Now, I know it's a hard desison for most people, but in my own personal experience, some folks treat it like another form of birth control.
Who, exactly?
I mean, we're talking about an uncomfortable, stigmatized surgical procedure with very real risks. Who goes in for one every other month, or whatever? It
can't possibly be pleasant to go through.
Maybe you're right and some people do, but I guess I find that a little unbelievable.
The fact is, we truely don't know when to say the baby in the womb is an individual
Well, I know, or have a suspicion, anyway - no baby in a womb is an individual. You don't develop individual conciousness until exposure to language, which happens after birth. (I'd say that this view is largely supported by the phenomenon of "feral children", but obviously, it's by no means confirmed.)