Like a diety is going to have hurt feelings!!!??? A fellow fragile human being needs some gentleness and help. A omipotent ruler/creator of ths cosmos needs their ego protected?
Come on! Geez!
S/he knows and understands our innermost self, why would it have a problem with our feelings.
You seem to be using anecdotal reports as some sort of evidence. In addition there is no way of determining the pain input in the two cases. I don't think this means much one way or the other.