People feel stigmatized for all sorts of reasons.
Indeed. This is one of them. People are also starving in India. What does that have to do with the price of tea in China?
I mean, what exactly does she want?
You to understand why it's all but impossible to avoid "outing" yourself if you want to be honest and communicative with people. You, to understand that blaming gay people for being "obsessed with being out", or whatever, is bullshit.
If she was just born homosexual and I was just born heterosexual, and its noboady's fault, what exactly am I supposed to feel sorry about?
That nobody accuses
you of being "obsessed with your sexuality" when you tell people about your wife, children, etc.
Again, I have to ask - how did you miss the point so badly? You did read the whole article, right?