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Author Topic:   You Guys Need to Communicate! (thoughts from an ex evangelical Christian)
Jaderis
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Message 101 of 200 (385970)
02-18-2007 3:41 PM
Reply to: Message 100 by jar
02-18-2007 2:54 PM


Re: Dissenting thoughts
I think Schraf bringing up the second grade as examples of brainwashing and indoctrination is just plain funny.
I'm not following...
The second grade is still a time of wonder, when kids should still believe in the tooth fairy, the easter bunny and Santa Claus.
And, yet, many people (apparently, Schraf included) spent their second grade years (and first grade and fifth grade and...) being indoctrinated into a particular religion and discouraged from asking uncomfortable questions.
Children around this age are particularly vulnerable to brainwashing and are more willing to accept things on authority (which is why they also believe in the tooth fairy and Santa Claus BTW) so I do not understand your contention WRT Schraf bringing up second grade CCD as an example of brainwashing.

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Jaderis
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Message 138 of 200 (386177)
02-20-2007 1:29 AM
Reply to: Message 106 by jar
02-18-2007 6:29 PM


Re: Dissenting thoughts
Because, just as with Santa and the Tooth Fairy, brainwashing at that age doesn't stick.
Most of the time, no it does not. I do appreciate and understand and even mostly agree your point, but I don't think that Schraf was accusing the RCC wholesale of the strict brainwashing you addressed when you said this:
The problem is when young adults are sheltered away in societies where they do not get to question, and that is certainly not the Roman Catholic Church
She was providing evidence (anecdotal tho it may be) that children can be and are brainwashed by many different religious sects (or particular groups or people within those sects, if you prefer), the RCC included, not just the fundies who isolate their kids from the world.
It may not always stick, but, as she pointed out, it can be a very painful process to unstick it.

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Jaderis
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Message 152 of 200 (386485)
02-22-2007 1:14 AM
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02-22-2007 12:17 AM


Re: Does this shed any light?
How many such people do you think exist? Not many, IMO. Certainly not Gandhi or Anne Frank. They knew about Jesus, but did not know Jesus. There is a difference. They just can't be said to have knowingly and deliberately rejected truth. They followed it as far as they could.
So, according to this doctrine (please correct me if I misunderstood), only someone who studied the words of Jesus, understood them and then rejected them would go to hell? Someone who knew them to be "true" at one point "knowingly and deliberately rejected" them?
Someone like Gandhi (presumably...I do not know how much he knew of or understood the Gospels) knew that there was a Jesus that Christians worshipped. He probably even knew that many Christians believed that belief in Jesus was required to get to heaven. However, he would go to heaven by his good works alone.
Would he not be guilty for not investigating this "truth" even though he knew about it?
What about someone like me who has read and understood the Gospels (on an intelectual level, at least) but has never felt any of it to be true. Can I "knowingly and deliberately" reject something I never accepted in the first place.
I know how most of the fundamentalists would answer ("you are rejecting God by hardening your heart against Him" or some such), but how does the doctrine of ignorance address this?

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Jaderis
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Message 157 of 200 (386629)
02-22-2007 5:54 PM
Reply to: Message 153 by jar
02-22-2007 10:08 AM


Re: Does this shed any light?
I think you are asking some really great questions, and IMHO the answer will be "When someone rejects reality."
Thank you, Jar.
If I do happen to come face to face with Jesus I will, after asking him some really pointed questions, surely go willingly with him.
Until then, however, I will embrace reality as I see it

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Jaderis
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Message 158 of 200 (386636)
02-22-2007 6:09 PM
Reply to: Message 154 by anastasia
02-22-2007 10:29 AM


Re: Does this shed any light?
ABE; The main idea is that 'willful and deliberate rejection of God' does not pertain to any books, or doctrines, or Jesus, etc. It is a purposeful desire to do 'evil' however you define it, and the rejection of God is the ignoring of the conscience which He gave you.
Thank you for your answers, ana.
Now the only problem I see here deals with something I asked several posts back (or maybe it was in the "morality and society" thread..I don't remember) and what you just stated. How do you define "evil?" Does one reject God by sinning (many or most Christians define evil through sin)? Or is it purely by going against what your God-given conscience tells you is wrong or "evil?"

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Jaderis
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Message 159 of 200 (386639)
02-22-2007 6:16 PM
Reply to: Message 155 by truthlover
02-22-2007 1:35 PM


Re: Does this shed any light?
Just a note on Gandhi. He did investigate and concluded that "if it were not for Christians, I would be one." He believed in living by the Sermon on the Mount and thought it was very similar to his beloved Bhagavad Gita (sorry If I botched the spelling).
Thanks for that, truthlover.
I suspected Gandhi had studied Christianity, but not having read as extensively about him as I should, I could not be sure.
I don't meant to answer for anastasia or the RCC, but on the Bible side, this is addressed directly by Paul in Rom 2. People have a law in their hearts that their conscience testifies, too, and their own conscience will either excuse or condemn them (vv. 14-16).
This is essentially what ana said.
My conscience, however, tells me that there is no God and that I am not doing evil by being a homosexual (among other things).
Many Christians would tell me that my conscience is wrong, but if we are saved by following our conscience (i.e. doing what we feel is right), then if we have the "wrong" conscience what is one to do?

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