I can't think of an example of a physical memorial but I keep thinking of songs that don't glorify war or the cause or whatever. I am thinking of songs and memorials that speak to the loss and the waste of war.
For me, memorials should also speak to later generations of what a war does to the people involved and how long they really last. The Civil War lasted four years and cost at least 750,000 lives. Wikipedia quotes one source as
By one estimate, the war claimed the lives of 10 percent of all Northern males 20—45 years old, and 30 percent of all Southern white males aged 18—40
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Irish Song Lyrics - Willie McBride a.k.a. Green Fields of France (mis spelling & all)
Willie McBride a.k.a. Green Fields of France
CHORUS
Did they beat the drum slowly did they play the fife lowly,
did they sound the death march as they lowered you down
did the band play the last post and chorus,
did the pipes play the "Flowers of the Forest"
Well how do you do young Willie McBride?
do you mind if I sit down here by your graveside
and rest for a while 'neath the warm summer sun
I've been walkin' all day and I'm nearly done
I see by your gravestone you were only nineteen
when you joined the great fallen of 1916
Well I hope you died quick and I hope you died clean
Willie McBride was it slow and obscene CHORUS
And the beautiful wife or the sweetheart for life
in some faithful heart are you forever enshrined
and although you died back in 1916
in that faithful heart are you forever nineteen?
or are you a stranger without even a name
enshrined forever behind a glass pane
in an ould photograph torn tattered and stained,
fading to yellow in a brown leather frame? CHORUS
Now the sun shines down on the green fields of France
a warm summer wind makes the red poppys dance
The trences have vanished under the plows,
there's no gas no barbed wire, there's no guns firing now
but here in this graveyard it's still No Man's land,
the countless white crosses stand mute in the sand
for man's blind indifference to his fellow man,
to a whole generation that was butchered and damned CHORUS
Now Willie McBride I can't help wonder why
Do those who lie here do they know why they died
Did they really beleive when they answered the call
did they really believe that this war would end wars
Forever this song of suffereing and shame
the killing the dying was all done in vain
for young Willie McBride it's all happened again,
and again, and again, and again and again
Edited by 14174dm, : No reason given.