Abortion - Moments of (Mis)Conception

Just one question, and it is the essence of all your and nators replies. Then I will bow out of this horribly repeatitive subject here on EVC.When did I ever accuse anyone of being a slut? You both do this over and over, and that is put words in your oppositions mouth, which is, BTW lying. If you think you can win a debate, or convince the other side to change their minds, then you must not lie.We are not only talking about people who have irrisponsible sex, but husbands and wives, and boyfriend and girlfriend. If the girl I impregnated is a slut, then so am I. Why would I call anyone a slut?Your going to have to prove that I called anyone a slut. And if you can't you need to admit that you lie in your debates, and also seek help, or shoot your Pastor for calling you a slut or something, because I just don't know where that comes from.You also have to leave out God in your abortion debates with me. I have not brought up God, I am trying to argue this from a purely secular view. Stop putting on me whatever it is that you went through with your local church, it's not me, or do I represent them. It's really unfair of you. Your going to have a tough time, unless you start forgiving people, when you finally do, you'll be free.
It may be up to you to stop the BS that is happening in your church, but it's not up to you to make every "Christian" you meet to pay for the mistakes of one group of people. Just because people call themselves Christian, doesn't really make them one.And yes, I have had some minor pyshological training in school.
Both my sister studied it, and my best friend is a sociologist, who one day will be a psychologist. We talk about this stuff all the time.

When did I claim that every woman feels this?Haven't I posted information that tells an opposite story, that most women do nto go through this?Why are you pinning this on me, that I have to tell you how to feel? That's my point right there, that's all.
If it wasn't life, then this decision would be a no brainer. If you zygote was a tumor,(which people liken a zygote too, for purposes of lying) you would not hesitate to remove, and not have any feelings of guilt.I rest my case. That sucks. At least I didn't have to put up with that.

Which brings up another point.I totally agree with everything you wrote, and understand it, but, couldn't the opposite be true? If everyone tells them it's ok, and abortion is good, and we all grow up in a society that thinks that way, then well, it's ok then.That's how I grew up, being told it was ok, and it was good in certain circumstnaces, and it's not life, blah blah blah. Then you go through it, and you find out, it's not what they said. I felt like I have been lied to my whole life about abortion. It is life, and it does matter.I'll give it a name, pre-traumatic abortion syndrome.
All the lies have rearranged the neurological paths in my brain, which the fucked me up mentally when the truth was found out.

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Exposing the lies, one truth at a time!

Life is beautiful. Having children is a blessing, not a consequence.Woman who consent to intercourse, and get pregnant, are not "getting blamed" That's just BS. It's just nature doing it's thing.You guys are the ones with the interpretation problem, and name calling. Your just liars in other words.Plus that is not the only point that my decision hinders on. Edited by AdminPD, : Warning

I had to tell you that, because your the one who keeps bringing up God, and the church, and religion. All of which have nothing to do with this. We are not debating about forcing religious views on others. Edited by AdminPD, : Warning

I don't think the guilt comes from what others think in every case. Maybe not even in yours. If you lost friends over this, then maybe they weren't really your friends to begin with.I felt guilt, because I knew that I had killed a life. One that I was blessed with the opportunity of creating, and I abused that opportunity. No one told me that, it's just how I felt all by myself. No-one even knew I went through it, as we kept it a secret. My fiance at the time, felt the same thing as me, and several other people I know who went through it, all felt the same thing. Well I think that is total BS. I am not to blame for what happens in nature. I suppose I am responsible for all those fire's in Cali as well?Are woman sluts only if they get pregnant?
Am I a slut because I got a vasectomy, so I can have sex all the time now?Maybe when people start facing reality, and stop blaming the world for their problems, abortion will be illegal, and getting pregnant, and having sex will be taken more seriously. If we spent the amount of money on education instead of abortions, maybe we wouldn't need abortions either.But don't worry, because I am sure nator is going to provide some study to prove that theory wrong. Edited by AdminPD, : Warning

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