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Message 9 of 309 (159219)
11-13-2004 8:57 PM
Reply to: Message 1 by The Dread Dormammu
11-10-2004 5:19 AM


TDD writes:
This topic comes up a lot on this forum and I think it is related to the larger debate because creationists often make appeals to homosexuality being "unnatural" and Evo's make claims of it being "natural" becase we have many examples of it in the animal kingdom. I think it is important to realize that the "Naturalness" of something has no bearing on it's morality. Perhaps you disagree?
You want to be careful of what you say each side is commiting to. Being "natural" and "unnatural" has nothing to do with human morality. The only reason we point out examples of instances of homosexuality in nature is to show the other side that there is nothing "unnatural" about it. However, it is not the sole argument that we use when we are dealing with the morality of it.
Think about it, are we going to start using animal behaviors as examples for our superior sense of morality? I don't think so.

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Message 20 of 309 (159290)
11-14-2004 4:26 AM
Reply to: Message 19 by pink sasquatch
11-14-2004 3:24 AM


Re: More fun with statistics!
According to G_N's logic and your new information, we can conclude that heterosexuality is harmful and should be forbidden by god.

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Message 37 of 309 (159416)
11-14-2004 5:26 PM
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11-14-2004 5:18 PM


Re: An apology and an explanation
TDD writes:
First of all I would like to apologise to anyone who I might have offended by mentitioning pedophilia in a thread about homosesxuality.
You have no idea how close I came to putting you on my enemy list.

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Message 41 of 309 (159429)
11-14-2004 6:04 PM
Reply to: Message 39 by pink sasquatch
11-14-2004 5:47 PM


Re: was an apology needed?
I realized from very early on that he was using it in a different context than equating the 2 together. However, like I said in another thread to someone else before, why bring up something in a thread that obviously has nothing to do with that something unless there's at least some kind of hint or implication behind it? It is like saying "people who study physics are idiots" in a thread that's about black holes and stuff. I do admit that Dread deserves an apology... Hey Dread, sorry for being an ass.
Edited: Oops, wrong thread.
This message has been edited by Lam, 11-14-2004 06:09 PM

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Message 42 of 309 (159430)
11-14-2004 6:05 PM
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11-14-2004 6:01 PM


Re: was an apology needed?
Just read the word in red on my shirt in my avatar.

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Message 46 of 309 (159444)
11-14-2004 6:59 PM
Reply to: Message 45 by The Dread Dormammu
11-14-2004 6:40 PM


Re: How does this relate to EvC?
Dread writes:
Creationists/Fundimantalists think that our origins have something to do with our morality. If God created us in a certain way then we should behave that way. This is where the horrendous "God created adam and eve, not adam and steve" (shudder) argument comes from.
The thing is so what if god created Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve? God created horses not cars and I don't hear anyone complaining about it.
In fact, Genesis 1: 29 And god said, "behold, I have given you every plant yielding seed which is upon the face of all the earth, and every tree with seed in its fruit; you shall have them for food."
Does that mean that every christian that have ever eaten meat are going to hell?
The argument itself doesn't make sense. Why would something be not ok simply because it wasn't mentioned in the bible? It's like saying it is immoral to do sky diving because god never mentioned it in the bible. Does it make any sense to you or anyone at all? Why would the absence of god mentioning Adam and Steve any different than sky diving?

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Message 49 of 309 (159471)
11-14-2004 9:10 PM
Reply to: Message 48 by Lizard Breath
11-14-2004 8:53 PM


Re: But I don't to discuss the Bible!
Cranky Lam... Arggg!!!
Lizard Breath writes:
it is viewed by the Bible to be a result of the corruption of this world...
If you don't specifically quote the bible verses in this thread, I curse thee to go to hell.
I hate it when people take backdoor stabs at things. People keep saying "the bible is against homosexuality blah blah blah" but they remain quiet when asked for specific verses. Either post your specific biblical verses in that thread or retract your claim, get on your knees, and beg people like me for forgiveness.
Added by edit.
Actually, if you keep taking the backdoor stabs, I'm going to do the same thing. Here is my claim. The bible specifically says that people like you must be my slaves. I won't quote the specific verses for that, but it's in there. So buy a plane ticket and get over here to be my slave if you want to not go to hell after you die.
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coffee_addict
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Message 51 of 309 (159476)
11-14-2004 9:32 PM
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11-14-2004 9:28 PM


Re: But I don't to discuss the Bible!
LB writes:
Make me.
Ok, so now we know that you are an unreasonable and irrational person. You make bigoted claims without anything solid to back them up. We can also draw the conclusion that your sense of morality is extremely unstable because they didn't come from human reason and they certainly didn't come from the bible.

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Message 76 of 309 (159554)
11-15-2004 2:29 AM
Reply to: Message 74 by Rrhain
11-15-2004 2:11 AM


Re: harm in homophobia
Rrhain writes:
You seem to be saying that it is the fault of the person who was shot in the head for having a skull capable of being penetrated by bullets instead of the person pulling the trigger.
I seem to recall a professor in the past mentioned that there were people in the old days that claimed that god created blacks to be naturally ignorant and unhappy. Coincidently, it was during slavery.

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Message 94 of 309 (159816)
11-15-2004 3:41 PM
Reply to: Message 91 by happy_atheist
11-15-2004 2:45 PM


Re: harm in homophobia
I am lactose intolerant meaning milk gives me the worst pain. I also cannot stand the smell of milk. I say we come up with a constitutional amendment to ban milk in this country.

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Message 117 of 309 (160117)
11-16-2004 1:46 PM
Reply to: Message 112 by Silent H
11-16-2004 8:44 AM


holmes writes:
That is a pretty solid analogy. We are down to debates over the use of a name, and to be honest those who feel it carries a previous connotation (which allowing another group to share would seem odd) have a point.
I would agree with you if seperate but equal does indeed work. If they would call it civil union and give it exactly everything that a marriage would have, I would have no problem with it.
However, we are dealing with reality, not theoretical concepts. Just look at California.
A few years ago in California, a measure to ban gay marriage in the state constitution was put up to a vote. The pro amendment side was very flowery and kind, and had everything nice and wonderful to say about gay people. You'd read the official position papers written "by the amendment sponsors" (you know, the ones that come with your sample ballots) and they'd say things like "This amendment does not, nor is it intended to, prevent the rights or benefits of marriage from being granted to gay couples through some other institution, only to define the word marriage" (the amendment itself was only like 9 words "Marriage in California is between a man and woman" or the like). You'd see these wonderful TV commercials talking about how important gay people are to California, and how the amendment isn't trying to restrict their rights, only to define simply "marriage".
The amendment passed.
Last year, the California legislature passed some minor domestic partner legislation, giving gay couples things like hospital visitation rights. Immediately (within days), the same group that sponsored the amendment sued! But on what grounds? Because the California constitution says that marriage can't be granted to gays, so how dare the Legislature try to give some of the rights associated heretofore with marriage to them. The Constitution singles gays out as an "unfavored" group, so you can't give them equal rights! And that lawsuit wasn't dismissed - it's in the courts now. And pretty much every gay rights legislation since in California has been tied up in courts, because of that amendment - the group suing is claiming that since Californians voted to limit gay rights, that ALL gay rights legislation is suspect - and that argument, while it might not win in California, isn't getting thrown out of court, either.
But what about the fact that the very group that is suing, is the same group that said in every commercial, every position statement, even in the sample ballot, that they had no problems with gay rights? That their amendment wasn't meant to prevent any marriage rights being given to gays? Forgotten. Ignored. They made the argument they had to make to get that amendment passed by California voters, and that's all. Now that they got their amendment in the state Constitution, it's a crack, a wedge, they want to slowly use to try and break apart the cadre of rights that homosexuals DO have.
"All we want is to define the simple word marriage."
Do you see the problem? I honestly would have no problem with the "seperate but equal" policy, but in reality seperate does not mean equal. This is the reason why I and many others are not satisfied with just civil union. There are just too many loop holes for the homophobic conservatives to jump through.

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coffee_addict
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Message 127 of 309 (160243)
11-16-2004 7:36 PM
Reply to: Message 120 by Silent H
11-16-2004 3:14 PM


holmes writes:
Well the reality is that the majority are in support of totally equal rights, just not with the name.
I don't think so, not if we are talking about individual states.
11 states passed the amendments by double digits. Those amendments (1) define marriage as a union between a man and a woman, (2) prevent any future recognition of civil union that could be applied to same sex couples, and (3) forbid future legislations from giving gay couples rights that are the same as the rights hetero couples already have.
I don't think you fully understand the real reality of the situation. The majority of the people do not want gay couples to have the same rights as hetero couples.
Remember segregation? Blacks agreed that they would be seperated from white folks given that they get the same rights, benefits, and protections. Guess what happenned.
Again, we are not talking about a small group of people opposing gay rights. We really don't know how many there are, but recent election showed that their number is bigger than you think.
holmes writes:
Indeed, perhaps gay activists are playing right into the hands of those that want to destroy them, just as Bush played right into the antagonism game Islamic militants played. It is quite clear that gay marriage initiatives created to protest the opposition ended up polarizing citizens and riled many up to take a stance against more gay initiatives.
They said the same thing during the civil rights movement, that blacks should have just accepted their place in society and the majority of the people might be sympathetic to their cause.
Isn't it time we say enough is enough? Why should we compromise for something that we know, from history, won't work?

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Message 129 of 309 (160262)
11-16-2004 9:09 PM


I am so frustrated. On my arachnids forum, someone made the usual "god hates fags" claim. When I asked her to give specific references, she said
quote:
I would appreciate it though if from now on you leave God and the Bible out of it...remember, that's my God and my religion. I think that's part of why I got so mad, because it's so easy for someone who doesn't believe using our holy book in a bad way...well, I wasn't fond of that method.
Arg!

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coffee_addict
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Message 131 of 309 (160286)
11-16-2004 10:56 PM
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11-16-2004 9:54 PM


Ha! I'm already way ahead of you. Anyway, she said before that if people continue to question her belief that she will leave. I think I'm just beating a dead horse.

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Message 152 of 309 (160590)
11-17-2004 3:05 PM
Reply to: Message 139 by Silent H
11-17-2004 6:41 AM


holmes writes:
I thought we were going to talk about reality. 11 states do not a nation make.
True, but this is a state issue, not a federal one... unless Bush successfully pushes through an amendment in the US constitution.
And it is pretty clear is it not that many of the people that rushed to the polls in fear of gay marriage did so because of the scare gay activists helped create via acts of civil disobediance?
Yes, I know. I'm an unapologetic progressive. I don't believe in compromises that are unjust.
Should black people be allowed to sit anywhere on the bus 1 day a week while sitting in the back of the bus the other 6 days? After a while when people are a little used to seeing black people sitting somewhere else beside the back section, we could make it so they could sit anywhere 2 days a week. Slowly and eventually they'd get to 6 days and then 7 days a week.
Call me crazy, I don't believe in unjust compromises. If the majority are illogical enough to make judgements out of fears, well, tough. Justice is justice.
I don't believe all of the amendments voted on had all three of those points, but you can correct me if I am wrong (a link would be nice if you could).
Actually, I'm not sure. However, I am sure that at least half of them have those points.
But lets say they were. Do you honestly believe most people actually understood what they said? Or would not have been amenable to a lesser proscriptive amendment?
My question is would you have tolerated that black people be allowed to sit anywhere on the bus for 1 day a week? I mean, it's better than always sitting in the back of the bus.
What you saw was a victory for kneejerk reactions and general election ignorance... and I will repeat that it was not necessarily a representation of most people.
Again, more people showed up to the polls than ever before and in those states the amendments passed by double digits. It should tell you something.
This issue is not necessarily like that at all. I think one of the largest bits of groupthink is that gay activists are missing the real point that marriage has a history and a connotation that really is important to some people. While personally I don't care about changing the laws, the reality is that others are, and it doesn't have to do with being antigay (though that always helps).
Yes it is! Remember that before the civil rights movement it was already ingrained in the culture that black people were supposed to be second class citizens. By allowing them to drink out of the same drinking fountains, it threatened a lot of people's beliefs.
Gays are trying to create a brand new tradition in society. It really didn't even exist (in the form we are discussing now) back in the days when homosexuality was considered okay, and that was at least 1000 years ago.
Blacks tried to create a brand new tradition in society, too. The tradition that they tried to create was one where white and black children attend the same school.
The problem is everytime there's a movement to call for justice, there's always going to be people like you who thinks that this time it's different. It's all the same to me. People are being discriminated against and that ain't right.
Maybe it would have been wiser, more realistic, to go slowly and not make wild overt gestures and reach out to moderates?
Again, would you say that it would have been better for black people to be able to sit anywhere on the bus for 1 day a week, 2 days a week, 3 days a week, and so on?
That's funny becuase that's not what I said at all. It is fingerpointing like that which is not helping your case.
Ok, I apologize for not misrepresenting your position.
Am I now correct to think that you thought it was better for blacks to be able to drink out of any drinking fountain 1 day of the week, 2 days of the week, 3 days, and so on?
Don't you get it that instead of being practical and realistic, this is being pursued with an all or nothing with us or against us mentality?
Well...
If I were not as openminded as I am you would have just alienated me from your cause. In this case you just made me shake my head.
Well, tough for those that aren't as openminded.
It is true that I generally don't like to sugar coat an argument. If I'm standing in front of a slave owner, I believe it is the right thing to say "slavery is evil." I don't believe that I should say, "slavery is only evil 1 day of the week." Then a month later I come back and say, "slavery is only evil 2 days of the week." Then next month, "slavery is evil 3 days of the week."
Slavery is evil, period. There's no other way to describe it, so is our current situation. Discrimination ain't right.
Uhhhh, that's what your opposition is saying.
Huh? Didn't I make it clear that I don't compromise? Right is right. Wrong is wrong. Anywhere in between is still wrong. Deal with it.

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