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ringo
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Message 738 of 1234 (742469)
11-20-2014 12:20 PM
Reply to: Message 737 by Tangle
11-20-2014 12:14 PM


Tangle writes:
What is the difference?
As I have said twice, the difference is that the dead victims of human sacrifice do not go on to advocate for human sacrifice. They do not change their dead minds.
I'm sure you can come up with similarities between FGM and human sacrifice. The perpetrators and the victims all have toes, for example.
But you asked for the difference and I told you. If you want a different answer, ask a different question.

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 741 of 1234 (742599)
11-22-2014 10:41 AM
Reply to: Message 740 by New Cat's Eye
11-21-2014 3:59 PM


Cat's Eye writes:
When I provide you support, you ask me to make my point.
You said, "That's discussed in the report too." So tell us in your own words how that discussion in the report supports your point.
Cat's Eye writes:
You're just dancing around in circles.
If your "point" is chasing its own tail, the only way I can catch it is by chasing it in circles. If you had a strong point....

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ringo
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Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
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Message 743 of 1234 (742635)
11-22-2014 2:29 PM
Reply to: Message 742 by New Cat's Eye
11-22-2014 2:15 PM


Cat's Eye writes:
How are any of my points chasing their own tail?
All I'm doing is criticizing your so-called position, so if I'm going in circles it's because your position is going in circles.
Cat's Eye writes:
You're dancing around in circles because you're responding to points with a call for support, and responding to the support with a call for points.
Bullshit. You're refusing, in this very post, to provide support because it's "hard to copy and paste" from a PDF.
Cat's Eye writes:
All points are weak when you dig your heals in and close your eyes.
If you had a strong point, you'd present it for the lurkers. You wouldn't worry about my eyes being closed.
(Mind you, you'd better make sure you're clear on what the point is before you put too much effort into it.)

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 745 of 1234 (742647)
11-22-2014 3:12 PM
Reply to: Message 744 by New Cat's Eye
11-22-2014 3:00 PM


Cat's Eye writes:
And you would know this if you bothered to click on the link and peak at page 14 like I asked you to.
I did read page 14 but thanks for finally posting it.
The question remains: How do you think it supports your position?
I have not disputed that FGM is a social norm. I have not disputed the sociological reasons for the continuing existence of FGM.
What I am disputing is putting people in prison for praciticing a social norm. What I am suggesting is that social norms should be considered as social norms by our legal system and not equivocated with abnormal behaviour such as child abuse.
Edited by ringo, : Spellng.
Edited by ringo, : Moar spllinge.

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 749 of 1234 (742724)
11-23-2014 1:33 PM
Reply to: Message 746 by New Cat's Eye
11-22-2014 3:21 PM


Cat's Eye writes:
Nobody is talking about imprisoning the women who say they want to keep the practice.
I asked you that very question a number of times. In Message 710 I asked, "So it's "more compassionate" to separate a young girl from her mother by throwing the mother in prison?" and in Message 711 you said, "Sure, we should remove children from abusive homes. Its the right thing to do."

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 750 of 1234 (742726)
11-23-2014 1:38 PM
Reply to: Message 747 by New Cat's Eye
11-22-2014 3:24 PM


Cat's Eye writes:
ringo writes:
If she says she ain't abused, she ain't.
That statement discounts the sociological reasons.
No, it puts other reasons, such as compassionate reasons, ahead of sociological reasons. If a society has ingrained reasons for a certain practice, whether those reasons are good or bad, we are not forced to ignore their stated feelings in favour of our own calculations. We can, and sometimes should, make allowances.

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 751 of 1234 (742727)
11-23-2014 1:44 PM
Reply to: Message 748 by Coyote
11-22-2014 3:24 PM


Coyote writes:
If you want to consider various behaviors as "social norms" you must place them in the society to which they belong.
What is a social norm in one place isn't always acceptable elsewhere.
We're talking about blending societies here. If we're going to accept people from other societies to merge into ours, we have to be prepared sometimes to take the bad with the good.
Coyote writes:
Our legal system is not obliged to ignore beheadings because someone's daughter dated the wrong fellow, not is blasphemy a crime punishable by death here just because it offends someone's sensibilities.
It's funny how you guys fixate on the most extreme examples.
I have not suggested letting people get away with murder. I have suggested not putting mothers in prison for making decisions for their children, such as about vaccinations, appendectomies or circumcision.

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 762 of 1234 (742873)
11-25-2014 10:56 AM
Reply to: Message 752 by Straggler
11-23-2014 4:39 PM


Straggler writes:
Who is advocating that mothers, rather than those who actually undertake the FGM procedure, should face legal consequences?
Read the thread. I have asked several times if the mothers should be imprisoned and the general view seems to be that "the law must be enforced".
Personally, I don't think the laws are targeted at the mothers - so why can't I get anybody to distance themselves from imprisoning the mothers? I'd like to see opponents of FGM say, flat out, "No!, Don't imprison the mothers!" Why don't they?

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 763 of 1234 (742874)
11-25-2014 11:00 AM
Reply to: Message 754 by Jon
11-23-2014 8:27 PM


Jon writes:
You're being so ridiculous that your posts no longer warrant reply.
Just for the record, you have no reply for:
quote:
Female circumcision crosses whole cultures. It is not an aberrant behaviour within a culture; it is only aberrant to other cultures.
or for
quote:
Since you have labeled multiculturalism as "poisonous", you clearly have no tolerance for other cultures at all.

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ringo
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Posts: 20940
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Message 764 of 1234 (742875)
11-25-2014 11:05 AM
Reply to: Message 755 by Coyote
11-23-2014 8:51 PM


Coyote writes:
If people come from other places to "blend into our societies," perhaps it is best if they actually do so, not demand that their ways of doing things be dominant.
Nobody's demanding that their culture be dominant. They just want to be tolerated.
Coyote writes:
And I'm willing to bet that anyone moving to Canada from the US who brings a lot of guns and demands to be treated under US rather than Canadian laws would not get a warm reception.
What a bizarre scenario. If I brought my guns to the US, I'd expect a lot more tolerance for them than I would get in Canada.

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 766 of 1234 (742878)
11-25-2014 11:10 AM
Reply to: Message 756 by New Cat's Eye
11-24-2014 11:52 AM


Cat's Eye writes:
The people who want to keep the practice are in Africa.
That's obviously false. There must be people in the UK who want to practice FGM or there wouldn't be a perceived need to prevent it.
Cat's Eye writes:
If they want to go against the law, then they should face the punishments.
So you are saying, in fact, that if the law prescribes imprisonment, then the practitioners of FGM should be imprisoned.
Cat's Eye writes:
But nobody is talking about sending a task force to their homes and ripping them from their children and throwing them in prison.
So how do you propose to enforce the law?

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ringo
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Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 768 of 1234 (742880)
11-25-2014 11:21 AM
Reply to: Message 757 by New Cat's Eye
11-24-2014 12:10 PM


Cat's Eye writes:
What is compassionate about keeping people in an oppressive society where they have to cut off their childrens' genitals in order for them to not be outcasted?
See what I mean about chasing your own tail? We've been over that.
We (should) have compassion for the mother, who was once a "victim" herself. We (should) have compassion for the child, whom you propose to "protect" from her mother. Have you asked the child whether or not she wants to be removed from her mother?
Cat's Eye writes:
Part of ending FGM is changing those societies so that the women are not so oppressed. That's way more compassionate than: "if they say they ain't abused then they ain't", which is actually pretty disgusting.
The way to change societies in Africa would be to try to convince the women that they are victims. Until they think they are victims, effectively they are not.
Cat's Eye writes:
The opinions have been respected, they have been gathered and analyzed, and the reaction is that FGM needs to be stopped.
You're missing the point. Since FGM is a social norm in some cultures, they way to eliminate it is by changing those cultures. And until the cultures themselves do change, we have to make allowances in our culture. Oppressing people in our culture who practice FGM is not going to convince anybody to change their culture.

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 770 of 1234 (742882)
11-25-2014 11:26 AM
Reply to: Message 765 by Straggler
11-25-2014 11:08 AM


Straggler writes:
But what is it about the law in question that leads you to think mothers, rather than those doing the cutting, will face imprisonment?
Read the thread. I'm not the one who thinks that. I keep asking if we should imprison the mothers and nobody says, "No."
Straggler writes:
You have invented a problem that doesn't exist and isn't likely to exist even if the law in question is pursued to a far greater extent than it is at present.
The problem has nothing to do with the law itself. The problem is with the people who rabidly oppose FGM. They seem to be in favour of imprisoning the mothers. If not, why has nobody distanced themselves from the idea? I've given them plenty of chances.

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 772 of 1234 (742884)
11-25-2014 11:27 AM
Reply to: Message 769 by Tangle
11-25-2014 11:23 AM


Tangle writes:
Because sometimes imprisoning mothers, grandmother, fathers, imams - whatever - might be necessary if the offence is serious enough to warrant it. If it isn't, then they won't be imprisoned.
Thank you. Tell it to Straggler.

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ringo
Member (Idle past 443 days)
Posts: 20940
From: frozen wasteland
Joined: 03-23-2005


Message 773 of 1234 (742885)
11-25-2014 11:31 AM
Reply to: Message 771 by dronestar
11-25-2014 11:26 AM


dronester writes:
I think Straggler asked you: is there ANY practice that you would find so reprehensibly abhorrent that you would want stopped immediately in your culture?
If I'm driving down the highway and a semi jack-knifes in front of me, I want my car to stop immediately - but it ain't gonna happen. There are possible ways to stop things and there are safe ways to stop things.

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