Hi ICANT,
ICANT writes:
A baby will learn very early in life to lie. He/she cries when wet, and hungry.
When that happens someone changes his diaper or feeds him/her.
He learns that when he/she cries someone will pick them up. So they begin to lie just to get you to pick them up.
They can be bawling their eye balls out, not a tear in sight, you pick them up and they hush immediately. He is not wet or hungry just wanting you to pick him/her up.
WOW! I hope you don't have children because you obviously don't know the first thing about meeting the needs of a child.
I hope that you do realize that infants need more that just feeding and diapering. They need love and affection just as much as being fed and having a dry diaper.
When they cry out to be held they aren't lying! They are crying to have their need for love met. They need to know that they're secure and that there is someone there for them.
They need this love and sense of security because they are human and humans are social animals.
What happens when we aren't good to others? What happens if we always act like self centered picks? No one likes to be around an asshole! Trust me!
So experience (NOT GOD) will show us that it's a good idea to be mindful of the needs of others (act morally) or no one is going to like you and damn sure, no one is going to love you. And being loved is a real human need, isn't it?
NO GOD REQUIRED!
Edited by SammyJean, : Spelling
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