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Granny Magda
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Message 166 of 448 (467433)
05-21-2008 4:03 PM
Reply to: Message 164 by New Cat's Eye
05-21-2008 3:45 PM


Re: Just take "marriage" out of the law
Read the thread, I explained why I brought it up.
Do you mean this?
The point was that there are some things that are going to have to change if gay marriage is allowed.
So what? Big deal. That much is obvious and completely non-problematic. It still doesn't explain why you choose to bring up such a trivial little nothing as though it were a significant difficulty. Just be honest and admit that it was a bad argument.

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Message 167 of 448 (467435)
05-21-2008 4:15 PM
Reply to: Message 157 by Rahvin
05-21-2008 2:41 PM


Civil Union
I got tired of that subtitle.
Rahvin writes:
You are making a distinction between the functionally identical terms "marriage" and "civil union" based not on the merits or properties of either, but rather based on the gender of the parties entering into each contract.
I'm not sure I understand what the difference between a "marriage" and a "civil union" is, in the first place. Is there any difference in the rights afforded to somebody in a "marriage" versus somebody in a "civil union"? Wikipedia says civil unions don't require other parties to acknowledge the kinship of "married" homosexuals, and I also gather that there is no law saying states have to honor other states' civil unions. This seems to be the main concern. Are there others?
Assuming that marriages and civil unions afford the same set of rights, do homosexuals object to the fact that they don't get to call their type of union a "marriage"? I can understand that there is a whole mess of legalese semantics to swim through if we call them different things, (e.g. laws that say "marriage" in the documentation inevitably do not apply to things that are not called "marriage"; and I suspect this may be the reason why they were given different names to begin with).
I can also appreciate this as a "separate but equal" issue: nominally, Blacks had "equal" school facilities throughout the South, but that didn't stop the public administrations from rendering a semantic equality into a practical inequality (e.g., they gave the Black schools the same number of textbooks, but the books Blacks got were of lesser quality or were hand-me-downs), and, if same-sex relations are given a different name from man-woman relations, the potential for the same mistreatment exists.
Well, I guess I've kind of worked this out on my own as I've typed, but I'll go ahead and post it anyway so everyone else can see it, with the following assessment:
There is no reason to make a legal distinction between two entities except to render the two entities inherently unequal. The only reason I can think of for preserving the term "marriage" for man-woman unions is to set it apart from other types of unions, and there is no reason to set it apart from other types of unions unless you think it should be treated differently.
So, the question becomes, why should they be treated differently? Iano suggested that the difference be the potential to raise children, but the distinction should then be between "union with an intention to have children" and "union with no intention to have children." While this aligns nicely with my personal convictions, and I consider myself duty-bound to honor my personal convictions, I cannot think of an objective reason why my personal convictions should be enforced upon somebody who is not me.
I therefore have to side with California: there is no reason to legally recognize my personal convictions on a different standing from someone else's in this case. That's equality.
Edited by Bluejay, : No reason given.

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Message 168 of 448 (467436)
05-21-2008 4:15 PM
Reply to: Message 161 by New Cat's Eye
05-21-2008 3:30 PM


Re: Just take "marriage" out of the law
quote:
Why? Give a legal argument for restricting marriage by gender. "I don't think it's right" is an opinion, and has no basis unless you can support it with a legal argument.
The 1000+ laws that mention the word marriage were written under the presumption that those marriages would be between one man and one woman. I don’t know all the laws and ramifications of undermining those laws with a simple definition change of the word marriage. This isn’t an argument for restricting marriage by gender, that is the default. This is a reason for not simply changing the definition without considering the ramifications at all.
So, the "traditional marriage" argument. We've gone over this already. Tradition is irrelevant when tradition violates the Constitution. Definitions change all the time. The definition of the word "mariage" had changed very frequently.
quote:
Generally, marriage is state-defined. As far as I know, the federal government requires that marriages in one state be recognized in other stated, and recognizes marriage for tax purposes, but that's about it. DOMA is the only federal marriage law...and its Constitutionality is exactly what we're calling into question.
Not exactly. Marriage has always been between one man and one woman, even before DOMA. DOMA was a response to the challenge to that definition.
Right. Once again, DOMA is the only federal law that pertains to homosexual marriage, excepting of course the 14th Amendment that makes DOMA and similar gay marriage bans illegal.
Before the Racial Integrity Act, marriage was not defined as being between the same race. The RIA is different from DOMA in that it was redefining marriage, itself, but DOMA is maintaining the definition.
From the Wiki article on the Racial Integrity Act:
quote:
The first law banning all marriage between whites and blacks was enacted in the colony of Virginia in 1691, and this example was followed by Maryland (in 1692) and several of the other Thirteen Colonies.
Defining marriage on the basis of race predates the United States. You'd have an awfully hard time convincing me that marriage was not defined as between the same race prior to the RIA.
The current definition of "marriage" is still the core of the issue. If the definition violates the Constitutional guarantee to equal treatment under the law, the law must be changed or completely removed. There is no other course of action possible without violating the Constitution. Tradition is, as always irrelevant in such matters. The Loving v. Virginia case overturned centuries of tradition, and was counter to the opinions of over 90% of the population, and the miscegenation laws were still overturned becasue they violated the Constitution. The laws and acceptible practices regarding marriage were changed then exactly as they must be changed now.
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You can’t identify race like you can gender. Having marriage defined by race has nothing to base the definition on. Its really not the same thing at all.
You most certainly can identify race exactly the same way as you can identify gender - they're both genetic and are for the most part easily observable visually.
They are not easily observable visually and genders can’t “blend” like races can. I’m not convinced that marriage defined by race has something to base the definition on.
The RIA defined race in a testable way. It segregated groups of individuals, and said "this group cannot marry that group." DOMA and other gay marriage bans similarly say "this group cannot marry this group."
Do you really want to propose that either racism or sexism do not exist? Because your argument that "marriage defined by race has nothing to base the definition on" rests on the idea that racism does not exist, and it plainly does. Defining marriage by gender is, by definition, sexist because it marks a distinction between genders without any discernable, objective difference between same-sex and different-sex marriages. The only objective difference is that gay couples cannot have children alone, but we already allow marriage between couples that cannot procreate alone.
What's the legal argument for differentiating between gay and straight marriage, CS, except to "keep them damned homos from tarnishing the good name of marriage?"
quote:
Both of these constitute what was traditionally defined as marriage. Of course, traditional marriage has changed many times over the years. The legalization of interracial marriage was a huge redefinition in "traditional" marriage at the time.
But marriage wasn’t defined as being between the same race before the RIA like it is defined as being between one man and one woman even before DOMA. DOMA had to be written because the law didn’t explicitly define marriage and the definition needed to be stated.
See above. The racial definition of marriage was in place long before the RIA was enacted - before the US even existed, as a matter of fact.
quote:
Give a specific law that would be significantly changed in its function by allowing gay marriage.
Some states require marriages to be consummated to be valid.
quote:
...this may startle you, CS, but homosexuals are perfectly capable of having sex. They might put different bits and pieces into different orifices,
So now you’ve redefined consummation.
I have? How? Are you saying that homosexual sex is not sexual intercourse? Is this the Bill Clinton "BJs don't count" argument?
And what about heterosexual couples who are incapable of "missionary-style" consummation due to disease or injury or deformity or even religion? Obviously any law involving consummation would need to be struck down as well anyway, regardless of gay marriage.
quote:
So again, what changes?
The consummation one still stands.
No, it really doesn't. The functionality of the law does not alter because of same-gender couples. They are still able to have sex and consummate the marriage. The fact that the sex is not heterosexual is immaterial. You know, heterosexual couples have sex the same way gays do all the time. It's fun, you should try it sometime.
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No, they don't. "Spouse" still works just fine. If a married couple are covered by health insurance, what is the functional difference in the gender of that married couple? Is there something fundamentally different regarding healthcare coverage if you have a man and a woman or two men or two women?
I have a question: After allowing gay marriage, will I be allowed to marry men that I am related to? Can I marry my brother or my cousin? Because it would be helpful to get my cousin on my insurance plan at work as he has none. Is that going to be legal? I honestly don’t know.
See this, right here? This is where you just jumped the shark. Just wanted to point that out to you.
Can you marry your female sibling or cousin right now, smartass? Of course not - there is a legal argument pertaining to the marriage of close relations ( > 90% of such relationships involve abuse of some sort, and any children run a significantly higher risk of birth defects). Why would removing the gender distinctions in marriage allow for close-relation marriage? This is nothing more than a typical "then we can marry toasters!" red herring argument, and if you have half a brain you know it.
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You're saying "it's different," but you aren't providing any reason that it's different. Provide the reason or concede.
I don’t know all of the 1000+ laws that mention marriage. I’m assuming that some of them didn’t take into account that it might be two men instead of one man and one woman and that that failure of accounting could lead to these things your asking me to predict. I don’t know for sure either way, that’s why I think it should be taken into account before we simply change the definition. To not would be irresponsible, IMHO.
So, "I don't know what will be affected by allowing gay marriage, but it could be REALLY BAD so we shouldn't do it!"
That's not an argument, CS, it's a bare assertion. I'm not doing your homework for you. Either provide a law that is meaningfully changed in its functionality by allowing homosexual marriage or concede that you know of no such law.

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Message 169 of 448 (467437)
05-21-2008 4:29 PM
Reply to: Message 166 by Granny Magda
05-21-2008 4:03 PM


Re: Just take "marriage" out of the law
From Message 165
Yes DOMA does exactly what you say it does. And that is why it is being decried as unconstitutional. That is why California just threw it out. If it specifically denies a right to some citizens and not others, it is in pretty clear violation of the constitution.
Ummm, California threw out a state ban on homo-marriages, not DOMA. And DOMA is not a ban on homo-marriages. And DOMA does not deny any right to anyone, it defines marriage and says that states don’t have to recognize homo-marriages.
That's the thing about law. It doesn't matter what they were intending, as much as what they actually said.
We’ll have to agree to disagree here.
Reminds me of that phrase: A liberal is someone who will interpret the Constitution, a conservative is someone who will quote it.
I think the intentions are important. Its pedantic otherwise.
Even if we take the original intent of these laws as being the way you say it was, that will only succeed in making earlier laws violate equal protection under the law and thus the constitution, just like DOMA.
DOMA doesn’t violate the equal protection clause.

From Message 166
The point was that there are some things that are going to have to change if gay marriage is allowed.
So what? Big deal. That much is obvious and completely non-problematic. It still doesn't explain why you choose to bring up such a trivial little nothing as though it were a significant difficulty. Just be honest and admit that it was a bad argument.
Now you’re just being disingenuous, why did you leave off the last part?:
quote:
I’ve seen replies before that there won’t be any changes at all so I was trying to be preemptive
It wasn’t a bad argument as a preemptive against the claim that allowing gay marriage won’t change anything.
You’re vision is so clouded by your bigotry that you cannot take an argument at face value and instead have to misrepresent them so that you can vilify your opponent.

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Stile
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Message 170 of 448 (467438)
05-21-2008 4:36 PM
Reply to: Message 1 by Taz
05-17-2008 11:07 AM


Just Wondering
Taz's Thread Title writes:
Cali Supreme Court ruling on legality of same-sex marriage ban
Does this mean same-sex marriage is now allowed in California (only)? Or across the US?
Even if it is California-only, the rest of the states will follow, eventually. Some quicker than others, I'm sure.
Oh... I'm happy for this outcome, I think it's been a long time coming. It's nice when the law finally catches up with rational thought and human equality.

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bluescat48
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Message 171 of 448 (467441)
05-21-2008 4:46 PM
Reply to: Message 136 by Fosdick
05-21-2008 10:18 AM


Re: Just take "marriage" out of the law
What? I've propose a level playing field for gays and striaghts regarding civil unions. If gays can't handle it then they're ones who need to explain why they are disadvantaged by taking the word "marriage" out of the law. What you and others are saying is that straight "marriage" somehow harms gays.
No Taz was asking for someone to explain why gay marriage would ruin straight marriages.
Edited by bluescat48, : spelling

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New Cat's Eye
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Message 172 of 448 (467445)
05-21-2008 4:52 PM
Reply to: Message 168 by Rahvin
05-21-2008 4:15 PM


Re: Just take "marriage" out of the law
So, the "traditional marriage" argument. We've gone over this already. Tradition is irrelevant when tradition violates the Constitution. Definitions change all the time. The definition of the word "mariage" had changed very frequently.
But the tradition doesn’t violate the Constitution. Everyone still has equal protection because everyone can get married.
From the Wiki article on the Racial Integrity Act:
quote:
The first law banning all marriage between whites and blacks was enacted in the colony of Virginia in 1691, and this example was followed by Maryland (in 1692) and several of the other Thirteen Colonies.
Defining marriage on the basis of race predates the United States. You'd have an awfully hard time convincing me that marriage was not defined as between the same race prior to the RIA.
I’m starting to enter conjecture now, but I’m betting that bans on marriages between blacks and whites had more to do with other reasons than race. I mean, black people weren’t even citizens so could a citizen even marry a non-citizen? And it wasn’t a ban on interracial marriages explicitly, it was a ban on white/black marriages. What about a brown or yellow marrying a black? Those weren’t explicitly banned.
If it was based mostly on race, then it would say that people can only marry people of the same race. But it was written as whites couldn’t marry blacks, which covers a lot more than just race.
There’s also the problem of mixed races marrying so that clearly isn’t a good way to define marriage.
I have a question: After allowing gay marriage, will I be allowed to marry men that I am related to? Can I marry my brother or my cousin? Because it would be helpful to get my cousin on my insurance plan at work as he has none. Is that going to be legal? I honestly don’t know.
See this, right here? This is where you just jumped the shark. Just wanted to point that out to you.
Can you marry your female sibling or cousin right now, smartass? Of course not - there is a legal argument pertaining to the marriage of close relations ( > 90% of such relationships involve abuse of some sort, and any children run a significantly higher risk of birth defects). Why would removing the gender distinctions in marriage allow for close-relation marriage? This is nothing more than a typical "then we can marry toasters!" red herring argument, and if you have half a brain you know it.
What does “jumped the shark” mean? Meh, I just looked it up. I was honestly asking a question. Don't you think we should allow close realtion gay marriages as well?
Its not the typical red herring. I realize that there are already laws against close relation marriages, but I thought that you could marry a first cousin. I don’t know. But the reasons for those laws, as you wrote too are: “> 90% of such relationships involve abuse of some sort, and any children run a significantly higher risk of birth defects”. But those really don’t apply to me and my brother so I don’t see why we shouldn’t be able to.
We love each other and want to get married so under the 14th amendment it is unconstitutional for us to not be allowed to get married, right?
So, "I don't know what will be affected by allowing gay marriage, but it could be REALLY BAD so we shouldn't do it!"
That's not an argument, CS, it's a bare assertion.
Its not suppose to be an argument for why gay marriage should be banned. It was a reason for taking the time to make sure we don’t fuck anything up before we start changing definition all willy-nilly.

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Granny Magda
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Message 173 of 448 (467449)
05-21-2008 5:20 PM
Reply to: Message 169 by New Cat's Eye
05-21-2008 4:29 PM


Re: Just take "marriage" out of the law
Ummm, California threw out a state ban on homo-marriages, not DOMA.
Yeah OK, you're right enough there. The California ban was struck down because it violated the exact same principles of the constitution as DOMA mind you.
DOMA is not a ban on homo-marriages.
This is a semantic point. DOMA was a direct response to gay marriages and it ostensibly legitimised bans in those states that chose to implement bans. Call it an arm's length ban.
I think the intentions are important. Its pedantic otherwise.
Well I suppose that we may well have to agree to disagree there. So far as I see it, if no law defined marriage as being specific to opposite-sex partnerships, then gay-marriages were legal. Imposing bans removed that already extant right.
DOMA doesn’t violate the equal protection clause.
By enabling bans on same-sex marriages, DOMA ensured that many inequities were perpetuated, thus violating equal protection.
Do gay couples have equal protection when seeking to adopt?
Do gay couples have equal protection with regards to visiting spouses in hospitals?
Do gay couples have equal protection when there is a medical decision to be made for the other?
Do gay couples have equal protection when wills are contested by others?
By directly enabling laws that perpetuate these and other inequities in sate protection, DOMA violates the fourteenth amendment.
Now you’re just being disingenuous, why did you leave off the last part?:
quote:
I’ve seen replies before that there won’t be any changes at all so I was trying to be preemptive
It wasn’t a bad argument as a preemptive against the claim that allowing gay marriage won’t change anything.
OK, lets have the last part, by all means. The fact that you brought up this trivial nothing about changing some paperwork, as a response to an argument that no-one on this thread has made, only makes it seem more pointless that you did so.
Bringing up such trivia in the face of the importance of this issue to so many people's lives is crassly patronising.
I could, of course, argue that your vision is clouded by your desire to label those who disagree with you as bigots, but the truth is that I have no more idea what motivates you to talk such rot than you can know the motivations behind my posts.

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Message 174 of 448 (467451)
05-21-2008 5:24 PM
Reply to: Message 170 by Stile
05-21-2008 4:36 PM


Re: Just Wondering
Does this mean same-sex marriage is now allowed in California (only)?
California had a ban on gay marriages. They ruled that the ban was unconstitutional.
Or across the US?
No.
Even if it is California-only, the rest of the states will follow, eventually. Some quicker than others, I'm sure.
Sure. I think this is the best way to do it, state by state. California can be the guinea pig, so to speak. If all's well, then other states shouldn't have a problem allowing them to if they want to.
Oh... I'm happy for this outcome, I think it's been a long time coming. It's nice when the law finally catches up with rational thought and human equality.
I really don't care either way if gay people get married or not. I just don't think we should "turn on the lightswitch" on a federal level that redefines marriage to be between any two people.
And I don't think we should force states to allow gay marriages if they don't want to. Unless it is, as a matter of fact, unconstitutional. Then we have to.

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Rahvin
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Message 175 of 448 (467453)
05-21-2008 5:33 PM
Reply to: Message 172 by New Cat's Eye
05-21-2008 4:52 PM


Re: Just take "marriage" out of the law
quote:
So, the "traditional marriage" argument. We've gone over this already. Tradition is irrelevant when tradition violates the Constitution. Definitions change all the time. The definition of the word "mariage" had changed very frequently.
But the tradition doesn’t violate the Constitution. Everyone still has equal protection because everyone can get married.
That is the argument used in Virginia v. Loving! Are you just not paying attention, CS?
"Blacks can get married, just only to other blacks. See? Equal treatment."
"Homos can get married, just only to people of the opposite gender. See? Equal treatment."
This tradition does violate the Constitution, becasue just as the interracial marriage laws discriminated by race, the current definition discriminates by gender!
Equal treatment under the law is not being given, and so the current definition and laws must change.
quote:
From the Wiki article on the Racial Integrity Act:
quote:
The first law banning all marriage between whites and blacks was enacted in the colony of Virginia in 1691, and this example was followed by Maryland (in 1692) and several of the other Thirteen Colonies.
Defining marriage on the basis of race predates the United States. You'd have an awfully hard time convincing me that marriage was not defined as between the same race prior to the RIA.
I’m starting to enter conjecture now, but I’m betting that bans on marriages between blacks and whites had more to do with other reasons than race. I mean, black people weren’t even citizens so could a citizen even marry a non-citizen? And it wasn’t a ban on interracial marriages explicitly, it was a ban on white/black marriages. What about a brown or yellow marrying a black? Those weren’t explicitly banned.
Wow, issues of compounding racism. It's all irrelevant, CS. The racial laws discriminated by race, and were ruled Unconstitutional. The ant-gay marriage laws discriminate by gender and are Unconstitutional - DOMA simply hasn't yet been challenged in the Supreme Court yet. It took this long just to get the California state Supreme Court to look at its own state version.
If it was based mostly on race, then it would say that people can only marry people of the same race. But it was written as whites couldn’t marry blacks, which covers a lot more than just race.
Yes, the RIA was secifically designed to promote "white superiority." That was one of the things brought up in the devision of Loving v. Virginia. The primary argument, however, was equal treatment under the law.
There’s also the problem of mixed races marrying so that clearly isn’t a good way to define marriage.
They defined "white" very specifically with regard to mixed races in teh RIA, CS. You obviously haven't read anything about Loving v. Virginia.
quote:
I have a question: After allowing gay marriage, will I be allowed to marry men that I am related to? Can I marry my brother or my cousin? Because it would be helpful to get my cousin on my insurance plan at work as he has none. Is that going to be legal? I honestly don’t know.
See this, right here? This is where you just jumped the shark. Just wanted to point that out to you.
Can you marry your female sibling or cousin right now, smartass? Of course not - there is a legal argument pertaining to the marriage of close relations ( > 90% of such relationships involve abuse of some sort, and any children run a significantly higher risk of birth defects). Why would removing the gender distinctions in marriage allow for close-relation marriage? This is nothing more than a typical "then we can marry toasters!" red herring argument, and if you have half a brain you know it.
What does “jumped the shark” mean? Meh, I just looked it up. I was honestly asking a question. Don't you think we should allow close realtion gay marriages as well?
Close relation heterosexual marriages are not allowed, and I provided the reasons. Why would allowing homosexual marriage also allow close-relation homosexual marriage? They have nothing to do with each other, becasue there is a legal argument for denying close-relation marriage. There is no such argument for restricting marriage by gender. You jumped the shark because this is a compeltely ludicrous argument - a total red herring. Removing gender distinctions from the legal definition of marriage has nothing whatsoever to do with whether individuals are related.
Its not the typical red herring. I realize that there are already laws against close relation marriages, but I thought that you could marry a first cousin. I don’t know. But the reasons for those laws, as you wrote too are: “> 90% of such relationships involve abuse of some sort, and any children run a significantly higher risk of birth defects”. But those really don’t apply to me and my brother so I don’t see why we shouldn’t be able to.
And strictly speaking, I wouldn't oppose your right to marry your brother assuming there was no abuse involved. The problem is the vast majority of incestuous relationships do involve abuse, and so there is still a legal argument for disallowing close-relation marriage.
We love each other and want to get married so under the 14th amendment it is unconstitutional for us to not be allowed to get married, right?
Except that the state does have an interest in ensuring the safety of its citizens, and so a practice where the vast majority involve abuse can be disallowed.
quote:
So, "I don't know what will be affected by allowing gay marriage, but it could be REALLY BAD so we shouldn't do it!"
That's not an argument, CS, it's a bare assertion.
Its not suppose to be an argument for why gay marriage should be banned. It was a reason for taking the time to make sure we don’t fuck anything up before we start changing definition all willy-nilly.
Do you think people decided all of these things 5 minutes ago? How long do you think gay rights activists and their opponents have been considering this? A week? A month? Try decades. This is not a "willy-nilly" situation, CS, and if changes need to be made, then they need to be made even if those changes necessitate further changes to ensure compliance with the Constitution. How many laws do you think needed to be changed when we finally made minority races into full citizens?
FACT: Disallowing gay marriage is a violation of the Equal Treatment clause of the 14th Amendment.
Further considerations are wholly irrelevant. Marriage as it exists today must either be changed to comply with the 14th Amendment by allowing gay marriage, OR must be completely removed as a state-recognized practice. There ARE NO OTHER OPTIONS that comply with the law of the United States.

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subbie
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Message 176 of 448 (467456)
05-21-2008 5:40 PM
Reply to: Message 169 by New Cat's Eye
05-21-2008 4:29 PM


Re: Just take "marriage" out of the law
quote:
Reminds me of that phrase: A liberal is someone who will interpret the Constitution, a conservative is someone who will quote it.
How clever.
Here's the quote from the Constitution:
All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the State wherein they reside. No State shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any State deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.
I guess I'm a conservative now, huh?
Now I'll give you a little phrase of my own: A conservative is someone who will quote the Constitution, then ignore it.

Those who would sacrifice an essential liberty for a temporary security will lose both, and deserve neither. -- Benjamin Franklin
We see monsters where science shows us windmills. -- Phat

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Message 177 of 448 (467457)
05-21-2008 5:44 PM
Reply to: Message 173 by Granny Magda
05-21-2008 5:20 PM


Re: Just take "marriage" out of the law
The California ban was struck down because it violated the exact same principles of the constitution as DOMA mind you.
No. DOMA doesn’t violate the constitution. All it does is define the word marriage and prevent states from being forced to recognize gay marriages.
This is a semantic point. DOMA was a direct response to gay marriages and it ostensibly legitimised bans in those states that chose to implement bans. Call it an arm's length ban.
Wrong again. Bans would be unconstitutional. DOMA does not legitimize bans.
So far as I see it, if no law defined marriage as being specific to opposite-sex partnerships, then gay-marriages were legal. Imposing bans removed that already extant right.
That’s the thing though. If, without a definition of marriage, gay marriage were legit, then there wouldn’t be a problem in the first place. But they’re not, so there is.
By enabling bans on same-sex marriages, DOMA ensured that many inequities were perpetuated, thus violating equal protection.
But DOMA doesn’t enable bans. Your premise is false.
By directly enabling laws that perpetuate these and other inequities in sate protection, DOMA violates the fourteenth amendment.
What laws perpetuate those inequities and how does DOMA enable them?
The fact that you brought up this trivial nothing about changing some paperwork, as a response to an argument that no-one on this thread has made, only makes it seem more pointless that you did so.
Well like I said, it was preemptive. But this isn’t the first time this topic has come up here. Typically, when someone disagrees with the liberals, they pile on and start the name calling. (lol, every heard the phrase: A bigot is someone who disagrees with a liberal) I figured someone would through out the same argument that I’ve seen before on this topic that allowing gay marriage wouldn’t change anything. They usually say something like: name one thing that will change because of gay marriage. I chose something very unimportant on purpose as a rub.

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Message 178 of 448 (467473)
05-21-2008 7:32 PM
Reply to: Message 171 by bluescat48
05-21-2008 4:46 PM


Re: Just take "marriage" out of the law
bluecat48 writes:
No Taz was asking for someone to explain why gay marriage would ruin straight marriages.
No one is claiming here that "gay marriage" would ruin straight marriages. "Ruin" in the wrong verb. But I am claiming that the only way to find out if "gay marriage" would adversely affect those who are married the regular way: ask them. If they say it would affect them then who are you to say it shouldn't? You are assuming, bluecat, that their is a single moral authority on this issue. All we have here are opinions and comparisons. And when people compare America's resistance to "gay marriage" with American's history of enslaving blacks I am reassured that they don't know what the hell they're talking about.
”HM

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Libmr2bs
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Message 179 of 448 (467494)
05-21-2008 10:36 PM
Reply to: Message 69 by lyx2no
05-18-2008 10:12 PM


Re: We Called Them Down Upon Our Own Heads
If government didn't recognize marriage, the courts would have nothing to decide. Couples who don't marry have an easier time separating and seem to work matters out without a third party intervening. The pledge of a couple should be the only commitment needed to form a union.

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lyx2no
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Message 180 of 448 (467496)
05-22-2008 12:57 AM
Reply to: Message 179 by Libmr2bs
05-21-2008 10:36 PM


Re: We Called Them Down Upon Our Own Heads
You're kidding, right? One of the primary duties of government is to enforce contract law. If the less then happily married couple do not agree on the conditions of the contract they have the right to bring civil suit. The government is looking out for their own best interests when they standardize the contract; not the interests of the litigants.
And you're kidding yourself if you think de-cohabiting couples with joint real assets aren't in court every bit as often as divorcing couples.

Kindly
A mind changed against its will is of the same opinion still.

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