They dont. there are nice people all around. They sell you cars. They do business with you. They are at football games with you. My belief is that having a relationship with God stops internal and spiritual death. The problem with nice people...as well as mean ones...is that they die. And having kids wont carry your dreams
but by all means live for today. Eternal life is not some fantasyland.
And so, even though just one post ago you denied it, the relationship you imagine is your get outta hell free card.
Anyone so limited that they can only spell a word one way is severely handicapped!