There'll be better answers coming when Cavediver and Son Goku find this thread, but I can tell you a little bit.
Just as you say, normal matter is affected by the gravity of dark matter. That's how we know it's out there, from its gravity. But we can only detect the gravity of massive amounts of matter. The paltry number of particles produced by colliders quickly decay and/or flit and scatter away.
Some of the theorized candidate particles for dark matter exist at higher energy levels than can be detected by existing colliders, and the LHC may find some of these particles. But I don't know how scientists expect to establish a connection between new particles detected by the LHC and the dark matter detected by our telescopes.
--Percy
Edited by Percy, : Grammar.