This is a loaded question.
First to address the issue of Jesus dying as child sacrifice...
Matthew 26:39
"He went a little farther and fell on His face, and prayed, saying, "O My Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from Me; nevertheless, not as I will, but as You will."
He CHOSE his Father's will because he recognized it as the better way. Although he did not want to die, he saw the neccessity of it and chose to go through with it. He had a will, he was not led there without his consent. It was his decision.
"The life I preach I do not live...I follow at a distance crawling" - unknown