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Author Topic:   Moral Judgments
berberry
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Message 126 of 259 (176073)
01-12-2005 1:50 AM
Reply to: Message 122 by mike the wiz
01-11-2005 8:25 PM


Re: mike grows offended, and unleashes a river of words
mike the wiz declares:
quote:
I'm sick and tired and offended of people quoting the bible, which they don't believe.
What about when the point is to show why?

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berberry
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Message 127 of 259 (176080)
01-12-2005 2:11 AM
Reply to: Message 106 by Silent H
01-11-2005 2:01 PM


Re: Higher Laws
holmes writes me:
quote:
I would point out that challenging him to defend his belief is outside of the scope of this thread.
Well, then, you would be wrong! He made a bigoted comment about homosexuality and I challenged him on it. Why do I not have the right to do so? And how is my challenge off-topic in a thread about moral judgements?
I'm all for keeping threads on-topic, but when bigoted remarks are made they have to be challenged. I don't read through every post in every thread, but when I see such stupidity I call people on it unless someone else beats me to it.
What's more, although this might seem somewhat OT from the original proposition of the OP, in light of the thread originator's P6 which clarified and expanded the OP I don't think we're off-topic at all. My challenge to Tal is directly related to a comparison of his blanket condemnation of homosexuality with the near universal condemnation of child rape within our common societal value system.

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berberry
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Message 129 of 259 (176091)
01-12-2005 2:51 AM
Reply to: Message 128 by Tal
01-12-2005 2:31 AM


Re: Higher Laws
Tal asks:
quote:
Who draws the line?
The one who wins the case based on the evidence.

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berberry
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Message 130 of 259 (176092)
01-12-2005 2:56 AM
Reply to: Message 128 by Tal
01-12-2005 2:31 AM


Re: Higher Laws
Tal also wrote:
quote:
Actually you asked me if homosexuality was wrong, and I answered.
I'm not the one who asked you. I picked up when you answered that person (I think it was schraf) by challenging you to show an evidentiary basis for your moral condemnation of boy kissing boy.

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berberry
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Message 132 of 259 (176094)
01-12-2005 3:22 AM
Reply to: Message 131 by Tal
01-12-2005 3:13 AM


Re: Higher Laws
Tal asks:
quote:
What, here in this form? In court?
Court is just another debating forum, albeit a pretty important one. This little forum is insignificant by comparison, but yes evidence does generally rule the day here.

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berberry
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Message 135 of 259 (176097)
01-12-2005 3:45 AM
Reply to: Message 134 by Tal
01-12-2005 3:41 AM


Re: Higher Laws
Tal asks:
quote:
What can I use as evidence for a sexual act being wrong?
Anything empirical that would lead to the logical conclusion that the sexual act in question is wrong.

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berberry
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Message 137 of 259 (176100)
01-12-2005 4:04 AM
Reply to: Message 136 by Tal
01-12-2005 4:00 AM


Re: Higher Laws
Tal posits:
quote:
Then my having 12 wives, 6 of whom are age 11 is not wrong.
agree or disagree?
Disagree. Leaving aside the question of polygamy for the moment, child rape is demonstrably wrong.

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berberry
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Message 157 of 259 (176243)
01-12-2005 11:58 AM
Reply to: Message 140 by Silent H
01-12-2005 5:12 AM


holmes blathers:
quote:
I am not saying that he cannot be challenged on why he says A is wrong. I think I have suggested opening a new thread.
Since when is it necessary to start a new thread in order to challenge a goddamned assertion? Will you please quote the relevant forum guideline?
quote:
I am just saying that actually challenging him on that moral declaration is not relevant to this thread...
The hell it isn't. He made an assertion in this thread. I challenged his assertion in this thread. Can you please show me where in the forum guidelines it says that a challenged assertion does not have to be backed up simply because holmes says so?
If I am off-topic for challenging his assertion, then wouldn't his assertion also be off-topic? In case you haven't been paying attention, I challenged his assertion after he made it (which is usually the way it works). So if you really think this is off-topic then it would seem that your issue is with Tal, not me.
quote:
I just said it was relatively recent, at EvC, and was NOT submitted by me.
And you cited it in this thread. So here I am going off-topic again (according to you) because I INSIST: show me the damned study and tell me precisely which harmful effects you see that it shows which go beyond socio-cultural concerns! It's not up to me to go find it when you are the one citing it.
quote:
Indeed Rrhain came in to make the defense which you are shooting down... that it must be seen in context of the socio-cultural environment.
I haven't had a chance to shoot anything down because neither you nor Tal will trouble yourselves to back up your assertions!
I certainly don't want to speak for Rrhain - especially since I haven't seen what you're talking about - but I suspect that he meant that any study purporting to show harmful effects of homosexuality between consenting parties must be viewed in the light of its socio-cultural environment. When a child is raped by an adult there is clearly a victim, and the harmful effects go beyond socio-cultural concerns.
quote:
See, this is your problem. You are part of the modern witchhunt/commiekilling/fagbashing. At every turn you see a defense of something you hate, including words that I have not only not said, but within this thread have actually made a point of countering.
No, I see an assertion about consenting homosexual activity being compared morally to child rape. I took offense. Apparently the fact that I would dare to take offense at such a bigoted comparison is evidence to you that I'm hypersensitive. I've now reached the point where I really don't give a damn what you think.
All of this is moot anyway, as Quetzal seemed to say, since Tal is obviously not going to back up his assertion.
quote:
All I did was point out that there is a socio-cultural component to harm, and this includes (to children that were not overtly raped or coerced) sex with minors.
So far, the comparison has been to first a seven-year-old then a four-year-old. Is there some scenario under which you would view sex between an adult and a seven-year-old or four-year-old as not overtly rape or coercion?
Most everything you've said would make perfect sense if the comparison between consenting homosexual activity had been made to consenting sexual activity between an adult and an older teen, but it makes no sense when the activity is between an adult and a child of four or seven.

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berberry
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Message 159 of 259 (176303)
01-12-2005 4:34 PM
Reply to: Message 158 by Quetzal
01-12-2005 4:15 PM


Quetzal remarks:
quote:
Everybody IMMEDIATELY stated that A was morally okay but that B was morally wrong - and indeed condemned it as harmful.
Indeed I was one of "everybody", but I think I took care to say that I was interpreting the kiss as romantic and intended to lead to sexual activity. I should have also stated that I inferred the two boys to have each been of about the same age.

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berberry
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Message 178 of 259 (176448)
01-13-2005 1:22 AM
Reply to: Message 164 by Silent H
01-12-2005 8:06 PM


holmes repeats once again:
quote:
Why he thinks homosexuality is wrong is pretty well irrelevant to this thread, no?
Not if he's going to bring it up in this thread. You had every opportunity to admonish him not to stray from your precious concept of this thread started by someone else entirely. I've said before that although I don't read all posts in all threads, whenever I do read one and see a bigoted comment that has gone unchallenged I will challenge it. You'll just have to get over it. If you don't like my policy why don't you go tattle to an admin?
quote:
No, using your logic I would have an issue with schraf, she started it all by asking him.
HELL NO SHE DID NOT!!! TAL BROUGHT IT UP!!! All schraf or I did was challenge him.
quote:
You are really getting annoying.
By requiring you to provide a link to your evidence? The solution is simple: if you are ever in a debate with me and wish to cite a study, be damned sure you have a link handy or drop it.
quote:
...especially within a thread that I have stated quite clearly I am only interested in discussing something else?
Then why in hell have you wasted a half dozen pages taking me to task for requesting that an assertion be backed up? If you had just kept quiet the whole thing would have probably been over in two or three posts.

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berberry
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Message 183 of 259 (176461)
01-13-2005 2:18 AM
Reply to: Message 146 by Silent H
01-12-2005 7:59 AM


Re: Higher Laws
holmes writes:
quote:
For the ongoing example (polygamous marriage to an 11 year old) there are cultures which think this is fine, and if extended up to 12 or 13 is possible within the US.
Yes, I do define sexual activity between an adult and a child of 11 or 12 as rape. Most children of that age cannot give fully informed consent. That's where the psychological harm is rooted: they are taken advantage of by someone old enough to know better.
I realize there are some types of adult-child sexual activity where the damage is more difficult to pin down. An example might be the Mary Laternau (sp?) case. The boy who was involved with her is now a man and seems to be a perfectly well-adjusted adult. Of course, that's only by appearance, we can't know for sure. Even if we accept the idea that he's suffered no ill-effects from this relationship, we must still recognize that Ms. Laternau had no way of knowing whether she might do serious harm to the boy by having sex with him. I have no sympathy for her.

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berberry
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Message 189 of 259 (176587)
01-13-2005 3:05 PM
Reply to: Message 187 by Silent H
01-13-2005 8:25 AM


holmes writes me:
quote:
Here is a link to the first citation by a poster named Jon.
That's it? That's a study about nonconsensual sex. It has nothing to do with consensual homosexual activity among adults.

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berberry
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Message 195 of 259 (176880)
01-14-2005 3:58 AM
Reply to: Message 187 by Silent H
01-13-2005 8:25 AM


First let's get the mea culpa out of the way. holmes writes me:
quote:
Schraf brought homosexuality up, not Tal.
I stand corrected. Tal had, in his no doubt on-topic way, praised the brilliance and timeliness of Levitical laws requiring that one cover one's shit. That and subsequent references to the book led to schraf's almost inevitable question.
So take it up with schraf I suppose. The point is that I didn't drag the thread off-topic.
Now to this: you say I'm
quote:
...acting like a royal prick.
Awwww, I'm so sorry to be such a bother. But you see, when you make a silly claim such as
Homosexuality has been and still is linked statistically to greater psychological/physical/social problems.
you have made an assertion and should be prepared to back it up. Providing a link to a post which cites a study of nonconsensual sex is not sufficient to back this particular assertion. I don't care to follow the thread and I shouldn't have to; you made the above claim with the clear implication that you were speaking of consensual sex between adults.
A link to a post will do, but I want the relevant post. And btw, you seem to think I wish to refute the statistics you're talking about. I may want to do no more than qualify them, but I'll be damned if I'm going to sit by and let you imply that homosexuality by its nature causes harm between consenting adults. That's nonsense and I INSIST on the opportunity to respond to it without being required to read through a thread to find your evidence.
Either document your claim properly or retract it.

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berberry
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Message 197 of 259 (176883)
01-14-2005 4:37 AM
Reply to: Message 196 by Tal
01-14-2005 4:05 AM


Re: Evidence of Harm
Tal writes:
quote:
Ah, so activity that transmits STD's as harmful is wrong?
Within one's moral system one may of course view such activity as wrong. Of course, if one is truly concerned about STDs one will no doubt remain cognizant of all STDs when one passes judgement as you are so eager to do in violation of Jesus' direct words.
quote:
So can we use this to say that homosexuality is wrong?
Only if one has tunnelvision and can only see HIV in a world of its own where no other diseases exist. You see, there have been and still are pandemics and epidemics of other STDs besides HIV/AIDS. STDs that have affected far, far more heterosexuals than homosexuals.
So if indeed you are prepared to say that all activity which might cause STDs is "wrong", then you will be quite consistent in saying that any particular type of such activity is wrong by extension. That would include homosexuality of course. It would also include heterosexuality. It would not include lesbianism.
Why are you so obsessed with homosexuality?

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berberry
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Message 206 of 259 (177000)
01-14-2005 12:29 PM
Reply to: Message 202 by Silent H
01-14-2005 5:56 AM


holmes refuses to provide evidence
So I take it you have no intention of backing your stupid assertion. That would of course be because you can't. Why didn't you just say so six or seven pages ago rather than trying to spread lies about homosexuality and then link to information that has absolutely nothing to do with your claim.
And you imply that I'm unreasonable.

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