Notice that it doesn't say "Judge not." It says, "Judge not, lest ye are judged". It doesn't say not to judge; it says don't be a hypocrite.
The biggest problem with Joralex's answer is it's a non-answer.
How will he judge the relationship? He'll judge the relationship "by his fruits". Ummmmm...and...HOW will he judge the fruits?
[This message has been edited by Zhimbo, 09-30-2003]