How about the system which has served most cultures of humanity for nearly all of of human history until our times when youth gangs are prevalent
Two things wrong with this. Firstly, you are once again appealing to tradition; you have been called out on this several times and have so far not explained why you follow some rules from the Bible and not others. Apparently being the head of the household works for you but owning slaves doesn't, but you won't explain why. Lots of chaps in the Bible had several wives and concubines as well. They could also sell their children into slavery, though the daughter's price was set lower than the son's. Why aren't you following these sacred Biblical precedents?
The other thing is that people banging their moral gong always blame society's ills on whatever it is they are preaching against. Darwin, according to creationists, is apparently responsible for liberals, women who don't know their place, governments that tell them what to do, litter on the highway and whatever else winds them up. At the moment it isn't Darwin though, it's families that don't try to live like Hebrew tribes did thousands of years ago.
Pardon me if I don't stone my daughter to death when she loses her virginity.
What's so bad about a little fear?
What's bad about making your children afraid of you because you hit them with a stick or threaten to do so? If you're actually asking this question then I think it speaks for itself.
By the way, I'd lose my job if I hit my students. Curiously, I get them to behave just fine using other methods. They don't fear me, they respect me. The same goes for my daughter. Even curiouser, she is not a "bratty" child, she behaves fine when we go out, she knows where the boundaries are and they are consistently enforced. All this and no hitting with sticks. Funny, that.
Nothing works better than a stingy painful spanking which does not physical harm.
Yes that really taught me my lesson over and over when I was little. [/sarcasm]
after mild corporal punishment the first thing my little boy would do is come up and buddy up to me, realizing that he was forwarned and that the stingy spanking on the butt with a small stick was deserved?
And you seem to have missed the bit where I pointed out that as his father, you would have been one of the most important people in his life. A little child depends on its parents for love, approval, and safety. This is ironically why, even when a parent is the instigator of some kind of pain, the child will go right back to that parent for comforting. Just something to think about.
It was in the more serious instances when she would have me take care of it. A little healthy mental anguish is fine.
This is deeply disturbing.
Edited by Kitsune, : No reason given.