went down in flames last time.

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jar
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Message 262 of 308 (380692)
01-28-2007 12:58 PM
Reply to: Message 260 by Fosdick
01-28-2007 12:35 PM


Re: Your opinion of NosyNed's proposal?
That is exactly what someone would say if he is loosing ground in an open discussion. No, sir, it is you who is palming the pea. My criticism of same-sex "marriage" is my OPINION, just as your criticism of my position is your OPINION. Why do you get so bent out of shape when someone else's opinion opposes yours? The fallacy of my position has NOT been demonstrated, and it is you who is tactically avoiding the issue. I have agreed to NosyNed's proposal for legitimizing same-sex marriage. OK. So what is wrong with my questioning a few of the circumstantial issues arrising from same-sex unions? When was it decided that only the chosen people can ask the questions around here? And, please, what is YOUR opinion of NosyNed's proposal?
Another bullshit attempt to mislead the audience. The issue is not your opinion. No one really cares what your opinion is. It is your actions, your behavior that we object to. I don't really give a damn what your opinion is, only when you try to make stupid assertions like blood transfusions are related to the issue of marriage do I speak out.
As to Nosy's suggestion, I have long advocated a simple, one line Federal Law which supersedes all State and Local Laws. It would say that anywhere in any Law or Regulation the word Marriage or Married is used the term Civil Union or Civilly United may be inserted.

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jar
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Message 290 of 308 (380977)
01-29-2007 2:40 PM
Reply to: Message 286 by Fosdick
01-29-2007 2:11 PM


Re: Huh?
Nosy's proposal is brilliant for letting the churches decide who they want to sanction as being "married." It takes "same-sex marriage" off the table for legislative purposes, and gets it the hell out of my face. Isn't that what we have churches for? To deal with the moralistic aspects of society? If they are the morality cops, as they claim to be, then let them earn their keep.
ROTFLMAO.
The Churches already have the right to decide who is or is not married. They already have that. No one is proposing taking that right away from them.
Look, if some church full of bigots does not want to recognize same-sex marriages as valid, they are free to do so. If homosexuals were allowed to marry, the churches could still continue to show their asses by denying it is a valid marriage.
NO ONE cares whether a church recognizes a marriage as valid except the member of that church.

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jar
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Message 297 of 308 (381011)
01-29-2007 3:56 PM
Reply to: Message 296 by Fosdick
01-29-2007 3:52 PM


jar's proposal
Here is the deal.
Right now there are over 1000 Federal Laws, Rules and Regulations that are based on the word Marriage.
So here is jar's proposal.
Let same-sex couples get married. Then the Churches can call their ceremony Theological-Union.
That way everyone has what they want, Churches can recognize or ignore any Theological-Unions and keep their nose out of Marriage.

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