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Silent H
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Message 106 of 259 (175898)
01-11-2005 2:01 PM
Reply to: Message 103 by berberry
01-11-2005 1:49 PM


Re: Higher Laws
Oh hell yes I can! Since when is it against the rules to challenge an assertion?
Calm down calm down. My quoted phrase "you cannot do this" was referring to your ability to use the method you gave as a logical argument against his position (moral system).
You certainly can do such a thing any time you want, it just carries no logical weight in this argument. I would point out that challenging him to defend his belief is outside of the scope of this thread. But I have done such things in the past so there ya go...

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
"Don't believe I'm taken in by stories I have heard, I just read the Daily News and swear by every word.."(Steely Dan)

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Silent H
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Message 107 of 259 (175901)
01-11-2005 2:05 PM
Reply to: Message 104 by berberry
01-11-2005 1:53 PM


Re: why am i the only one staying on topic????
I didn't think it was very cute, interesting that you did.
Being cute or doing something cute is an expression. It is not necessarily a positive expression. I hope you are not implying I am homophobic.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
"Don't believe I'm taken in by stories I have heard, I just read the Daily News and swear by every word.."(Steely Dan)

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Silent H
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Message 119 of 259 (175961)
01-11-2005 6:22 PM
Reply to: Message 113 by berberry
01-11-2005 3:00 PM


Tal and I are both residents of a civilized western nation, thus the "socio-cultural context" is substantially the same and therefore I see no need to divorce the subject behavior from it.
No, really you really really really want to be able to criticize the use of harm if it comes from a socio-cultural context.
I am stating this as a fact and you need to understand this, especially given your position as a homosexual arguing for homosexual rights. Homosexuality has been and still is linked statistically to greater psychological/physical/social problems. They are nearly the exact same kind and effect that children which have been abused exhibit.
Ironically in a recent thread a person trying to prove how harmful child sex was accidentally showed that that recent studies still find homosexuality to hold a higher correlation to harm (and let me tell you that one caught me by surprise).
It is for these reasons that in the past homosexuality was argued to be a psychological/social problem and necessary to be criminalized. It remained that way until people argued exactly what you are trying to shoot down, that harm of homosexuality must be seen as being a product of the sociocultural environment and so society must be changed rather than continuing with oppressing their behavior for safety sake.
If you successfully argue that we must view harm within what the society may cause based on its beliefs, then you are paving a road right back into homosexuality being a problem and good reason to be criminalized.
This is regardless of anything you want or do feel toward the other subject which is not to be named, the sword you don't want to wield against is the one that cuts both directions.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
"Don't believe I'm taken in by stories I have heard, I just read the Daily News and swear by every word.."(Steely Dan)

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Silent H
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Message 120 of 259 (175968)
01-11-2005 6:47 PM
Reply to: Message 114 by crashfrog
01-11-2005 3:49 PM


There are some things that are universal across the human experience.
That is one pretty big statement. I am not sure I can agree, other than there are pleasant sensations and there are painful sensations. How we get them and how we experience them (insert them into our life) seem quite varied.
That's more than enough absolute basis for me to make qualitive statements about the relative worth of the morals of a culture.
I am not arguing that you can't have or form the moral system you have from a utilitarian perspective. Indeed it is very close to criteria I use in making my own moral judgements.
However, just because pain and pleasure are absolute common experiences of human life (lets say this is so for argument) does not mean that a moral principle based on those experiences is an absolute moral system.
There really are other valid systems out there which do not take into consideration pain and pleasure as determining factors. This does not mean yours is lesser, or that you cannot or should not try and convince others to choose your system, just that you cannot simply say yours is better because it results in the labels you like.
Those with theological beliefs obviously have extended items to deal with and measure, if not provide strict rules, than you an I might have.
That's more than enough absolute basis for me to make qualitive statements about the relative worth of the morals of a culture.
Maybe we are slightly talking past each other here. I am saying that they cannot logically argue that there moral system is better or the absolute system simply because of the difference in how they label or the labels that are generated. That is to beg the question.
However they can certainly argue why their system might be preferable to someone else. There is a huge difference between being the absolute or "right" moral system, and the suggestion that others might prefer it for reason X Y and Z.
The existence of opposing or different views than mine does not make my view wrong. I don't expect everyone to agree with me; if they're going to fight about it I have as much right to fight back.
I agree completely, I am only pointing out which are possible or valid logical weapons one can fight with, and which are not.
They're not my criteria; they're the only objective criteria possible.
I think that is a vast overstatement, and I have few problems with your system, and many with his. He can certainly point to his interpretation of a book and say that is the word of God and his interpretation is the correct one, and so that is his moral criteria. That is completely and utterly as objective a criteria as the one you laid out for yourself.
I think you mean to say that they are the only criteria which people come closest to sharing equally in experience. That does not make them more objective however, or the only objective criteria.
If there's one thing I can't abide, it's philosophy. No offense.
I hope this is a joke. If you like logic and science (and to some degree math), then you certainly do abide philosophy. It would be hard to get through a debate without it.
If you think I meant the silly metaphysical mumbo-jumbo stuff which most people think of one think of philosophy, then you are mistaken. That is almost entirely mental masturbation and I'd rather be actually masturbating.
I did not resort to metaphysics nor epistemology nor philosophy of the mind nor even ethics (remember I was staying out of taking a moral position). I was only discussing logic plain and simple. I trust that is not a problem?

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
"Don't believe I'm taken in by stories I have heard, I just read the Daily News and swear by every word.."(Steely Dan)

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Silent H
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Message 140 of 259 (176110)
01-12-2005 5:12 AM
Reply to: Message 124 by berberry
01-12-2005 1:34 AM


The way you're presenting your case makes it seem as though you're acting as Tal's champion.
No. Let me make this clear. I am not saying that he cannot be challenged on why he says A is wrong. I think I have suggested opening a new thread.
I am just saying that actually challenging him on that moral declaration is not relevant to this thread, and more importantly (logic wise) you cannot argue against his moral position based on a perceived "rightness" or your own moral labels. That is a logical error.
You can argue for why you think your moral system is more sound, or preferable, but that takes an investigation into the rules of the system and not merely examining what their outputs are. The only way that is useful is if you know an output of their system might be objectionable to them.
I am also arguing against anyone believing that their system is an absolute system in any case.
But unlike the persona you wish to assign to me I didn't just start doing it yesterday.
I do not think of you like this at all. However, and I realize this will sound critical, you do seem to have too much emotion tied to sexual morals. You seem as wrapped up as most are these days in the sexual witchhunt mentality. You are too eager to get into disputes on that topic (seeing them offered when they are not) and wishing everyone would accept your own.
You are also not very open into introspection of your own position and the evidence for it. For example...
I've seen lots of studies like this and they're usually about as reliable as Answers in Genesis. Maybe yours is better. Let's see it.
I just said it was relatively recent, at EvC, and was NOT submitted by me. They were clinical studies and while I could certainly rip parts of it to shreds, if you believe that they do measure harm, then homosexuality does not come off very well. Indeed Rrhain came in to make the defense which you are shooting down... that it must be seen in context of the socio-cultural environment.
If the studies were as lame as answers in genesis I know I wouldn't have been talking about them, and certainly Rrhain wouldn't have felt the need to bring up viewing the harm as arising from sociological elements. I will look through the threads to try and find it, but I suspect if you really cared you could do the same thing.
In any case, even if you doubt there is current evidence for this (and remember I said I was surprised to see the results), there is absolutely no denying that is what it used to be like for homosexuals. That is why the laws were in place. It was a horribly vicious circle until those who were being persecuted, stood up and declared that the harm which was apparent in homosexuality was a result of socio-cultural expectations.
If you are going to deny that reality, then what can I say? Any port in a storm is not always sound logic, any weapon in a battle is even worse. I wish you would understand that I am actually trying to help you make your arguments better.
I'm particularly interested in seeing the part about physical harm.
It is the same harm they were measuring in victims of child abuse and that is self-harm. That is due to the psych issues of whatever, that they would act against themselves. If it was limited to physical harm from the perpetrator then we are talking about direct consequences of rape.
I am doing nothing of the sort
Saying this does not make it so. I was not arguing that your challenge to Tal leads to an attack on gays. Whether attacking Tal's position in this thread is relevant, and whether your original method of attack on Tal's position was logically sound, is separate from this new issue.
You responded to my discussion with crash regarding the whether the use of harm is objective or subjective in nature. You argued (to Q) that because someone shares the same culture as you, even if you believe in subjectivism you then have a right to discuss harm whether or not it arises from the cultural environment.
I am not just philosophizing here, I am giving you factual history. In saying that cultural concepts of harm (or harm arising from the culture) should be considered you are championing the argument used against homosexuality. You are opening the door to its use again. You really do not want to pick up that weapon, as tempting as it may seem.
We don't even know if Tal is deep enough to contemplate your line of reasoning.
That is irrelevant as I am talking to you. Are you deep enough to stop, step back a moment and really think about the implications of the argument you are using. I hope so.
I resent the implication that the only harm suffered by victims of child rape is societal. Get a grip for chrissake!
See, this is your problem. You are part of the modern witchhunt/commiekilling/fagbashing. At every turn you see a defense of something you hate, including words that I have not only not said, but within this thread have actually made a point of countering. You are the one out of control, not me.
All I did was point out that there is a socio-cultural component to harm, and this includes (to children that were not overtly raped or coerced) sex with minors. Q's example (and let me say he did give a heads up to at least one of the cultures which exist and I would discuss if we were actually on that subject) explained this very well and in a very concrete manner.
But in any case it was not even meant as a discussion of the morality of anything, or to defend any moral system. It was merely pointing out that "harm" is not an objective term, or thing for use in systems, and one should be careful when employing it within a system.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
"Don't believe I'm taken in by stories I have heard, I just read the Daily News and swear by every word.."(Steely Dan)

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Silent H
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Message 142 of 259 (176119)
01-12-2005 5:48 AM
Reply to: Message 141 by Shaz
01-12-2005 5:24 AM


Re: Higher Laws
Pedophilia, is a mental health condition, and both the person with the condition and the child are victims. Much like any other mental health condition which exacerbates into actual harm against self or another.
This is exactly what the case was for homosexuality until homosexuals began arguing that cultures could create harm by their expectations, and so challenging mental "health" definitions. I mean you do know homosexuality was pulled off the list of disorders within the last 30 years or so right, and that more from political pressure within the community?
Tal would have every right to argue this as a defense of his position. Indeed, there are still disorders associated with homosexuality.
Harm or damage is not necessarily an objective reality.
But maybe I am making a mistake in what you are saying, in which case I think maybe you are talking right past Tal. Your distinction between pedophilia and attraction to children is unclear, and if "attraction" means sexual attraction then it seems Tal may only be talking about that.
In any case this is way separate from the thread topic, which has already veered wildly after Tal's mention of pedophilia. Personally I am very interested in this thread's actual topic, so I'd like to see it not descend into the madness of debating pedophilia.
If you want to open a new thread on that, I'm sure it will be white-hot. I am intrigued that you say there is plenty of evidence for harm inherently coming from children engaging in sex, and you apparently have personally seen the forensic evidence. I would love to see such evidence presented on that issue... just please not here.
This message has been edited by holmes, 01-12-2005 05:49 AM

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
"Don't believe I'm taken in by stories I have heard, I just read the Daily News and swear by every word.."(Steely Dan)

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Silent H
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Message 145 of 259 (176146)
01-12-2005 7:50 AM
Reply to: Message 143 by Shaz
01-12-2005 6:59 AM


Re: Higher Laws
I have a problem with blanket statements saying that pedophile activity does not cause 'harm'. It was these statements, by Tal and yourself that I was addressing. The age difference was also proposed as being irrelevant.
I never said such a thing, unless you mean when I said there is no evidence that sexual activity causes any harm to anyone of any age? That stands. The harm from such encounters is not from the sexual contact itself but everything around it (violence, coercion, guilt, etc). Whether those are inherent or other is a matter of debate and explains why harm can be socially defined and enforced.
Q's example demonstrated this.
I am unable to present hard copy evidence.
I am kind of sad to hear this. It has been the constant reply of everyone that has at first stated the mounds of evidence that is out there regarding harm. I was hoping someone would show it, or admit they were wrong.
I will agree with you to drop it.
Okeydoke.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
"Don't believe I'm taken in by stories I have heard, I just read the Daily News and swear by every word.."(Steely Dan)

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Silent H
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Message 146 of 259 (176149)
01-12-2005 7:59 AM
Reply to: Message 137 by berberry
01-12-2005 4:04 AM


Re: Higher Laws
Leaving aside the question of polygamy for the moment, child rape is demonstrably wrong.
Well this is the subject of the thread. How do you go about demonstrating to a culture that involves a moral belief/practice you disagree with, that they are wrong?
For the ongoing example (polygamous marriage to an 11 year old) there are cultures which think this is fine, and if extended up to 12 or 13 is possible within the US.
You cannot simply say sex with a child = rape in that case, since that could be voluntary and certainly without force (and would be socially accepted). That is unless you can come up with a definition of rape that allows voluntary unforced socially acceptable sexual activity to be objectively defined as rape.
So what this means is that "rape" is out as part of a method to say they are wrong (other than to say they are doing something wrong according to your own beliefs).
What then can you do? It is possible to criticize them, but in what way? And does that way have to include them being wrong, as opposed to something else?

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
"Don't believe I'm taken in by stories I have heard, I just read the Daily News and swear by every word.."(Steely Dan)

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Silent H
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Message 148 of 259 (176168)
01-12-2005 8:39 AM
Reply to: Message 114 by crashfrog
01-11-2005 3:49 PM


setting a good example...
Here's an attempt to get at the point of the thread. I do believe that moral systems can be criticized, though none can be said to be "wrong" compared to another in any objective sense. I will show how this can be done, using a poor unwilling assistant named crashfrog...
Now I am choosing crash because I respect him and think he can understand what I am about to say, and hopefully has a good sense of humor.
But pain and pleasure are universal among humans. That's more than enough absolute basis for me to make qualitive statements about the relative worth of the morals of a culture.
What this says is that pain and pleasure are objective measurable qualities that we can use as Good and Bad to determine the ultimate rightness and wrongness (or worth) of any action and moral system. Thus Utilitarianism on the pleasure principle.
Is this really objective and unquestionably the best measure of morality?
Let's take an example. I am working for a catering business that regularly screws me over. I mean they make me miserable. As a form of revenge I have taken to pissing in the ice machine. Is this right or wrong?
Since I have regular health checkups I know that my piss will not make anyone ill, thus there is no physical harm. As it mixes into the ice, I stir it around, it is neither noticeable visually or by taste. Thus it cannot effect the pleasure that anyone is having of their meal provided by the catering service, including the jackasses who run the place.
In this case then, my pissing in the ice machine and making sure everyone drinks my urine with their meal is not only not wrong it is quite right. The absolute joy I experience as I watch them drink down (and enjoy) their urine laced beverages is unquestionably good and that no one suffers means net gain good and right!
The only flaw is if I get caught, where pain might occur, and so secrecy is essential. Thus lying and betrayal become moral necessities and right actions in order to maintain my morally correct behavior of hosing down the ice.
In fact if someone catches me I can argue that the morally correct thing for them to do is not to tell anyone because that would only cause people unnecessary pain. I might even point out that if they would get a kick out of doing the same thing then they should join me.
Now maybe crash decides that this is a perfect outcome for his moral system, in which case I will not be going to his house for lemonade. But my guess is he will squirm a bit and try to figure out where his moral system is having some problems.
One suggestion would be that a purely teleological system is not good enough. In addition to pain and pleasure there are some things that have intrinsic value, like the truth, or loyalty. Thus it is wrong because if they knew the truth they would not be happy at all, and thus before applying the pleasure principle we must have a deontological rule that the truth must be known (or pleasure must derive from facts and not beliefs). Unfortunately that ends any claim that pain and pleasure are absolutes as bases for a moral system.
Let's say we don't want to go there and retain the functioning of a perfectly teleological moral system. Well we could say that truth is a source of pleasure and to be denied the truth is a source of pain, and that is why to maximize pleasure it is important that truth be revealed.
Using that argument we could say that if the pain suffered by those sucking on my ice cubes if they found out the truth, would not be as great as the pleasure of having knowledge of the truth in general it would be wrong to not tell them.
Only that has equally disastrous results. Instead of saying it is then wrong to piss in the ice machine, the result is simply to mandate that I piss in the ice and after having watched them enjoy the drinks, announce proudly that they drank my piss. That way pleasure is maximized all around.
Hmmmmmm... maybe teleological moralities based on pain and pleasure are not all they are thought to be.
Indeed once we cement that basis, it is pretty much obligatory to do whatever you want to all the time as long is it is not directly hurting them, including such things as cheating on your girlfriend. The only wrong is in getting caught which may cause pain. That may work for republicans, but I am not sure if crash would agree.
Ahem. That is a way to attack another person's moral system, without challenging its rightness or wrongness, or assuming an absolute truth.
This message has been edited by holmes, 01-12-2005 08:42 AM

holmes
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Silent H
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Message 149 of 259 (176170)
01-12-2005 8:40 AM
Reply to: Message 147 by Tal
01-12-2005 8:13 AM


Re: Higher Laws
/agree
Wait a second, I though you argued for the existence of absolute morality somewhere else on EvC?

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
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Silent H
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Message 152 of 259 (176184)
01-12-2005 9:01 AM
Reply to: Message 151 by Phat
01-12-2005 8:53 AM


what is the source of state sanctioned morality?
psssst... he's arguing against state sanctioned morality.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
"Don't believe I'm taken in by stories I have heard, I just read the Daily News and swear by every word.."(Steely Dan)

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Silent H
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Message 163 of 259 (176352)
01-12-2005 7:42 PM
Reply to: Message 154 by 1.61803
01-12-2005 10:44 AM


Once one does state a premise such as: "Homosexuality is no more morally wrong than pedophillia." Then Tal is basing this permise on the fact that there is no such thing as morality and therefore no such thing as right or wrong.
Your argument makes no sense to me. I agree that he did not describe what the source of his moral rules were to arrive at the equality, but we already know where he is getting his moral rules... his interpretation of what the Bible commands. He has said he is an absolutist and equating homosexuality with pedophilia can very well be consistent with that position.
He may believe (may be arguing) that without absolute moral rules those must be seen as equal, but then he is wrong. In a subjective environment, while they both objectively be neutral moral entities there would be plenty of subjective moral vantage points which view them as seperate moral actions (some good and some bad).

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
"Don't believe I'm taken in by stories I have heard, I just read the Daily News and swear by every word.."(Steely Dan)

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Message 164 of 259 (176358)
01-12-2005 8:06 PM
Reply to: Message 157 by berberry
01-12-2005 11:58 AM


Since when is it necessary to start a new thread in order to challenge a goddamned assertion?
When it isn't pertinent to the thread. If I said in a thread on radiometric dating that it was as wrong as the homosexuals that use them, while it might be valid to question me about why homosexuality is wrong, it would drag that specific thread off topic.
Why he thinks homosexuality is wrong is pretty well irrelevant to this thread, no?
Even if I agree that it would be interesting, why does it have to be answered here?
He certainly has no reason to have to answer it within this thread. But I am surprised you even need to ask, as you already know why he thinks homosexuality is wrong. Do you really need to hear him say he thinks the Bible says so before you'll believe that's why he thinks it's wrong?
So if you really think this is off-topic then it would seem that your issue is with Tal, not me.
No, using your logic I would have an issue with schraf, she started it all by asking him.
In any case this is all getting dragged way off the real topic. Remember I did not start by criticizing you for going off topic in asking him to explain his assertion. My reply to you was that your argument was logically incorrect.
show me the damned study and tell me precisely which harmful effects you see that it shows which go beyond socio-cultural concerns! It's not up to me to go find it when you are the one citing it.
You are really getting annoying. I'll find it tomorrow and create a link to the thread just for you (if it interests you so much why don't you go look?). You can read the thread and respond to anything you dislike there and not here.
And it appears from the above that you now want things not to include socio concerns? Does that mean you have changed your position?
neither you nor Tal will trouble yourselves to back up your assertions!
I certainly have. I just haven't bothered to continue turning this thread into the debate you want, rather than the one that it is supposed to be (and I am interested in).
but I suspect that he meant that any study purporting to show harmful effects of homosexuality between consenting parties must be viewed in the light of its socio-cultural environment. When a child is raped by an adult there is clearly a victim, and the harmful effects go beyond socio-cultural concerns.
That's exactly what he meant, and similarly any harm from sex that a child has had (with or without an adult) must be viewed in the light of its socio-cultural environment. Obviously when an adult or child is raped there is a victim and harms which are not just socio-cultural. I believe I have now stated this three times in this thread.
Apparently the fact that I would dare to take offense at such a bigoted comparison is evidence to you that I'm hypersensitive.
No, it is the fact that you cannot understand I was not taking a moral stand on the issue and only making a point in logic and seem desperate to argue the morality of A and B, dragging back in again and again, which makes me think you are hypersensitive.
Oh yes, and the fact that you keep shoving words in my mouth in order to provoke me into that moral debate.
Is there some scenario under which you would view sex between an adult and a seven-year-old or four-year-old as not overtly rape or coercion?
See what I am talking about? Why are you so concerned with this subject that you must know what I think about it, especially within a thread that I have stated quite clearly I am only interested in discussing something else?
I have still taken no moral position in this thread on any action. If you see one, it is projection. I don't want to debate my moral position here, only the problem of how a subjectivist can criticize other moral systems.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
"Don't believe I'm taken in by stories I have heard, I just read the Daily News and swear by every word.."(Steely Dan)

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Message 185 of 259 (176473)
01-13-2005 6:48 AM
Reply to: Message 167 by Shaz
01-12-2005 8:38 PM


Re: Higher Laws
This is my point Holmes, you make that statement and then offer nothing to support it, much like Tal also did.
1) Just to let you know, Tal was suggesting that pedophilia was wrong. His only suggestion otherwise was when probing those that say they can find a difference between homosexuality and pedophila based on some criteria. They were reductios. He is firmly against pedophilia as he is against homosexuality.
2) The statement that I made was part of a discussion not on the morality of anything, but rather the subjectivity of the definition of harm. Q presented a very nice cultural example of this. As far as my presenting evidence of something that does not exist, you tell me how to do that. As far as I understand it those that say there is evidence for something that must present evidence, otherwise it defaults to nothing. And in this case it would have to be in another thread.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
"Don't believe I'm taken in by stories I have heard, I just read the Daily News and swear by every word.."(Steely Dan)

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Message 186 of 259 (176478)
01-13-2005 7:51 AM


Rrhain's blinking posts
Since you knew that those that spoke against him were concentrating on the issue of consent, one wonders why you were so disingenuous as to posit that something else was being considered.
I'm not sure what you are talking about. All the point of my criticism was that they cannot simply say their system has correct labels and his incorrect labels, in order to advance their argument.
Tal obviously uses a moral system which is not based on the same criteria (consent is not part of it). To say it does not generate the same moral labels as one which is based on consent is a point of fact, but not an argument for why his is more wrong (in an absolute sense). You like to pretend you understand logic, so you ought to at least understand that simply logical problem.
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I was only arguing that any moral position regarding minors and sex, would have the same absolute basis as a moral position regarding gay sex.
  —me
To which you reply...
Does the word "consent" mean nothing to you? Are you seriously saying that consent is correlated with a person's sex? Are you seriously saying that consent is not correlated with a person's age?
Do you not understand that I am discussing moral systems from a subjectivist vantage point? The above points out that from a subjectivist/relativist position the two different moral systems do not have any more absolute basis in reality (they are not true in any absolute sense). I guess this is the time for you to decide if there are absolute moral truths or not.
The fact that one might use consent and another might not, does not make any one more truthful, just different. Note, as a subjectivist my argument cuts both ways and would shield schraf and berb from any arguments Tal might make along the same lines.
As it stands I do not believe any one of you are actually using "consent" in order to determine harm or wrong or legality. Whether it varies with age or sex or some other criteria I have not stated nor even tried to imply. That might make an interesting topic.
But Paul was pulling all this shit out of his ass. Paul directly contradicts Jesus in many places. Why should we trust his opinion about anything?... And, of course, this doesn't even begin to get into the fact that what Paul was talking about was not what we mean when we say "homosexuality."
These are valid forms of argument against his position which is what I was saying to schraf. The problem is that he can simply say he is accepting the common understanding of those passages and then there is nothing you or I can say other than to note that he doesn't seem to care about investigating the source of his moral system for historical accuracy.
By your logic, it would be perfectly reasonable to start with a loving, committed couple and then say that it is equivalent to a rapist/victim relationship. After all, they both involve sex so therefore the two acts are equivalent. Why are you so obsessed over comparing consensual relationships with nonconsensual ones? Are you trying to tell us something?
I have not presented any logic which can be used to create a moral system within this thread. The topic is whether as a subjectivist, I can criticize other moral systems, and how. I participated in this thread before Tal brought up a pedophilic example, and was arguing the same stuff now as I was then.
The fact that you believe I have taken a moral position in this thread, or was even trying to, is your projection. Look in the mirror bud, I didn't try to compare any action to any other action, much less obsessively bring it up.
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Protection of children from predation is a completely separate subject from whether a romantic kiss, or sex with a minor is morally wrong.
  —me
The above is a statement that issues of legal protection are separate from issues of morality. It was meant to suggest that not everything that is wrong must necessarily mean it is illegal, nor that anything that is illegal must necessarily be a moral wrong. That is all I was saying.
To which you reply...
(*blink!*) You did not just say that, did you? Are you seriously saying that preventing the sexual molestation of a child is not connected to protection of children from predation?
It appears you blinked too soon and missed the point of my comment. I have no idea how you pulled your stated position out of the words I wrote.
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And I will point out again, that just being on a different mental and physical level does not make interacting with someone abusive.
  —me
Here I am saying that interactions between two people of different mental or physical levels does not necessitate that the interaction will be abusive. This does not mean that abuse is not possible, nor that in that circumstance abuse cannot be aided by the difference in levels. It is just a point of fact that different levels does not inherently mean abuse (ie that someone is taking advantage of someone else).
(*blink!*) You did not just say that, did you? It is not abuse to take advantage of people due to their mental and/or physical deficiencies? Are you trying to tell us something, holmes?
You are right, I did not say whatever you thought I said. Once again you seem to have blinked to soon. You cannot draw your conclusion from my statement.
(*ahem*) Don't we get to take the kid's word for it? They pretty much say that they didn't want it to happen and were harmed by the experience (notice, I simply said "harmed" and not "completely destroyed and incapable of living a fulfilled existence.")
This is going to draw us way off topic and the admin's have decided kids can't play together on that topic in a separate thread.
I will only note that your "they" and "pretty much" and "harmed" are not exactly objective statements backed up by any evidence. We both know from the articles in the other thread that even in a western culture like GB "they" didn't always say that it wasn't wanted (only homosexual relations contained a majority stigma like that), or that they were harmed by the experience (a max of 5% above normal population in one specific category).
As has been pointed out by Q, other cultures do not have that stigma at all. Unless you are going to say those silly blacks just don't know they are wrong and feeling bad?
This is in comparison to the history of examination of gay people where the only people the psychologists knew about where those who were seeking counseling. That is, until Dr. Evelyn Hooker thought that perhaps they should look at the gay people who aren't in mental hospitals. It was amazing how normal they seemed. It seems obvious now, but at the time it never really occurred to the psychologists and psychiatrists that they had a biased sample. If you only look at people who have neuroses to begin with, you tend to conclude that they have neuroses.
Interesting point, although in addition to seeking counseling it was also people imprisoned or considered victimized and so forced into government custody. Now extend it into the real world beyond just homosexuals. Other cultures have already been pointed out. Even clinical examples (biased studies) show less harm from sexual contact than from homosexuality, and greater harm from homosexual child sexual contact than heterosexual child sexual activity. I am of course not discussing the cases of overt or violent rape or coercion in any case (child or adult).
And again I am not using this to argue for a moral position, just use of harm, or in this case the state of evidence for harm, that can go into moral calculations. There are of course nonsexual issues which lead to physical and psychological harm. These could be looked at as well. In all cases this must be carefully screened and kept in mind that harm may be socially defined, and socially reinforced.
(*blink!*) You did not just say that, did you? Are you trying to tell us something, holmes?
No, you continue to not discuss what I actually say, and instead quote mine in order to build a strawman you can burn down. Burn away.
That said, I am trying to tell you something something (and all the other personalities which go into your "us"). Stop replying to my posts, or take more than a few moments to read and respond. You rarely seem to understand anything I say.

holmes
"...what a fool believes he sees, no wise man has the power to reason away.."(D. Bros)
"Don't believe I'm taken in by stories I have heard, I just read the Daily News and swear by every word.."(Steely Dan)

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