I had already read the "OMG, I'm an Atheist!" thread, both of the moderation threads that discuss it, and everything NJ said in both Haggard threads. There were no instances in any of those threads of NJ equating homosexuality with rape.
It seems like that part was added on in a game of telephone.
People were saying that the argument on moral relativism that mentions both homosexuality and rape means that the poster is saying that homosexuality is equivalent to rape.
You're not left-minded enought to get it.